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| Author: | raulitomat [ Thu Apr 30, 2015 8:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I got a huge problem |
I have never dated an ugly girl but i have this problem: I may get 7,8,9 but i do it by accident and it doesn't works all the time, been reading books about How to have better conversations because as soon has my mind understands i like one specific girl and i go and talk to her i run out of things to say and suddenly become a meatball of shit, i only get girls when i know they also like me but ¿how do i get the girls that don't and how to make them? I'm 18 and ill work hard to become a PUA, how do i start? (I have tons of PUA books) |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Thu Apr 30, 2015 8:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I got a huge problem |
Just keep approaching bro. At 18, I can't imagine you've done nearly enough approaches to break through this problem. Its incredibly common and the more you put yourself out there and approach the less of a problem it will become. How many women would you say you have approached in your life time? |
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| Author: | raulitomat [ Thu Apr 30, 2015 11:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I got a huge problem |
Quote: Just keep approaching bro.
Not too many to be honest, also all my friends (Girls) they're hot most of them... but i get friendzoned, i once got a shot but i didn't know how to read signs by that time
At 18, I can't imagine you've done nearly enough approaches to break through this problem. Its incredibly common and the more you put yourself out there and approach the less of a problem it will become. How many women would you say you have approached in your life time? |
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| Author: | hugge [ Fri May 01, 2015 8:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I got a huge problem |
You will actually NEVER be able to make someone like you! You are not meant to have chemistry with everyone. I have been following RSDs free content for a couple of years now, and with the latest videos from Julien I have finally confirmed that some aspects of my own game is FAR better than his (even though people see him as Messias). And my game is as follows... Either I just mess around and talk to people everywhere, aimlessly, with no goal or outcome in mind. Everytime I do this girls start chasing, and when they do I just pick someone who interests me the most and take it from there. Or I see a girl who interests me... That's when my brain starts working, figuring out what kind of approach that will make the best impression and have most success. I know that I have to offer value, usually in the form of a good mood. So I start playing around with whoever stands or sits closest to me, may it be her friend. And once I've done that I'm back in the same situation as above, talking to everyone. If my "target" shows any interest, it's all good. Otherwise it was just not meant to be. And conversations that die? Pauses are meant to be filled with something else, either DO something (but a drink, walk somewhere else, whatever), or talk to someone else for a while. Nobody wants to have a conversation with a single person all night long, unless you get into the "bubble" of rapport, which is a strong sign of good chemistry. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Fri May 01, 2015 2:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I got a huge problem |
Quote: Just keep approaching bro.
^ This. You'll learn the most from failing and from being rejected. Get out there!
At 18, I can't imagine you've done nearly enough approaches to break through this problem. Its incredibly common and the more you put yourself out there and approach the less of a problem it will become. How many women would you say you have approached in your life time? |
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| Author: | ImPhilosopher [ Fri May 01, 2015 2:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I got a huge problem |
Go out and approach girls. Reset you mind about yourself. If you think that you dont deserve her then you not going to get her. Change you mindset about yourself. Go out and approach girls, you will be natural after some approaches. |
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| Author: | raulitomat [ Sat May 02, 2015 8:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I got a huge problem |
Quote: Quote: Just keep approaching bro.
^ This. You'll learn the most from failing and from being rejected. Get out there!At 18, I can't imagine you've done nearly enough approaches to break through this problem. Its incredibly common and the more you put yourself out there and approach the less of a problem it will become. How many women would you say you have approached in your life time? |
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| Author: | Adam_Sandler [ Wed May 13, 2015 6:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I got a huge problem |
Girls do the choosing, if a girl is not attracted to you and not interested, then there is not a whole lot you can do. Ideally, you wanted to look for girls that show indications of interest. Other than that girls with a neutral opinion suffice. At times, girls that are interested, or of a neutral disposition will act disinterested as a way to test you, appear hard to get, their ego, etc. This sometimes complicates things. The 3 main things a girl is looking for in a man: -Good conversation -A Good time -Good sex If you convey that you can provide all three things, you can attract a lot of women. That being said, girls do not have the time nor interest to find out if every man can provide the things above so they use mental shortcuts when choosing to invest time in a particular guy. Ultimately you want to display strength in a number of areas for a girl to choose to invest time in you. -Look good: dress well in clothes that suit you, and take care of you body and physical hygiene -Display confidence and sexuality: focus on good body language, the tone and manner in which you speak, have giving off a confident vibe, use physical contact, be direct and take risks. -Show that you are a fun guy: focus on making fun and interesting conversation and interaction, have a wide array of activities which you are knowledgeable about, and can invite her to -Show that you have some sort of status: whether that be a large social circle, the leader of a team or group of friends, success at work etc. Those are just a few |
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