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| Author: | Checkmate13 [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 1:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help me with this girl please! |
Help! There's this girl I like, super pretty hahah problem is...I have such a hard time making her open up to me. She says that she needs someone to save her and she told me that she wants that person to be me but when I do talk to her she ends up closing herself off and says she's tired and she's not really in the mood to talk. I could get her to talk to me when it's me who has problems but she doesn't seem to enjoy talking about her own problems very much. Any tips? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 1:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me with this girl please! |
Quote: She says that she needs someone to save her and she told me that she wants that person to be me but when I do talk to her she ends up closing herself off and says she's tired and she's not really in the mood to talk.
Wow is she playing you.Imagine if you had the balls to say to a girl "You know... I really want someone to save me. Can that person be you?" I'd wager you couldn't get through it with a straight face. You get her to make more of an effort by leaving her alone. Remember the really nerdy, ugly girl in high school who had a crush on you but you wouldn't really give her the time of day because you were really not interested at all? Treat her like that girl. |
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| Author: | CountRedRover [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 6:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me with this girl please! |
Quote: Remember the really nerdy, ugly girl in high school who had a crush on you but you wouldn't really give her the time of day because you were really not interested at all? Treat her like that girl.
This^If you have any problems figuring out how to achieve that mindset with her: Imagine how a guy who had that mindset would act Imagine how a guy who had that mindset would think Think of guys you know who have that trait Overcompensate with verbals |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 8:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help me with this girl please! |
Just talk about you man. A lot of times when we talk about ourselves it inspires the people around us to want to relate by talking about themselves. Want someone to tell you one of their secrets.. tell them one of yours. Its the simple law of we reap what we sow. If she ain't opening up; the truth of the matter is you aren't opening up as much as you may think you are. Lead her by example. Open up to her more and she will follow suit eventually. Patient persistence. |
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