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| Author: | freddz [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 6:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Getting her to choose you instead of him |
There is nothing worse than her choosing to go back with the ex instead of seeing if the grass is greener on the other side am I right? It's like a big punch to the face when she isn't willing to give you a chance but do you know why? Do you know why women choose to revert back to the ex instead of taking the leap of faith? It can be summed up in one word... Risk. Women don't like taking risks if they cannot see a GUARANTEE they will become better off! I mean if she does choose you over the ex and you guys sizzle out and break up after 2 weeks she's left all alone and single again... Now why would she want that instead of the GUARANTEE of the ex as boring as he may seem. There is a way to bypass this immediately... To prove to her that you can guarantee a future together that can grow into something magicial. Now I have experimented with this and these are my results 1.Playing it cool simply does not work... She will see that as lack of interest which is never reassuring 2.Devoting your love to her... 50/50 really it can work but it isn't reliable which is what we're looking for here 3.Play the role of boyfriend... Not just your average boyfriend though, the best boyfriend you can possibly be to show her you are worth the risk. Number 3 is the most viable of all the choices but i feel there is another way to approach this... Can anyone contribute towards this problem we have all had or will all have at some stage? Freddz |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 7:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting her to choose you instead of him |
Okay, i kind of read what you wrote and i kinda threw up a little in my mouth :p lol jk Anyway, so i think what your asking is, how do i get the girl to choose me enstead of her ex? Easy, be cool and attractive. You dont need to "Act like a better boyfriend" Unless thats what you want to be. Just show the girl a good time and lead. Thats communicates everything. Dont be fake. Be real. In the end you'll both win. I get the feeling her ex is wack as hell anyway. All you need to do is invite her out, get to know her, show her a good time and fuck her when she's ready. Which most likely wont take that long considering how her ex is boring the shit out of her. Good luck amigo |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 11:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Getting her to choose you instead of him |
The guy she will choose will be the guy that will be best off without her. Simple as that. The ex has already had her and experienced what she has to over. He already LOST, so its not as big to him as it is to most current guys. Because they haven't lost it yet.. So she'll go with whoever is better off without her. Women don't want to be needed, they want to need. |
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