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| Author: | GhostJd [ Sat Feb 07, 2015 2:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Holding it down, Help |
Whats up guys, so since me and my ex broke up last month I figured I should have some fun with girls, stop being so hateful and angry with everyone, and pushing people away, even girls i found attractive, because of the shit I've gone through. This being said, I started reading and getting my confidence, and game back to the level it was before all the shit in high school happen. So, in this past month, I got 4 girl's number, one of which was a hot mild, older by 9yrs, and talking to about 8 or 9 girls over dating websites. My issue doesn't seem to be my pickup, but getting them to hold a conversation, and keeping things going. Now I know SoME girls are shy, others just doesn't talk much, etc. But I feel like this is also on my part, cause sometimes I just don't know what the fuck to say... So any help on how Ican get a girl to open up, or what ever so it'll be easier for me to make a connection? |
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| Author: | sikrion [ Sat Feb 07, 2015 8:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Holding it down, Help |
be an interesting person, and be interested. |
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| Author: | Lolipopeye [ Mon Feb 09, 2015 9:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Holding it down, Help |
It is very interesting And like to take another look. |
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| Author: | GhostJd [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 2:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Holding it down, Help |
Quote: be an interesting person, and be interested.
This was bad advice.. I figured out the problem. So anyone who looks into this post for advice, here it is:I was asking to many close-ending questions, rather open-ended questions. I showed I was interested, too soon I told them I was interested I complimented them too soon. |
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| Author: | fudge_88 [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 2:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Holding it down, Help |
Quote: Quote: be an interesting person, and be interested.
This was bad advice.. OMG I laughed so hard. I thought the exact same thing. Using Dale Carnegie as PU advice. (I don't know if that's where you got the line from, but from what I know Dale said it first) Well to add to your answer here is a post I made on keeping a conversation going FOREVER! hello-guys-vt179056.html |
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| Author: | sikrion [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 5:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Holding it down, Help |
in my defense, When I said be interesting, I meant be someone worth talking to, if you lead a boring as fuck life the shit you talk about will be as boring as fuck all. When I said be interested, I meant be listening to what they are saying both verbally and physically so you can make changes to your conversation as needed. |
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| Author: | GhostJd [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 7:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Holding it down, Help |
Quote: Quote: Quote: be an interesting person, and be interested.
This was bad advice.. OMG I laughed so hard. I thought the exact same thing. Using Dale Carnegie as PU advice. (I don't know if that's where you got the line from, but from what I know Dale said it first) Well to add to your answer here is a post I made on keeping a conversation going FOREVER! hello-guys-vt179056.html THanks for the link I'll check it out |
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| Author: | Steve8989 [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 8:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Holding it down, Help |
Just don't boring and ask questions all the time. I have success using the cocky-funny approach and using statements or open ended questions. Also be mysterious and she will want to know more. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 11:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Holding it down, Help |
I don't even think you need advice. TO me it sounds like you just need to open more women. You're fresh back into the game.. Open more women and that problem will take care of itself. |
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| Author: | GhostJd [ Thu Feb 12, 2015 5:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Holding it down, Help |
Quote: I don't even think you need advice.
Yes, I feel that's where I need my work. And why my last relationship didn't work.
TO me it sounds like you just need to open more women. You're fresh back into the game.. Open more women and that problem will take care of itself. |
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