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Author:  Mason1228 [ Sun Jan 25, 2015 8:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
I searched a few pages and did not see a analogous thread. What is the PUA way to handle valentines day while see/sleeping with multiple women.

Currently I am seeing 2 different girls and I know both are going to want/expect (i live in the South) for me to take them out for Valentines Day. I've been seeing one girl since December and the other since the beginning of January. I have not defined a "relationship" with either but know both are really into me. I'm enjoying the status quo but feel like the dreaded V-day crap is going to bottleneck me down to one girl with the other jaded or suspicious of why I didn't take her out. Doesn't help that it's on a Saturday this year so i can't pull the "i'm busy with work" lets do something on teh weekend.

One of them has already mentioned an idea on plans so I figured i'd start the thread early to get ideas moving.
Author:  WillEdward [ Mon Jan 26, 2015 5:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
I wouldn't worry too much about it. You haven't been seeing either of them for too long to consider it serious. Pick one that you would rather spend with and stick with that. Say you have some other type of obligation to other girl you aren't seeing.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Mon Jan 26, 2015 7:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
I typically take my lady out on V day before the actual day simply to avoid long waits, and the inconvenience of making plans at a nice restaurant.

Make a point of celebrating 'v day' on a different day. Problem solved.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Jan 28, 2015 4:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
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I typically take my lady out on V day before the actual day simply to avoid long waits, and the inconvenience of making plans at a nice restaurant.

Make a point of celebrating 'v day' on a different day. Problem solved.

This is a solid idea... Probably what I'd do.
Author:  dtrak [ Wed Jan 28, 2015 8:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
This is going to sound very PUAish

But heres my take on that

If you're so worried about does 2 girls and what they are going to think you on valentines day then you need more girls in your life

Clearly you care too much

you might be in too deep already but i recommend next time planting seeds and setting up a threesome or seeing if you can

If not i'd move on or do whatever because its not what im looking for

But if you're into them and want to juggle with secrets then do what someone mentioned above, date them befor valentines ect.ect.

Im just giving you my open minded PUAish take on this.

I personally adhere to a pressure free dating environment in which if im dating multiple girls they know im following my purpose in life and useually what i say or do is okay with them

but to do that you need to have presented yourself that way from the begginging

i guess your situation is diffrent

but yea thats my 2 cents on this stuff ;)
Author:  CESARE [ Wed Jan 28, 2015 10:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
Go out with one the day before saying "yeah, so we'll be the first ones to celebrate v day since we'll wait for midnight" and go out with the other one on the actual day
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Jan 28, 2015 11:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
The 3 some idea on valentines ridiculous idea(specially from a guy the obviously by asking what to do with 2 girls on valintines do not have the fundamental relationship management in place)... Anyways,

You have fucked up the frame, women need to know from the start were they stand, they sound to me like fb, please take the time to understand how to separate the relationships and their respective roles to avoid drama...

Here from tuburao(read the rules and watch the videos they are solid): http://joy-in-the-now.blogspot.com/
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 1:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
I dated one in the morning, another in the afternoon and another during the evening. I had also set up V-dates on Feb. 15 before.

This coming V-day, I'll be doing the same modus operandi. Just manage expectations well and you'll be fine.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 4:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
Quote:
I searched a few pages and did not see a analogous thread. What is the PUA way to handle valentines day while see/sleeping with multiple women.

Currently I am seeing 2 different girls and I know both are going to want/expect (i live in the South) for me to take them out for Valentines Day. I've been seeing one girl since December and the other since the beginning of January. I have not defined a "relationship" with either but know both are really into me. I'm enjoying the status quo but feel like the dreaded V-day crap is going to bottleneck me down to one girl with the other jaded or suspicious of why I didn't take her out. Doesn't help that it's on a Saturday this year so i can't pull the "i'm busy with work" lets do something on teh weekend.

One of them has already mentioned an idea on plans so I figured i'd start the thread early to get ideas moving.
This is why I don't lie to women man. It saves you from a lot of these sticky situation. Two years ago.. I told each of the women I'm dealing with that " I know we're not together, but I'm still down to do the valentines day thing with you. We'd just have to do lunch or breakfast.. Which do you prefer? " and then I did dinner with the other girl.

It also helps if you're religious and don't celebrate holidays lol.. Multiple women can get tricky man. Thats the downside. But hey, it comes with the territory.

I say this is a great time to be honest.. You can be afraid to lose a girl.. They stick around when you aren't afraid to let them go if you had to.
Author:  skills360 [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 6:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
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I dated one in the morning, another in the afternoon and another during the evening. I had also set up V-dates on Feb. 15 before.

This coming V-day, I'll be doing the same modus operandi. Just manage expectations well and you'll be fine.

^ yea i have done this too, but it is draining....
Author:  skills360 [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 6:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
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Lol its obvious what's on skills mind. I actually meant what I wrote, just introduce them and see what's up. The content of the original post doesn't make it impossible. The man is obviously able to acquire pussy abundance, so why not go for an adventure.

^ cause is super super unlikely to happen, and it will only bring drama, specially on valintines, come on tonny...
Author:  Danny55 [ Sat Jan 31, 2015 12:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Valentines Day while with Multiple Women
You guys fucking crack me up. Yeh dude. Introduce them to each other in a desperate attempt to have a threesome. Like that's gonna work dumb asses. Would make my day if they were seeing other guys and made excuses not to see you on V Day.

Ha ha. Hope it happens cuz it would serve you right. A two timing, cheating dickhead ALWAYS gets his comeuppance and because you care about what you are doing, it's gonna fuck with your head big time. Guys who two time girls always end up fucking paranoid that it happens to them. They end up trusting no one and then go into controlling, bullying mode wondering what the fuck she is doing morning, noon and night. Trust me. Every serious relationship you have with one girl from now on will be a stressful, fucking nightmare. Karma is waiting for you dude ... :mrgreen:
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