So im in a pickle... lately the girl i kiss closed texted me saying she wants to "slow-down"
background:
girl recently gets out of relationship, we've hungout a total of 3 times. first time i paid she had tip, second time she paid, third time i paid. The last time we hung out i told her well grab something to eat and head back to my house to watch movies. she was down, later that night i kiss closed, she was into it (moaning and etc) that night she was super polite and said she will text me in the morning, which she did. now here is where i may have messed up. The next day i didnt have to go into work like usual so i told her to "lets go to the movies" but that i wanted her to come over a bit earlier to "hangout". again she was wiling, she came over and we made out like usual, but this time when i kissed her nick she freaked out about having a hicky and than said we should leave the movie is starting now. so we went to the movies and came back home she decided to go home that night and gave me a kiss goodnight (not a peck but a actual kiss)
since then i hadnt herd from her and she would be on twitter saying "who needs a bf when you have a mom like mine" "all i want to do is school and work no time for none sense" but i ignored them. after 4 days i text her and she is a bit stand offish. I must admit i was a bit beta when i texted her because i said some silly things like "i miss your face" when i told her to come over she said she had plans, i said well i better see you tomorrow (again beta)
but here is how the texts played out:
me: goodmorning
her: morning
me: ive missed your face
her: awh
i know its been a while lolme: i want to see your face
her: definitely
me: come over later
her: i already have plans tho
me: oh, you better come by tomorrow
her: oh i better
me: yes, uts been too long since ive talked or kissed you (super beta)
her: i know (push?)
me: something wrong?
her: just dont want to move too fast, im not ready
me: where is that coming from?
her: im just saying that i just got out of a relationship like literally a month ago, im not saying i dont want to hangout just wanna go slow
me: i know, didnt expect to move fast just do our usual thing, on top of that im not looking for a relationship at the moment just throwing that out there.
her: okay that makes me feel better. sorry if im texting short im at work right now
me: youre fine, glad were clear just text me tomorrow have fun
her:
me: why the face?
her: youre gonna stop texting me?
i than called her and said that i dont like texting and if shes out of her feelings we can hangout the next day, she kinda got bitchy when i said "out of her feelings" i didnt care. when the day came she didnt text or call me or anything (i figured she wouldnt) its been a few days now and still no contact at all.
now my friend a pretty good pua suggested i should wait a few more days and text her basically to tell her that "its all good if youre not feeling me, im not feeling this either and not trying to waste me time" he said to make her "head spin"
not sure how much i agree with this but i wanted to get the experts opinions to see what they would do in this situation?
thanks,
the game's freshman
