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| Author: | Shelikesme330 [ Sun Apr 12, 2015 9:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Punishment and reward |
I heard and read that I was suppose to punish and reward women when they fuck up. What are some ways that I can punish women when necessary? The only techniques I have is to ignore them, tell them not to touch me and call me by my first name instead of pet names, or act turned off/ or uncomfortable when they call me baby. What else can I do more subtle ? What can i do when these bitches act up basically? Ca i get like 10 ideas? |
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| Author: | CESARE [ Mon Apr 13, 2015 7:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Punishment and reward |
You know, when you have a conversation with a girl is important to have eye contact, right? Well, the only thing I do to "punish" a girl is to look away, break this contact. It's a simple sign of disinterest that unconsciously will tell her "I don't like that, you better say something better if you don't want to lose me". This does two things: 1. Makes it clear that I'm the one in power and will choose whether to fuck or not; 2. Makes her work hard to get me, which creates attraction. When a girl starts gaming you instead of you gaming her, it's basically a lay. How could you fuck that up? Anyway, what I wanted to show you is that by "punishing" women it is not meant to be rude or aggressive. A simple sign of disinterest is enough. Just to make it clear, these are some signs of disinterest you can show in these situations: -break eye contact and check out another/other girl(s) while still talking to her; -stop kino escalation; -pointing your feet and shoulders away from her; -go and pick some other girls up and then come to her later (this is a bit extreme, but it works fine in certain occasions). |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Apr 13, 2015 6:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Punishment and reward |
The term punishment is too strong of a term and can give some guys the wrong impression. My punishment is indifference. I respond to a woman to a woman with positive emotion as a reward and she gets met with indifference when she says something I don't like. Women feed off of acknowledgment and will continue any behavior they are acknowledged for whether it be negative or positive acknowledgment. its still emotional fuel that they can use. |
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| Author: | Shelikesme330 [ Tue Apr 14, 2015 2:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Punishment and reward |
Thank you! |
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| Author: | dasmooth [ Tue Apr 14, 2015 10:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Punishment and reward |
Gonna have to agree on what was said about the look away. Thts a good way of making her look ytry hard if she continues to shit testing or a congruence test id say, then it just looks like she's not in the moment n she just cares about what she has to say tht way she can try n get a reaction. Also love doing tht when she's talking, u can just look away for a few secs (2-3) n she'll lke try to lean in or get around to you in order to make eye contact again. If she does tht then I know I've hooked the set. |
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