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Author:  witsy93 [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:42 pm ]
Post subject:  capatlizing after getting a number
Alright here's the thing I have no problem approaching new women I can usually keep the convo going and have Had many evenings where it feels like I make a good connection with the girl and can spend hours talking. Before I leave or she leaves that when I get her number the only problem is and it happens Alot when i try to txt them (I usually wait at least a day before I try and connect with them) they never respond back what am I doing wrong it's getting pretty annoying any help is appreciated
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: capatlizing after getting a number
1) Don't wait a day. That rule is bullshit.

2) You're probably not generating enough attraction or making your intentions clear when you get the number. These aren't quality numbers if you aren't getting replies. Try more escalation and a more social, positive interaction when you first meet her - before you get the number.
Author:  witsy93 [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: capatlizing after getting a number
That's the thing I am doing all those things and it usually feels like a sure thing when I try connecting again but it's always a crash and burn is there a sure fire way to get her to at least meet up again
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: capatlizing after getting a number
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That's the thing I am doing all those things and it usually feels like a sure thing when I try connecting again but it's always a crash and burn is there a sure fire way to get her to at least meet up again
If it happens a lot, I would rethink your stance on this. Maybe you should give an example of one of your conversations that get you the number (not word for word).
Author:  witsy93 [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: capatlizing after getting a number
This one just happened the other night me and a friend came back from the movies to his apartment and I ran into a friend from high school I had no idea he lived there (I'm in the military so I'm not in this area all that much) anyways he introduces me to his girlfriend and her roommate. The roommate was the girl I was interested in so we got off to talking turns out she went to a rival highschool and knew Alot of People I knew so convo was smooth. Oh there were also 2 other guys thete but they were pretty pathetic looking so I was Def alpha male I'm the group the night went and we carried out talking I tried the cocktail funny techniques and hitting her with subtle negs more flirty than anything that usually got a giggle out of her before the night ended I knew I had to try and capatalizw so I said I'm hungry and asked if she wanted to go fir a drive to mcdonalds. I wasn't actually hungry just wanted to get her alone it worked we continued talking about similar interests on the car ride and pulled up the restraint I asked if she wanted anything she said no so I just ordered a vanilla shake regardless she got a kick out of it. Took her back to her apartment and before we parted I got her number said nice to meet you give me a call or txt sometime and walked away. Day after I'm digging through my car in the parking lot and she just happens to pull up I act like I didn't notice at first then see her and ask her about her day all in all in was like 5 min that we talked there I asked if she wanted to up and hang out and she said sure just let me get something to eat first and that she will txt I walk up 2 hours pass so I txt her and ask if she's coming no reply I thought I was in is she testing me or something
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: capatlizing after getting a number
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This one just happened the other night me and a friend came back from the movies to his apartment and I ran into a friend from high school I had no idea he lived there (I'm in the military so I'm not in this area all that much) anyways he introduces me to his girlfriend and her roommate. The roommate was the girl I was interested in so we got off to talking turns out she went to a rival highschool and knew Alot of People I knew so convo was smooth. Oh there were also 2 other guys thete but they were pretty pathetic looking so I was Def alpha male I'm the group the night went and we carried out talking I tried the cocktail funny techniques and hitting her with subtle negs more flirty than anything that usually got a giggle out of her before the night ended I knew I had to try and capatalizw so I said I'm hungry and asked if she wanted to go fir a drive to mcdonalds. I wasn't actually hungry just wanted to get her alone it worked we continued talking about similar interests on the car ride and pulled up the restraint I asked if she wanted anything she said no so I just ordered a vanilla shake regardless she got a kick out of it. Took her back to her apartment and before we parted I got her number said nice to meet you give me a call or txt sometime and walked away. Day after I'm digging through my car in the parking lot and she just happens to pull up I act like I didn't notice at first then see her and ask her about her day all in all in was like 5 min that we talked there I asked if she wanted to up and hang out and she said sure just let me get something to eat first and that she will txt I walk up 2 hours pass so I txt her and ask if she's coming no reply I thought I was in is she testing me or something
From what you've described, the most she gave you was a giggle. As Charles said, it doesn't seem like you built actual attraction. She was definitely entertained by you though.

Btw...if you thought she was interested in you and had her isolated, why didn't you make a move? Doing nothing is an attraction killer.
Author:  witsy93 [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: capatlizing after getting a number
I assumed since she was mainly interested in me that night I was in the clear and I didn't make a move because I thought I'd try the nice guy routine and try and get a date with her later on I just txt her today to see what she's up to still no reply
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 6:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: capatlizing after getting a number
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the nice guy routine
:roll:
Author:  JackZero [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 6:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: capatlizing after getting a number
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I assumed since she was mainly interested in me that night I was in the clear and I didn't make a move because I thought I'd try the nice guy routine and try and get a date with her later on I just txt her today to see what she's up to still no reply
What would you think if you were in her shoes if she were interested and shown more interest than what you described? She agreed to let you isolate her and you did nothing. She let you take her back to her place and you did nothing. Why would she go spend more alone time with you if your pattern is giving her nothing? Nice guys escalate too.
Author:  witsy93 [ Wed Jun 03, 2015 6:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: capatlizing after getting a number
...holy shit mind blown thanks man it was simple but opened my eyes it was probably possible rejection or fear that held me back
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