PUA Forum :: Moral dilemas & game

This girl I've been talking to/seeing for 2.5 years totally has the hots for me. She's a NICE girl, has a good career ahead of her, really down to earth.. There's quite a few things I like about her actually.. Her looks aren't one.. She's kinda heavy which isn't really my thing. She also loves to drink (she has sent me some really sexually charged text whilst drunk) and party (not my thing) and she also REALLY wants to have kids down the road.. So there's some pluses but also some big time negatives as well as things that make me wonder if we have long term potential... Yet she has been so interested in me for SO long and has always been so understanding, I couldn't image telling her I'm dating someone else and cutting her out of my life.

THEN there's this other girl who is really cute... However. I've never met her!... Yet she ASKED IF WE COULD BE BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND already. Reading her she seems clingy, sensitive, sincere and as if she is seeking a long term relationship.. I really don't get why she is so into me, by the looks of her many a mug would be happy to call her his... She has negatives too though. Only 19 (I'm 26), only makes 10$ an hour, lives with her parents (as do I), lives an hour away, and she doesn't even drive or have a car..

I could probably have sex with BOTH of these two women before the week is over but I can't bring myself to lead either of them on for a one night stand.. I don't want to hurt their feelings you know?! Have had my heartbroken too many times myself... This is all coming from the mind of a 26 year old virgin so I'm really interested in how sexually active dudes and PUAs will respond to this. Don't know if my inexperience with women is clouding my judgement.

Author:	nathoonder [ Tue Apr 28, 2015 11:04 pm ]
Post subject:	Moral dilemas & game
This girl I've been talking to/seeing for 2.5 years totally has the hots for me. She's a NICE girl, has a good career ahead of her, really down to earth.. There's quite a few things I like about her actually.. Her looks aren't one.. She's kinda heavy which isn't really my thing. She also loves to drink (she has sent me some really sexually charged text whilst drunk) and party (not my thing) and she also REALLY wants to have kids down the road.. So there's some pluses but also some big time negatives as well as things that make me wonder if we have long term potential... Yet she has been so interested in me for SO long and has always been so understanding, I couldn't image telling her I'm dating someone else and cutting her out of my life. THEN there's this other girl who is really cute... However. I've never met her!... Yet she ASKED IF WE COULD BE BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND already. Reading her she seems clingy, sensitive, sincere and as if she is seeking a long term relationship.. I really don't get why she is so into me, by the looks of her many a mug would be happy to call her his... She has negatives too though. Only 19 (I'm 26), only makes 10$ an hour, lives with her parents (as do I), lives an hour away, and she doesn't even drive or have a car.. I could probably have sex with BOTH of these two women before the week is over but I can't bring myself to lead either of them on for a one night stand.. I don't want to hurt their feelings you know?! Have had my heartbroken too many times myself... This is all coming from the mind of a 26 year old virgin so I'm really interested in how sexually active dudes and PUAs will respond to this. Don't know if my inexperience with women is clouding my judgement.

Author:	schoolofromance [ Wed Apr 29, 2015 8:20 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Moral dilemas & game
Don't over think it my man... If you don't physically escalate, someone else eventually will. If you continue to hold out, they will eventually give up and go look for other guys... For now, maybe you can aim for casual relationships with them, know more about them and see how it goes from there.

Author:	R.C [ Wed Apr 29, 2015 8:55 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Moral dilemas & game
I wouldn't do it if I were me. Because I don't need to. I would do it if I were you. Because you do need to. 26 and a virgin? fuck that, do it. Have sex with both of them. Maybe not the heavy one, personally I have a repulsion towards that kind of thing but that's me. Always put your own needs and happiness first. There's a difference between caring for others and caretaking for them. Don't be a caretaker.

Author:	DominicKrow [ Wed Apr 29, 2015 10:22 am ]
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Try one and another! And than make a choise! I guess after sex you'll chooose neither!)

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Thu Apr 30, 2015 4:37 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Moral dilemas & game
Quote: This girl I've been talking to/seeing for 2.5 years totally has the hots for me. She's a NICE girl, has a good career ahead of her, really down to earth.. There's quite a few things I like about her actually.. Her looks aren't one.. She's kinda heavy which isn't really my thing. She also loves to drink (she has sent me some really sexually charged text whilst drunk) and party (not my thing) and she also REALLY wants to have kids down the road.. So there's some pluses but also some big time negatives as well as things that make me wonder if we have long term potential... Yet she has been so interested in me for SO long and has always been so understanding, I couldn't image telling her I'm dating someone else and cutting her out of my life. THEN there's this other girl who is really cute... However. I've never met her!... Yet she ASKED IF WE COULD BE BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND already. Reading her she seems clingy, sensitive, sincere and as if she is seeking a long term relationship.. I really don't get why she is so into me, by the looks of her many a mug would be happy to call her his... She has negatives too though. Only 19 (I'm 26), only makes 10$ an hour, lives with her parents (as do I), lives an hour away, and she doesn't even drive or have a car.. I could probably have sex with BOTH of these two women before the week is over but I can't bring myself to lead either of them on for a one night stand.. I don't want to hurt their feelings you know?! Have had my heartbroken too many times myself... This is all coming from the mind of a 26 year old virgin so I'm really interested in how sexually active dudes and PUAs will respond to this. Don't know if my inexperience with women is clouding my judgement. And what makes you think you won't give them the most amazing sexual experience of their life, completely changing the way they view life and sexuality? What makes you think you won't give them an experience they can reflect upon for moments of joy for as long as they live? You're too nice. You're still more worried about others a lot more than you are worried about yourself. I'm not telling you to sleep with the girls and hurt them. I'm saying, enjoy them and share good times with the both of them. This whole attitude you're projecting on this forum is not going to make way for amazing women to make their way into your life in the future. This game is all about attitude. And you're attitude says " I deserve insecure/needy and/or Fat girls" You have to straighten that up, and if you think i sound like a dick right now. Thats exactly the problem. 26 years is a mighty long time to be stringing girls along for years and not having sex. This post sounds like it was written by a 14 year old. Seriously. Fuck em both, or choose on, lock in, get married, bang her and do the family thing.

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