PUA Forum :: Should I pursuit?

It has nothing to do with you being cute, she's not responding to your text because you aren't being seductive and/or interesting enough to hold it. Try not to point the finger at the woman for not being responsive to you; rather point it to yourself and figure out why you aren't getting the response you like.

The white/black thing has made you a bit timid and apprehensive about your pursuit of her. And when you as a man/the leader become timid and/or make the race thing an issue the woman will naturally follow your lead and do the same.

Your attitude is what is ruing the attraction; your perception of the situation.

It know its easier said than done, but if you just treat her the way you would treat a black girl she would respond in similar manners. Women are only reflecting the energy we are giving off to them. Your race has little to do with it as much as you projecting the energy that would make it an issue.

Author:	Jonx1000 [ Mon Feb 16, 2015 2:31 pm ]
Post subject:	Should I pursuit?
Before you guys say there's other woman don't worry about her. I know that believe me I am actually texting multiple women as we speak. That being said there is this coworker at my job shes around a 7 1/2 maybe an 8. We don't work in the same department, our schedules doesn't match, and it's an office environment so there is pretty much someone almost always watching or in the conversation. Over a year ago I asked her out she gave me her number and flaked I did screen as much as I could prior to doing so putting my arms around her neck, holding her hand, she seemed to respond well. A year later her number either deleted from my phone or possibly I lost her contact when I replaced the phone I came across her and got her number again. When I texted her she lold and told me she already had my # and negged me called me a punk and of course I negged back, but then she went cold shortly after. I don't care about a relationship because truthfully we are complete opposites and I think she might be acting like this because of my race (yes im bringing out the race card). She is white, I am black, and she never been with a black man before. That can be used to my advantage I can joke around about that, but I personally tend to steer away from that because I feel like it just makes things uncomfortable. I know there is no magical thing I can say to change her mind, but at this point I'm just wondering if anyone got an idea what I can do? At this point i don't get much opportunities to kino at work if i ever do see her at work so the only thing I can do is text. She thinks I'm cute, but clearly not enough to pursuit or respond to my texts those rare times that I do text her.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Mon Feb 16, 2015 4:01 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Should I pursuit?
It has nothing to do with you being cute, she's not responding to your text because you aren't being seductive and/or interesting enough to hold it. Try not to point the finger at the woman for not being responsive to you; rather point it to yourself and figure out why you aren't getting the response you like. The white/black thing has made you a bit timid and apprehensive about your pursuit of her. And when you as a man/the leader become timid and/or make the race thing an issue the woman will naturally follow your lead and do the same. Your attitude is what is ruing the attraction; your perception of the situation. It know its easier said than done, but if you just treat her the way you would treat a black girl she would respond in similar manners. Women are only reflecting the energy we are giving off to them. Your race has little to do with it as much as you projecting the energy that would make it an issue.

Author:	Jonx1000 [ Mon Feb 16, 2015 4:29 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Should I pursuit?
Quote: It has nothing to do with you being cute, she's not responding to your text because you aren't being seductive and/or interesting enough to hold it. Try not to point the finger at the woman for not being responsive to you; rather point it to yourself and figure out why you aren't getting the response you like. The white/black thing has made you a bit timid and apprehensive about your pursuit of her. And when you as a man/the leader become timid and/or make the race thing an issue the woman will naturally follow your lead and do the same. Your attitude is what is ruing the attraction; your perception of the situation. It know its easier said than done, but if you just treat her the way you would treat a black girl she would respond in similar manners. Women are only reflecting the energy we are giving off to them. Your race has little to do with it as much as you projecting the energy that would make it an issue. I appreciate the response bro. I've been with all sorts of races including white, but your right perhaps I've been making that awkward because of the energy I've been reflecting. Maybe it is the way I wrote the post I was not trying to blame her I know its something only I can fix not her. Imma man up and stop overthinking about the race shit.

Author:	CountRedRover [ Mon Feb 16, 2015 6:24 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Should I pursuit?
I agree with Eddie.F You got this man. Let us know how it goes!

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