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Perhaps she's reading "The Rules" or on some other site right now asking the same question of her female board members.

Why not just dispense with a lot of the text fluff and arrange another meet-up?

Hey, first post with this account.
She is a girl I met two years ago and we've been on and off, fwb. she always got very emotional about the fact she was not The only one although i never gave her any hint about this.
I contacted her again before Christmas and we finally hooked up two weeks ago. After that she never initiated contact, sometimes she plainly ignores me, other times she replies instantly to my texts.
I played her well, I even said the L word joking while together but for some reason she's not completely fallen this time, though I thought I had her (she said she loved me on occasions).
So I contacted her yesterday and told her I was thinking about her, she told me she was thinking about me but when I asked what was she thinking she said how silly I was.
We then stopped texting. Not sure what is happening and I feel kinda lost although I think I still have her. Thoughts?

You're being overly sensitive.

And since when is anyone HAD forever. You had her most when she was least important to you because you was juggling her with another girl. You could afford to lose her at that moment. Now she may or may not be the only one who you actually are into and she can sense it.

Just chill and if you feel yourself getting needy in the slightest.. As you clearly already do I would just walk away. You have to train yourself. Walk away without a word. Walk away for YOU, before you get emotional and compromise your dignity and integrity. Such an action will strengthen you for the future. Sometimes you have to take one step back to take two steps forward.

You'll be straight dude. Sounds like you know what you're doing anyway.

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This is great advice, indeed. I for sure don't want to appear needy. I'm just curious as why she acting like this. I honestly don't care.
How could she sense she's the only one at the moment? I already told her I'm chatting with one other woman (and this one I'm really interested in) and she got overly jealous about this fact. Only told her because she asked, though.

Author:	Davidrrr981 [ Wed Feb 04, 2015 9:01 pm ]
Post subject:	What's going on here?
Hey, first post with this account. She is a girl I met two years ago and we've been on and off, fwb. she always got very emotional about the fact she was not The only one although i never gave her any hint about this. I contacted her again before Christmas and we finally hooked up two weeks ago. After that she never initiated contact, sometimes she plainly ignores me, other times she replies instantly to my texts. I played her well, I even said the L word joking while together but for some reason she's not completely fallen this time, though I thought I had her (she said she loved me on occasions). So I contacted her yesterday and told her I was thinking about her, she told me she was thinking about me but when I asked what was she thinking she said how silly I was. We then stopped texting. Not sure what is happening and I feel kinda lost although I think I still have her. Thoughts?

Author:	n2thevoid [ Wed Feb 04, 2015 9:15 pm ]
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Perhaps she's reading "The Rules" or on some other site right now asking the same question of her female board members. Why not just dispense with a lot of the text fluff and arrange another meet-up?

Author:	Dr. Spargenator [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 4:10 am ]
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Quote: Perhaps she's reading "The Rules" or on some other site right now asking the same question of her female board members. Why not just dispense with a lot of the text fluff and arrange another meet-up? i agree with the above poster. and besides. text messaging is not a bullet proof way of communicating. texts fail to send. she could open the text to get the icon on her phone to go away, then close it back without reading it. forget all about it. either that or she's trying to manipulate you. girls do that.

Author:	neo87 [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 4:53 am ]
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Quote: Hey, first post with this account. She is a girl I met two years ago and we've been on and off, fwb. she always got very emotional about the fact she was not The only one although i never gave her any hint about this. I contacted her again before Christmas and we finally hooked up two weeks ago. After that she never initiated contact, sometimes she plainly ignores me, other times she replies instantly to my texts. I played her well, I even said the L word joking while together but for some reason she's not completely fallen this time, though I thought I had her (she said she loved me on occasions). So I contacted her yesterday and told her I was thinking about her, she told me she was thinking about me but when I asked what was she thinking she said how silly I was. We then stopped texting. Not sure what is happening and I feel kinda lost although I think I still have her. Thoughts? What are you trying to get here?

