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| Author: | Nidhogg [ Mon Apr 20, 2015 7:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Advice appreciated |
G'day all, I have a rather unique situation I would appreciate some advice on; please forgive me if this turns into a novel but I think detail is required. I am currently away from home for work, it is a 6 month trip with a large international group, only a small number of which are Aussies like myself. At this point I am 2 months in, no sex is getting frustrating so I am trying my luck with what I have here. The ratio here is not great so I have a LOT of competition, recently I have had some luck with one girl I work with, however our jobs don't have us interacting much. I was getting good IOIs so I thought I would have a go at picking this girl up. Through a mutual friend I know she is in a LTR, but they haven't seen each other for a while and she is apparently not happy that he hasn't proposed. At this point I know she has a boyfriend, but she doesn't know that I know so I have been progressing slowly to see if she might be keen. My time with her is limited, there is no social setting here, just a small rec centre, always full of people. last night I instigated some light kino, I am a fan of the Di Carlo escalation ladder so I got to overt class 1 before we called it a night, just to test the waters. I was getting some reciprocation, though not as much as I would have liked, however today she instigated text with me twice and when we saw each other briefly I got a few powerful IOIs again so I am feeling optimistic. I would like to escalate the kino a lot more, and I should get the chance soon to move a lot faster. The only thing holding me back at the moment is that whilst talking she spoke down about a co-worker who cheated on her husband. I cant tell if she is morally opposed to cheating in general, or just didn't want to seem like a slut. The emotions when talking about this girl weren't particularly powerful so I am not too worried, and I plan on using SMT if she brings up her boyfriend. I see potential here for a fuck buddy situation but I need to be careful so if it goes sour I can still maintain a working relationship. I know people will say don't shit where you eat, but when there's nowhere else to go that advice becomes moot. Apologies for the long post but it saves me answering a thousand questions later. Any advice is appreciated. Cheers, Luke. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Apr 20, 2015 7:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Advice appreciated |
I really think you should concentrate your energy on something that has potential instead. I have hooked up with girls with bf's but that is only because they did most of the work. I don't think you should actively try to get the girl to cheat with you. You need to adapt your lifestyle and focus your energy on cold approach, this way allows for trial and error. I know this isn't advice you wanted to hear, but I think you're wasting your time with taken women. |
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| Author: | Nidhogg [ Mon Apr 20, 2015 7:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Advice appreciated |
Normally I would agree with you, however my options here are limited and its not costing me anything to have a go; I have nothing but time here and even if I fail I will have learned something valuable. I will still be searching for other opportunities but the idea of 6 months alone with mrs palmer makes me think what hell I might as well keep my skills sharp with any chance I get. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Apr 21, 2015 8:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Advice appreciated |
Quote: Normally I would agree with you, however my options here are limited and its not costing me anything to have a go; I have nothing but time here and even if I fail I will have learned something valuable. I will still be searching for other opportunities but the idea of 6 months alone with mrs palmer makes me think what hell I might as well keep my skills sharp with any chance I get.
You're making an excuse for yourself. Listen to Peb. |
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