PUA Forum
https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/

How to push her to break up with bf?
https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=187599		 Page 1 of 1
Author:  Silver_Lancer [ Mon Feb 02, 2015 6:58 pm ]
Post subject:  How to push her to break up with bf?
The short:

Chased a girl a while back. She friendzoned me and got with some other dude abouth a month ago. I went cold. She complained on me being cold, so I kept a line open with some text convos and the ocasional coffee date.

Now aparently things are turning sour. Seems like the idiot straw manned himself and built some pretty high expectations. She constantly says she is sad but I was very careful not to be the shoulder to cry on. Made that mistake once and it was what got me in the friendzone in the first place. Everytime she tries to complain about the guy I either change the subject, cut her short with a "tough luck" or "that sucks" or ignore her completely. She complained about that too but I did not budge.

Now, how do I contribute to the break up? I get a feeling all it takes is a little push...
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Feb 02, 2015 7:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to push her to break up with bf?
Quote:
She complained on me being cold, so I kept a line open with some text convos and the ocasional coffee date.
So you caved.
Quote:
Seems like the idiot straw manned himself and built some pretty high expectations.
[/quote]
Add fuel to the fire. Straw burns itself just dandy!

Ask her to set you up with a friend of hers.
Author:  Silver_Lancer [ Tue Feb 03, 2015 5:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to push her to break up with bf?
Quote:
Quote:
She complained on me being cold, so I kept a line open with some text convos and the ocasional coffee date.
So you caved.
No, not really. Before it was daily phone calls, constantly hanging out. That is what she complained she misses. I reduced to that level, and kept it there just because there was no need to cut her off entirely. But doing favors and going out of my way for her, that is over. And she felt it.
Quote:
Quote:
Seems like the idiot straw manned himself and built some pretty high expectations.
Add fuel to the fire. Straw burns itself just dandy![/quote]

Exactly how do I do that?
Quote:
Ask her to set you up with a friend of hers.
Did that, she refused. Probably wanted to keep me as some kind of safe option or beta orbiter. As Judas Priest would say, "you've got another thing comin'" ;) And besides her friends (at least the ones I've seen pictures) are not worth it. 5's and 6's.

That being said, I've seen on similar threads that the first thing I should do is fuck other girls. Did that, even have the pics to prove it. Now how do I use it? Update my profile picture to one with me kissing a HB?

Thanks
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Feb 03, 2015 6:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to push her to break up with bf?
Quote:
That is what she complained she misses. I reduced to that level, and kept it there just because there was no need to cut her off entirely
Why, when this is just reinforcing the LJBF bullshit, what's the purpose?

Drop this bomb on her.

"I can't talk to you any longer, everytime I do, I think of all the dirty little things I would do to you if we were alone, I need to stop putting myself through that. It's your fault, you body teases me in such a way. Good luck Baby!"
Quote:
Exactly how do I do that?
Look up the straw-man.
Quote:
fuck other girls. Did that, even have the pics to prove it. Now how do I use it? Update my profile picture to one with me kissing a HB?
Absolutely.
Author:  Silver_Lancer [ Wed Feb 04, 2015 11:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to push her to break up with bf?
Quote:
Quote:
That is what she complained she misses. I reduced to that level, and kept it there just because there was no need to cut her off entirely
Why, when this is just reinforcing the LJBF bullshit, what's the purpose?

Drop this bomb on her.

"I can't talk to you any longer, everytime I do, I think of all the dirty little things I would do to you if we were alone, I need to stop putting myself through that. It's your fault, you body teases me in such a way. Good luck Baby!"
In fact I had already thought of dropping a bomb like that. Anyway, I was following Gambler's Friendzone Destroyer, where he says to stick around but not as much.
Quote:
Look up the straw-man.
That's the deal, if she is already complaining, wouldn't it sound stupid to build him up to impossibly high standards? Kinda Like

She "My boyfriend flaked on me"

Me "It must be good to have someone who pays attention to your needs and desires"

It doesen't make sense. Maybe using another verbal tense, like "Shame, I thought this time you had found someone who truly understood you and made you happy".
Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/