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Author:  Zeru [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 11:03 pm ]
Post subject:  What is the bad boy mentality?
What is it about "bad boys" that girls are so attracted to?

And, is it worth developing any of those characteristics?
Author:  CountRedRover [ Mon Feb 23, 2015 11:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the bad boy mentality?
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What is it about "bad boys" that girls are so attracted to?
They simply just don't give a fuck. And break the rules.
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And, is it worth developing any of those characteristics?
Yes. Think of it as saying what is on your mind without anything holding you back from saying it. For example you might notice a girl has a hat on that looks fucking stupid. Say that. But with with a smirk. My journal below gives a good example too; I met a girl at a party that had a bf; I didn't care; got a number close.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 2:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the bad boy mentality?
My motto is fuck it.
Author:  Saint. Rod [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 3:47 am ]
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I didn't care; got a number close.
And what happened later?
Author:  CountRedRover [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 5:22 am ]
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I didn't care; got a number close.
And what happened later?
I just started texting her things that put her in a emotional roller coaster:
-I just found out I have cancer... (send pic of my arm. just a pic of my arm. nothing more lol)
-Told her how much I loved her using poetry from this book called The Alabaster Girl: "I knew when I saw you, there was just something there. I knew you were like.. like a flower in a forgotten meadow.. but most men are just too busy looking at the outside to ever really see you."
-"No. This can't work out. I hate you. How could you do this to me. First my son. And now this. That's it! We're through!"

Now she wants to see me again. Meh.
Author:  Crockett's [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 8:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the bad boy mentality?
Why would you text a girl you have cancer ?
C'mon, I'm pretty sure you can come up with better stuff bra.
Author:  Saint. Rod [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 10:00 am ]
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I just started texting her things that put her in a emotional roller coaster:
I need to learn how do this shit. I'm studying to improve my text game. It's getting better, but I still getting a lot of flakes. And need to learn how do this in a conversation 1:1.

A do this using my dog tags as routine. But I don't know how do this spontaneously.

I like to read your posts, I learn a lot.
Author:  Black Phantom [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 10:39 am ]
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One of the best examples of a bad boy is Marlon Brando in Streetcar Named Desire movie.

It's an old movie, from the 1940', but when it came out, women were fainting and having
orgasms in the middle of the cinema.

Watch this youtube clip from that movie.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UqhXBSW0Zns

Then find the movie somewhere, either online or in a video store and watch it from start to finish.

See how Marlon behaves in that movie, how free he is, how he's not lingering or being needy with
any woman, how he's letting his wild side out...

Make a list of traits that you see on him as you watch that movie, and then imitate them in
your own behaviour.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 1:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the bad boy mentality?
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One of the best examples of a bad boy is Marlon Brando in Streetcar Named Desire movie.

It's an old movie, from the 1940', but when it came out, women were fainting and having
orgasms in the middle of the cinema.

Watch this youtube clip from that movie.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UqhXBSW0Zns

Then find the movie somewhere, either online or in a video store and watch it from start to finish.

See how Marlon behaves in that movie, how free he is, how he's not lingering or being needy with
any woman, how he's letting his wild side out...

Make a list of traits that you see on him as you watch that movie, and then imitate them in
your own behaviour.


That's a sweet clip.
Author:  thecrook [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What is the bad boy mentality?
Simply put the "Bad Boy" doesn't give a fuck. Younger girls like the chase, and they want to catch this person and try to "fix" them. Good luck.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Feb 24, 2015 9:21 pm ]
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Watch that show. Son's of Anarchy.

That picture is of the character Jax Teller if you're not familiar with the show. That's a bad boy taken to an extreme. The show is pretty much focused on him so you can really see the characters way of thinking.

Girls think he is the sexiest thing alive. I happen to know this because I look like the guy and girls tell me all the time. :)

Seriously though, check out that show. Watch the way Jax acts and treats other people. It might give you the answer you are looking for.
Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Fri Feb 27, 2015 9:56 pm ]
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Not giving a fuck, is one of the main components.

Other than that, be comfortable with yourself and surroundings. Do not take life seriously, treat it like a game. Do not bullshit around, and be direct. Do not be needed and try to please people, and do not let women bust your balls and play games with you.

One key component is you have to enjoy being the bad guy. You have to enjoy the fuck it, I am who I am, I do what I want persona. More or less being a raw man.

You will know you are doing it right when you are pushing girls buttons. The are uncontrollably attracted to you, and think your an asshole piece of shit. -At least that has been my experience.
Author:  GenesisPUA [ Sat Feb 28, 2015 10:56 am ]
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Be confident, don't give her straight answers, decide whether you want to answer some of her questions or not, don't pay too much attention to her but maintain a strong eye contact, one compliment on a date is enough, you can give other compliments but they shouldn't be based on her looks, you can compliment her smartness or intelligence. Pay attention to little details like her nails. If she's asking many questions (IOI), you ask her if it's a job interview and just smile not answering any of her questions. Whenever a girl gives me many IOI's and she ask me if I'm dating, I simply tell her "I'm seeing other girls" in a playful manner. I pulled this on a girl last week and she remarked " girls like bad boys".
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