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Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 5:47 am ]
Post subject:  Who are the best guys here?

I have been advised to condense my posts.... but these are different topics, so I don't see how I can....

Who are the best guys here? How many girls have you been with?

How do you usually meet them? How long do you talk to them before you have sex with them?

In general, what is your game?

Author:  hugge [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 12:47 pm ]
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I'm the best! And I've been with one million girls! Or maybe just one!?

I'm obviously not serious. But here is the thing... I do believe I have slightly better game than most people, since naturals don't have the awareness and mindfullness to make any conscious "game" (they are just "themselves", whatever that means), and PUAs are usually insecure and inexperienced dudes in their twenties. But I'm completely convinced there are much better dudes than me. Or at least equal. But...

...how do I know I'm good? I haven't even been with more than a handful girls, so the statistics are not in my favor. But I know, because I compare myself with others (even if I shouldn't) in all areas that count as "game":

1. How dominant am I in a group? Do I take space, do I speak up, and do people respect me?

2. How confident do I feel? Can I see another person in the eyes? Can I touch her without hesitation? And so on...

3. Do I take action? Have I succeeded with my goals in life?

4. Do girls chase me in the club?

And the list goes on. And to answer the question what my game looks like... A mix of RSD Tyler and RSD Julien I suppose. But I don't even do pickup anymore, because I'm married. But my "game" is always on, because I don't really think game and pickup is even related. Game is simply what it takes to be successful and attractive, which you can do 24/7 without hitting on girls. Pickup on the other hand is the act of showing your sexual intentions, ON TOP of game!

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 4:25 pm ]
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Its quality over quantity bro.

When I was younger I was with a lot more women than I have been with now because I had a lot less preference in the past. All she had to do was be good looking and I would be all over it. As you grow, you get beyond the looks, you realize that every chick looks the same after you have sex with them a couple times. Its all just like "ehh". The allure is gone after a chick without anything below the surface has been "conquered".

The goal is to be able to have sex with the types of women YOU want to have sex with. Its about knowing what you want and knowing what you have to become to get there.

I've personally been good with women my entire life. My granddad had a lot of women growing up, my dad followed suit, and I was next in life. The two primary things he said he would teach me is how to make money and how to get women. The rest I would figure out along my own personal life journey.

How long do we talk before sex? Its always different. Sometimes a day, sometimes a week. All depending on the natural chemistry taking place vs the ability to generate attraction. The girls promiscuous nature, how I make her feel, how I feel and the frame that I am projecting.

I think your root problem is that you just don't like women. Women want to be "desired" and based on your post I don't see that desire within you. Its going to be something you have to cultivate to begin increasing your success levels.

Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 5:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Who are the best guys here?

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Its quality over quantity bro.

When I was younger I was with a lot more women than I have been with now because I had a lot less preference in the past. All she had to do was be good looking and I would be all over it. As you grow, you get beyond the looks, you realize that every chick looks the same after you have sex with them a couple times. Its all just like "ehh". The allure is gone after a chick without anything below the surface has been "conquered".

The goal is to be able to have sex with the types of women YOU want to have sex with. Its about knowing what you want and knowing what you have to become to get there.

I've personally been good with women my entire life. My granddad had a lot of women growing up, my dad followed suit, and I was next in life. The two primary things he said he would teach me is how to make money and how to get women. The rest I would figure out along my own personal life journey.

How long do we talk before sex? Its always different. Sometimes a day, sometimes a week. All depending on the natural chemistry taking place vs the ability to generate attraction. The girls promiscuous nature, how I make her feel, how I feel and the frame that I am projecting.

I think your root problem is that you just don't like women. Women want to be "desired" and based on your post I don't see that desire within you. Its going to be something you have to cultivate to begin increasing your success levels.
How do I fix it if I don't like them? What do you like about them? What do you desire about them?

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 5:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Who are the best guys here?

I like everything from the way a woman walks, to the feminine tone of her voice. I love the woman because i understand her ins and outs. I understand the mechanics that go into her natural psychology . And because I have accepted this and know how operate it, she's accepted me.

Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character and your character becomes your destiny.

A mental reprograming is necessary. A new perspective. New information. New understandings. You can do it yourself or you can be worked through it with the help of another.

However, you've already started the process by coming here and seeking out this information. All that need be done now is for you to disregard all you "think" you know on this subject, and replace that with the knowledge of the people who have what it is you seek. What you know has gotten you all its going to get you. Rid yourself of it. Empty it out.

Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 5:38 pm ]
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Quote:
I like everything from the way a woman walks, to the feminine tone of her voice. I love the woman because i understand her ins and outs. I understand the mechanics that go into her natural psychology . And because I have accepted this and know how operate it, she's accepted me.

Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character and your character becomes your destiny.

A mental reprograming is necessary. A new perspective. New information. New understandings. You can do it yourself or you can be worked through it with the help of another.

However, you've already started the process by coming here and seeking out this information. All that need be done now is for you to disregard all you "think" you know on this subject, and replace that with the knowledge of the people who have what it is you seek. What you know has gotten you all its going to get you. Rid yourself of it. Empty it out.
At this point, I can look at a girl that everyone else thinks is "so hot," and I am completely unfazed by it and notice how her makeup is caking up and I completely devalue her in my head to the point where I think of her as worthless. This is not true of all of them, but it happens at times.

How much does this reprogramming cost?

Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 6:15 pm ]
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This is a troll. Stop feeding it.

Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 6:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Who are the best guys here?

Quote:
This is a troll. Stop feeding it.
I am not a troll. My posts are all specific. I am looking for advice.

Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 6:35 pm ]
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Use the search tool and find your problem instead of making so many threads then

Author:  redstar1324 [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Who are the best guys here?

Quote:
Use the search tool and find your problem instead of making so many threads then
I actually got good responses to this one and a tip on a "bootcamp" type thing, which is something I know I probably should do.

So, I think I'm good.

Author:  Dragula [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 6:39 pm ]
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Coolio,

Get your trolling posts in whilst you still can. You're about to be banned.

Author:  BroBro [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 6:42 pm ]
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I like everything from the way a woman walks, to the feminine tone of her voice. I love the woman because i understand her ins and outs. I understand the mechanics that go into her natural psychology . And because I have accepted this and know how operate it, she's accepted me.

Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character and your character becomes your destiny.

A mental reprograming is necessary. A new perspective. New information. New understandings. You can do it yourself or you can be worked through it with the help of another.

However, you've already started the process by coming here and seeking out this information. All that need be done now is for you to disregard all you "think" you know on this subject, and replace that with the knowledge of the people who have what it is you seek. What you know has gotten you all its going to get you. Rid yourself of it. Empty it out.

I picture you looking exactly like your avatar man, LOL

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 05, 2015 6:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Who are the best guys here?

Quote:
Quote:
I like everything from the way a woman walks, to the feminine tone of her voice. I love the woman because i understand her ins and outs. I understand the mechanics that go into her natural psychology . And because I have accepted this and know how operate it, she's accepted me.

Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character and your character becomes your destiny.

A mental reprograming is necessary. A new perspective. New information. New understandings. You can do it yourself or you can be worked through it with the help of another.

However, you've already started the process by coming here and seeking out this information. All that need be done now is for you to disregard all you "think" you know on this subject, and replace that with the knowledge of the people who have what it is you seek. What you know has gotten you all its going to get you. Rid yourself of it. Empty it out.

I picture you looking exactly like your avatar man, LOL
Lol I do.

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