Author:	Davidrrr981 [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 9:24 pm ]
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Not sure what I'm trying to get here. She seems unpredictable. After having a fight and me deleting on Facebook because she said she doesn't like and sh was going to ignore me to prove it, she begged me to add her again. Then she asked me to meet, so we did. I texted the same day at night and she ignored me two times. This is the girl who wants to be exclusive with me but I not sure why is she acting like this.

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Author:	Eddie Fews [ Wed Feb 11, 2015 11:48 pm ]
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You're being overly sensitive. And since when is anyone HAD forever. You had her most when she was least important to you because you was juggling her with another girl. You could afford to lose her at that moment. Now she may or may not be the only one who you actually are into and she can sense it. Just chill and if you feel yourself getting needy in the slightest.. As you clearly already do I would just walk away. You have to train yourself. Walk away without a word. Walk away for YOU, before you get emotional and compromise your dignity and integrity. Such an action will strengthen you for the future. Sometimes you have to take one step back to take two steps forward. You'll be straight dude. Sounds like you know what you're doing anyway.

Author:	Davidrrr981 [ Thu Feb 12, 2015 2:04 am ]
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Quote: You're being overly sensitive. And since when is anyone HAD forever. You had her most when she was least important to you because you was juggling her with another girl. You could afford to lose her at that moment. Now she may or may not be the only one who you actually are into and she can sense it. Just chill and if you feel yourself getting needy in the slightest.. As you clearly already do I would just walk away. You have to train yourself. Walk away without a word. Walk away for YOU, before you get emotional and compromise your dignity and integrity. Such an action will strengthen you for the future. Sometimes you have to take one step back to take two steps forward. You'll be straight dude. Sounds like you know what you're doing anyway. This is great advice, indeed. I for sure don't want to appear needy. I'm just curious as why she acting like this. I honestly don't care. How could she sense she's the only one at the moment? I already told her I'm chatting with one other woman (and this one I'm really interested in) and she got overly jealous about this fact. Only told her because she asked, though.

Author:	Eddie Fews [ Thu Feb 12, 2015 2:13 am ]
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Quote: Quote: You're being overly sensitive. And since when is anyone HAD forever. You had her most when she was least important to you because you was juggling her with another girl. You could afford to lose her at that moment. Now she may or may not be the only one who you actually are into and she can sense it. Just chill and if you feel yourself getting needy in the slightest.. As you clearly already do I would just walk away. You have to train yourself. Walk away without a word. Walk away for YOU, before you get emotional and compromise your dignity and integrity. Such an action will strengthen you for the future. Sometimes you have to take one step back to take two steps forward. You'll be straight dude. Sounds like you know what you're doing anyway. This is great advice, indeed. I for sure don't want to appear needy. I'm just curious as why she acting like this. I honestly don't care. How could she sense she's the only one at the moment? I already told her I'm chatting with one other woman (and this one I'm really interested in) and she got overly jealous about this fact. Only told her because she asked, though. Its all state bro. Women are responding to our states and moods. They pick up on our vibes and reflect our inner reality back to us. When you're afraid of getting rejected.. what happens? You get confronted with rejection. And what happens when you're in an amazing mood and in perfect seductive state.. Women just seems to open up to you with ease. Now those same women would be closed off to you if you weren't producing the same inner feeling of that moment. A sad depressed needy guy will not receive positive attention from the same women today that he received while in a seductive state yesterday. If she's switching up; its only because YOU have switched up. But too often our switches happen to gradually for us to notice. Ever lose or gain weight and just not notice because you see yourself everyday? Its the same concept. She's only responding to you. She'll following the lead that you set forth.

Author:	Davidrrr981 [ Thu Feb 12, 2015 2:56 am ]
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alrighty. Maybe I'm giving this one too much attention and he doesn't deserve it for sure. I'll just ignore, she's not worth it. the other woman, on the other hand, keeps me very interested but frustrated because I can't meet her.

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