PUA Forum :: After sex she split while I was sleeping

I've been sleeping with a girl for a couple months. The chemistry is hot we usually are in bed within minutes of seeing each other. She is very sexual and responds well to my kinky techniques usually having multiple orgasms. The sex was quite good actually stellar, 5x some nights.

So last night she came over wearing a fuck me dress. Needless to say the action was on and we were in the sack for an hour for round 1. Then we ate some food and had some drinks, after which we were both buzzed, she was drunk. We went back for round two and basically she is into having all her places full if you know what I mean. Since this has been going on for months and we were both loosened by booze I asked her about her fantasies. She froze up like a fish and refused to respond. Ironically we had hot sex one more time then konked out. Our plans were to get breakfast and spend the morning together.

Anyway I woke up a couple hours later around 2am and she is gone.
I was worried because she was quite drunk and drove, so I texted if she is ok" she didn't respond.
In the AM I phoned her, she answered very nervously and I asked her what was wrong.
She responded that I was "acting like a psycho" and scared her.

I apologized for offending her and left it at that, she was short so I got off the phone.
I'm wondering if I should ever bother calling her again.
Until last night things were going quite well and she was asking me if I was dating other girls, etc.

Author:	spacejazz [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 5:22 am ]
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I've been sleeping with a girl for a couple months. The chemistry is hot we usually are in bed within minutes of seeing each other. She is very sexual and responds well to my kinky techniques usually having multiple orgasms. The sex was quite good actually stellar, 5x some nights. So last night she came over wearing a fuck me dress. Needless to say the action was on and we were in the sack for an hour for round 1. Then we ate some food and had some drinks, after which we were both buzzed, she was drunk. We went back for round two and basically she is into having all her places full if you know what I mean. Since this has been going on for months and we were both loosened by booze I asked her about her fantasies. She froze up like a fish and refused to respond. Ironically we had hot sex one more time then konked out. Our plans were to get breakfast and spend the morning together. Anyway I woke up a couple hours later around 2am and she is gone. I was worried because she was quite drunk and drove, so I texted if she is ok" she didn't respond. In the AM I phoned her, she answered very nervously and I asked her what was wrong. She responded that I was "acting like a psycho" and scared her. I apologized for offending her and left it at that, she was short so I got off the phone. I'm wondering if I should ever bother calling her again. Until last night things were going quite well and she was asking me if I was dating other girls, etc.

Author:	FeaganMox [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 7:19 am ]
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Im no expert (im actually a noob) but heres what im thinking. Seems as though maybe she just wanted someone to chill with and have sex with out all the feelings. When you asked her that stuff she was probably thinking it would lead to something else. Then you called her and all that seeing what was wrong which reinforced it. She's probably just weirded out because she just wanted sex and someone to chill with and you seem like you want to make it something official

Author:	maria_ [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 7:51 pm ]
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Quote: I've been sleeping with a girl for a couple months. The chemistry is hot we usually are in bed within minutes of seeing each other. She is very sexual and responds well to my kinky techniques usually having multiple orgasms. The sex was quite good actually stellar, 5x some nights. So last night she came over wearing a fuck me dress. Needless to say the action was on and we were in the sack for an hour for round 1. Then we ate some food and had some drinks, after which we were both buzzed, she was drunk. We went back for round two and basically she is into having all her places full if you know what I mean. Since this has been going on for months and we were both loosened by booze I asked her about her fantasies. She froze up like a fish and refused to respond. Ironically we had hot sex one more time then konked out. Our plans were to get breakfast and spend the morning together. Anyway I woke up a couple hours later around 2am and she is gone. I was worried because she was quite drunk and drove, so I texted if she is ok" she didn't respond. In the AM I phoned her, she answered very nervously and I asked her what was wrong. She responded that I was "acting like a psycho" and scared her. I apologized for offending her and left it at that, she was short so I got off the phone. I'm wondering if I should ever bother calling her again. Until last night things were going quite well and she was asking me if I was dating other girls, etc. You pulled an emotional trigger that she didn't want to (possibly with the question with fantasies). It could be a memory, it could be something she is afraid of... it is something personal. Nothing to do with your attitude. In the morning she woke up and she left because she needed space. Maybe that went a bit too far than what she expected/wanted. Possibly she wanted to cut off contact hence the weird behaviour. If I was you I would send her just a text message telling her that " I don't know why the sudden change of behaviour but I hope that you are alright. If there is something you want to talk to me I am willing to listen. I will be here. Txt me when you feel ready. " And I would leave it like that. I think as soon as she sorts out her mind she will get in contact with you... However, it is better if you won't see her again. This behaviour is not of a normal healthy personality.

Author:	GenesisPUA [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 8:05 pm ]
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I think you should just lean back and chill. She'll come back to explain things, if not, move on to the next one.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 8:34 pm ]
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Slow the fuck up bro. And don't do a damn thing. Pushing at this point will be more of whatever she felt "psycho" was. Lets her ease on back just the way they all do. DO NOT.. I REPEAT DO NOT.. Leave her alone for right now. Her emotions will settle and she will begin to question herself since you gave her space. She'll text or call you in a couple days tops!

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Author:	JSmooth [ Mon Mar 02, 2015 10:45 pm ]
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Wow some good advice already here. Maria has a good point this is not normal healthy behavior, and you probably hit an emotional trigger somehow and she overreacted. You guys were drinking and that may have amplified something in her. I think we all agree once she gets a little further down the road of thinking and space she will contact you. I think you having already talked to her and apologized if you offended her was enough. Like Toliver said she will probably call you back and explain everything that's been going on in her head (80%), or worst case scenario she doesn't (20%). The reason I'm 80/20 on this is that you have been off and on a while. I think she owes you a bit more explanation than she has given you so far and she likely knows this as well. Now when she calls she is either going to need some comforting cause the way you made her feel, or she's going to be so startled by what happened (in her mind) she doesn't want to see you again. Best of luck sir.

Author:	spacejazz [ Tue Mar 03, 2015 3:14 am ]
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These are all very good insights, thanks to everyone. One thing is obvious, alcohol as well as any form of intoxication weakens game and like Zappa said, lowers human performance.

Author:	xviij [ Tue Mar 03, 2015 3:27 am ]
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OP, certainly there are some details that you're leaving out. Anything else that may have influenced this behavior?

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