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Author:  limpbizkit13 [ Sun May 17, 2015 3:46 am ]
Post subject:  am i loosing her or what?
soo ive been talking to this girl for couple weeks now, shes a college student about to graduate and work at the same time. we admitted that we like each other, wanted to try if we can working things out even though we’re far from each other. she also mentioned that she has some trust issues with guys because of her past experience and she introduced me to her friends so (idk if thats something or just formality and if that has affect on her initiating the conversation) so i had been txting her for a while and i decided to stop for couple days, giver her space ( study, work , maker her miss me and do those fun stuff) just to see if she would initiate the conversation or anything but she aint. so idk if we’re just a fling or whatever? also its weird because she would like my ig pics and check out my snapchats but wont txt me . same here with me il check her snaps and ig but i wont txt her.. also, i see her partying all the time so yea.. what should i do? thanks!
Author:  Dragula [ Sun May 17, 2015 6:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: am i loosing her or what?
Text her and get to the point. Get her on a date. That's the real indicator to see if she likes you.

Some girls are very disciplined with texting and will happily never text again even if she does like you.
Author:  limpbizkit13 [ Mon May 18, 2015 3:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: am i loosing her or what?
Quote:
Text her and get to the point. Get her on a date. That's the real indicator to see if she likes you.

Some girls are very disciplined with texting and will happily never text again even if she does like you.
i txted her but it seems like she doesn't want to talk or idk.. i sent her good morning txt and just got a reply a good morning ..
Author:  Ryanm74 [ Mon May 18, 2015 4:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: am i loosing her or what?
If you see here out partying all the time. she has time to atleast meet you for coffee. If she gives the excuse 'shes very busy' ask her what day would be best and go off that. she could be busy with school and work so keep that in mind. I would go out and find more woman to keep you in the game just in case this one is a dud.Good luck and update us what you find out.
Author:  AndreasJacobsen [ Mon May 18, 2015 2:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: am i loosing her or what?
Do you feel like chasing her still? Do you really like her?

Then ask her out. Can't make it?
Ask her out some other time. Can't make it?
Ask her out some other time.
Repeat.

For me, I like to chase, but when I hit a point, where I won't bother any more or she CLEARLY says no, I let her go. Women can find it very thrilling and exciting to be chased, to be the prey of a man, she desires.

So I say that you are your own master with this - how long will you choose to chase her?

And for gods sake, ask her out on a proper date already! texting has very limited use, so I wouldn't bother with the good morning texts, but whatever floats your boat :)
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon May 18, 2015 7:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: am i loosing her or what?
Whats the nature of the relationship?

Any dates?

Any kiss?

Any sex?

Sounds like faded attraction for lack of your taking action to me. And how do you reply after she said "good morning"
Author:  limpbizkit13 [ Tue May 19, 2015 7:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: am i loosing her or what?
Quote:
If you see here out partying all the time. she has time to atleast meet you for coffee. If she gives the excuse 'shes very busy' ask her what day would be best and go off that. she could be busy with school and work so keep that in mind. I would go out and find more woman to keep you in the game just in case this one is a dud.Good luck and update us what you find out.
i txted her again last night, i asked her how she doing and hope everything is well and just wanted to catch up. didnt get a reply, txted her good morning earlier and said good luck on her finals , got a txt 30mins later said thank you everything is good just been really busy. ( just to give you guys more info this girl is from SF and im from LA)
Author:  limpbizkit13 [ Tue May 19, 2015 7:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: am i loosing her or what?
Quote:
Do you feel like chasing her still? Do you really like her?

Then ask her out. Can't make it?
Ask her out some other time. Can't make it?
Ask her out some other time.
Repeat.

For me, I like to chase, but when I hit a point, where I won't bother any more or she CLEARLY says no, I let her go. Women can find it very thrilling and exciting to be chased, to be the prey of a man, she desires.

So I say that you are your own master with this - how long will you choose to chase her?

And for gods sake, ask her out on a proper date already! texting has very limited use, so I wouldn't bother with the good morning texts, but whatever floats your boat :)


we already went out one time, we had sex. after couple weeks i went to see her again stayed over night and she actually made breakfast so i thought this girl really liked me. by the way shes from s.f and im from l.a
so txting or calling are my only means of communication
Author:  limpbizkit13 [ Tue May 19, 2015 7:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: am i loosing her or what?
*update* ( info the girl is from sf and im from l.a)
i txted her last night ask her how she doing and wanting to catch up. didnt get a reply a until morning after i greeted her good morning and wishing her good luck on her finals her reply was " good morning, thank you all is good, just been really busy" and i didnt reply. past weekend, she went out partying, went to a family, wedding and one of her best friends bday. how i found out? snapchat so yea.. now i got another snapchat, shes just on instagram liking pictures.. so idk whats up with this girl. shoul i just move on? too bad i really like this girl but i guess there's just something off.
Author:  R.C [ Tue May 19, 2015 8:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: am i loosing her or what?
Your texting is pointless. No purpose. No wonder she's not investing.

Read my guide - link's in the sig. You'll figure your mistakes out on your own.
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