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Hey guys I feel like I'm currently in the process of completely losing my game right now. I'm in ibiza and have been for the last month doing a season out here. Right basically my problem is I have literally been to bed with like 10 different women in this time and not once have I had sex. When I'm back home if I get a girl back to my yard I always always always finish. It's so strange, like I'm meeting up with so many different girls each and every day here and I'm just sure their attraction to me is just not there. Like if I go for a meal with a chick all she wants to do is go home to sleep on her own after, and I barely get a kiss on the cheek!! This has never been the case for me, like I have slept with about 20 in the last few months when I was back home, and don't have no problem getting them. I split up with my ex about 2 months ago but we still have contact, I don't know if this is causing me to stop giving out the right signals to other women? Or am I so desperate to get laid that this is putting the chicks off? I'm basically feeling rejected right now as I'm only 24 yo and everyone over here is banging left right and centre, like dudes this is the best party island surely I should be getting something.

Anyone know what I'm doing wrong or what the problem is? And has anyone has this problem theirselves as I feel like the worlds coming to end for me getting laid anymore? Please help!
Thanks

Author:	dontchasethat [ Fri May 22, 2015 7:58 am ]
Post subject:	Literally cannot close anymore! Help!
Hey guys I feel like I'm currently in the process of completely losing my game right now. I'm in ibiza and have been for the last month doing a season out here. Right basically my problem is I have literally been to bed with like 10 different women in this time and not once have I had sex. When I'm back home if I get a girl back to my yard I always always always finish. It's so strange, like I'm meeting up with so many different girls each and every day here and I'm just sure their attraction to me is just not there. Like if I go for a meal with a chick all she wants to do is go home to sleep on her own after, and I barely get a kiss on the cheek!! This has never been the case for me, like I have slept with about 20 in the last few months when I was back home, and don't have no problem getting them. I split up with my ex about 2 months ago but we still have contact, I don't know if this is causing me to stop giving out the right signals to other women? Or am I so desperate to get laid that this is putting the chicks off? I'm basically feeling rejected right now as I'm only 24 yo and everyone over here is banging left right and centre, like dudes this is the best party island surely I should be getting something. Anyone know what I'm doing wrong or what the problem is? And has anyone has this problem theirselves as I feel like the worlds coming to end for me getting laid anymore? Please help! Thanks

Author:	Chief [ Fri May 22, 2015 8:38 am ]
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Are you being direct with your sexual interest? Lots of guys who use indirect methods have similar issues sometimes. And hows your kino? What cultural differences have you noticed regarding kino? Lots of factors to take into account here.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Fri May 22, 2015 12:32 pm ]
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You attitude will push you through man. Panic will only create more situation to panic over. You're freaking out right now, for good reason, but freaking out is still freaking out regardless. You don't have a problem man. You've just hit a little wall like we all do eventually in life that you have eventually get over. Its all about trusting yourself. Its about trusting that a break through is near. Once you get "one" you'l be back into the mindset to recreate a new pattern. Understand that you've already been with more women in your 20 years of life than most men will ever be with in their entire life. You're doing just fine. I'd personally cut contact with the Ex and focus, but you have to make that decision for yourself. You have the confidence, I'm sure you're decent looking, all you need to do need is persistence and patience. I hit a point in which my dick wouldn't get hard with a girl that I actually liked for over a year. If it wasn't a one night stand, it just wasn't working out. I panicked and had to eventually relax and get myself through it. I now have greater ability to get erections that I ever had before. We all reach challenges in life. Its part of what makes us who we are. Persist bro and be patient with yourself. You'll get back to who you've always been.

Author:	Versalis [ Mon May 25, 2015 1:04 am ]
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Not sure. It sounds like you're taking them on dates? These girls are in party mode, and party mode and diner dates are basically two different categories. She's over stimulated from all the partying and a diner date isn't exactly going to compare.

Author:	PatrickAnanda [ Mon May 25, 2015 2:56 pm ]
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Quote: Hey guys I feel like I'm currently in the process of completely losing my game right now. I'm in ibiza and have been for the last month doing a season out here. Right basically my problem is I have literally been to bed with like 10 different women in this time and not once have I had sex. When I'm back home if I get a girl back to my yard I always always always finish. It's so strange, like I'm meeting up with so many different girls each and every day here and I'm just sure their attraction to me is just not there. Like if I go for a meal with a chick all she wants to do is go home to sleep on her own after, and I barely get a kiss on the cheek!! This has never been the case for me, like I have slept with about 20 in the last few months when I was back home, and don't have no problem getting them. I split up with my ex about 2 months ago but we still have contact, I don't know if this is causing me to stop giving out the right signals to other women? Or am I so desperate to get laid that this is putting the chicks off? I'm basically feeling rejected right now as I'm only 24 yo and everyone over here is banging left right and centre, like dudes this is the best party island surely I should be getting something. Anyone know what I'm doing wrong or what the problem is? And has anyone has this problem theirselves as I feel like the worlds coming to end for me getting laid anymore? Please help! Thanks Stop wanting, stop chasing, stop clinging. I mean this from a spiritual standpoint. You tell yourself "Im 24, I should be getting laid" "everyone is getting laid" "something is wrong with me". All of it is nonsense. So lets say you fucked 1 girl finally. That means 10 girls were a no go, and 1 was a go. does that suddenly end your supposed cold streak? Or do you need to do 10 / 10 for it to be over? Does that harm your self-image? A man who can only close less than 10% of what he sets out to do? My point is that you need to relax and shift your focus. Men often forget the most important rule in seduction: At the end of the day, no matter what, no matter how good your game or how tight your method or whatever other pua bullshit you believe in, no matter what, she always choses. She always choses Women are women are women. Stop trying to understand it. There's always an element of randomness to all of this. Maybe some of the girls were on their periods, maybe others just had their hearts broken etc etc. Why are you taking ownership over other people's emotions? And finally, who cares that you didn't get laid? Like who gives a flying fuck. Are all of your accomplishments condensed into your groin area? I'm not saying that sex is bad. I'm playing devil's advocate to take the pressure off your shoulders. If all you are doing is trying to take something from them - not share an experience, but to take (another notch on your belt. Who gives a fuck how many girls you banged back home? Get a hold of yourself), then women will shut down all around you instinctively. Breathe, relax, be. With love and respect Mack

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Author:	dontchasethat [ Wed Dec 21, 2016 2:42 pm ]
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Long time since I been online but a quick update on this. I stayed a few months longer and ended up getting a regular girl and meeting another. I wasn't really on the correct vibrational frequency on that island but since jve been back home end of summer 2015 I've had non stop lays. Thinking of doing another season or travelling to various countries in 2017, anyone got any ideas?

Author:	DJ_Z [ Thu Dec 22, 2016 2:01 am ]
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Quote: Long time since I been online but a quick update on this. I stayed a few months longer and ended up getting a regular girl and meeting another. I wasn't really on the correct vibrational frequency on that island but since jve been back home end of summer 2015 I've had non stop lays. Thinking of doing another season or travelling to various countries in 2017, anyone got any ideas? Vibrational frequency? I dunno where you should go next, but wherever you go ditch that psycho woo woo nonsense. And good luck.

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