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Author:  SouthSection [ Fri May 15, 2015 9:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Did I Mess Up As A Wingman? Next Steps?
So there's this cute Asian girl in my college class, I'd say she's about a HB8.5. I never noticed her until today when my boy came to drop me off something in class and he asked me to get her number for him. He's an attractive dude and wouldn't have a problem pulling a hot girl if he wasn't such a *****.

So I went over to her at the end of class (we'd never spoke before) and introduced myself, cracked a few jokes, kino'd a bit and then asked her for her number for my boy. She said she'd think about it.

Ever since then, this girl has been constantly touching me. I saw her walking across campus and she came up to me and linked arms so I said, "What's up?" and she just said doesn't matter and walked off giggling. She purposely keeps bumping into me with her shoulder outside of class and just tapping me and/or putting her head on my arm and then walking off too. They are the only IOI's I get though. Apart from that, she comes across as uninterested.

So basically, did I mess up as a wingman by possibly coming on too intense? Should I tone it down for the next time? Also, this girl is definitely my type. I'm getting the feeling she may be interested, but I'm not too sure, I've never had a girl be so hands on before. Normally I just get the glances across the room etc, but I'm not getting that with this girl, only the touching. I don't want to go and approach and appear as a "fake" to my friend if it isn't pretty much certain. I know nobody can tell before I ask for her number, but what would you say it sounds like to you?
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Sat May 16, 2015 3:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did I Mess Up As A Wingman? Next Steps?
the fuck? Let your man do the gaming, you don't owe him anything. If you really wanted to, you can orchestrate a meetup at a party or somewhere social where this girl and your friend meet. But that is if you really wanted to put the effort in them hooking up.


Other than that...personally I'd just keep up this attitude, she is probably wondering why you aren't trying to get in dem jeans. Take it for what it is worth.
Author:  R.C [ Sat May 16, 2015 6:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Did I Mess Up As A Wingman? Next Steps?
Your friend failed the moment he asked you to get her number for him.

She's into you.
Author:  hugge [ Sat May 16, 2015 1:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did I Mess Up As A Wingman? Next Steps?
She's probably interested in you. But you never know, because some girls are very flirtatious without any special thought behind it. You need to make a move and escalate, intensify the vibe between you two. Give her an IOI and see how she responds to it. Reward her IOIs with more IOIs.

Regarding your role as a wingman, yes you fucked up the very moment you approached. But on the other hand, there's nothing you can do as a wing to a guy who is a complete *****. The girl is your "set" now. You own it.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat May 16, 2015 1:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Did I Mess Up As A Wingman? Next Steps?
The is that much of a big deal, but I'd mention it to him anyway.

" Hey bro, That asian chick is into me. You wouldn't mind would you? "

I'm sure he wouldn't, but bring it up anyway and see what he says. I'm bros over hoes at the end of the day. I've had to turn down a couple chicks I wanted just out of respect for my friend. She's not the only one man. Its just one girl. If you have to let her go, do so. The attitude that makes a guy willing to do such a thing is the same attitude that make a guy more successful at generating attraction. I'd go so far as to say that the reason she likes you as much as she does is because of your apprehension to not come in between your friendship. You do that, and the attraction could fade. It happens all the time.
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