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| Author: | gking17 [ Fri Feb 06, 2015 6:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
Talking to this girl who recently got out of a relationship, we hungout 3 times where we alternated who paid every time. one night we went out to eat and came back to my place for movies, i kiss closed and she texted me the next day like she said she would. that day we hungout again and i was a bit needy after that she became weird. distant and a bit alof. we texted where i was also a bit needy and she said she recently got out of a relationship and doesnt want to jump into anything. i said okay me neither and gave her some space. after 2 weeks i texted her to hangout she said okay now the other day she asked me if i was talking to another girl, based on what she saw on social media. i told her no and also told her that we would have to push back our hangout about 3 hours. she than acted like she was busy and said "maybe" i told her nvm and we dont have to hangout, she said she wanted to hangout and than told me that things have been different between us. i told her i have just been busy and wanted to give her space. she said she was just scared things were moving too fast because she just got out of a relationship. i said i understand but we arent exclusive or anything. she said she knows than i told her that i miss how things were, she said so do i just dont know if i can go back to that completely. i replied with we should just hangout and have fun and not take us hangout seriously. she said that she agrees and shes glad were on the same page. i texted her one joke after that and than told her i am going to bed she said so am i and that she will text me the next day with exclamations.. now i am wondering if i am in the friendzone or able to be a fb. we talked about going back to how things were but nothing specific. to me i was thinking of the time we made out and we were cool after. to her it could be just us hanging out. my plan is to kiss her when she comes over, maybe try to escalate things but i am not sure what she is down for.. i guess ultimately time will tell but i wanted others opinion on this situation. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
Move toward sex there is no such thing as FB until then. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
Just chill man..You can kiss her when she comes, but relax. Don't go forcing it because you're afraid of a potential friend zone. I know its not popular belief, but I can go weeks without having to escalate further than a hug and still be in with a girl sexually. Because its all in the vibe man. It has nothing to do with whats said, or whats done. Its all about whats felt.. When a girl feels attracted to you, she will feel attracted to you no matter what you say. And in the same light, when she feels friend zone for you she will feel that no matter what you say or do. So scrap the words, they're irrelevant. If you're producing a full on attractive vibe, it makes no difference what was said before she got there. |
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| Author: | gking17 [ Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
What should we do on Sunday when she comes over? And hangout ideas? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
Quote: What should we do on Sunday when she comes over? And hangout ideas?
Movie and drinks are gold. "Hysteria" is an ideal choice, I've gotten laid with that one numerous times.
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| Author: | gking17 [ Fri Feb 06, 2015 6:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
I don't really want to do movies or dinner because she's going to expect me to pay she doesn't want a relationship so I don't see any point in paying for anything |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Feb 06, 2015 6:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
Quote: I don't really want to do movies or dinner because she's going to expect me to pay she doesn't want a relationship so I don't see any point in paying for anything At HOME!
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| Author: | Greggomatik [ Fri Feb 06, 2015 7:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
Yeah dude, you're golden. You played it well. Don't negate the laid back vibe by doing something like a "date". Invite her over, have some drinks...maybe order some takeout. Most importantly keep the mindframe young had before this little speedbump and keep escalating ad you were before. She just wanted reassurance that you weren't getting all clingy and trying to be her boyfriend. So just keep it cool and casual like you have both agreed on and you're good. |
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| Author: | gking17 [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 12:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
She ended up canceling on me last min. After asking me if we're still hanging out. I got short with her and she wanted to hangout the next day. I said just text me. I think I lost this one so I'm going to let her go. Also.I think if I said yes to hanging out it'll make me too available |
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| Author: | gking17 [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 2:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
Yeah never texted or called me today looks like its a wrap |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Feb 10, 2015 1:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: possible f-buddy or friendzoned? |
No point in even posting about her. Save your energy man. |
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