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Author:  Zeru [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 8:16 pm ]
Post subject:  I'm Actually Scared, She's becoming obbsesive
So i have an open relationship with a girl who wants a closed one, but said she will do an open one because that's what i want.

I thought that was awesome because it was pretty much a friend with benefits.

Although she's starting to get feelings for me.

She has gotten to the point where she shows up at my house when i don't invite her, like she literately just walks in.

My question is... Is there a way that i can keep the sexual tension, but help her to not fall for me and become obsessive?

We started our open relationship 2 weeks ago.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jan 22, 2015 8:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Actually Scared, She's becoming obbsesive
If you want to continue to be in open relationships, do that. But she clearly doesn't. So you may have to NEXT her.
Your call.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jan 23, 2015 1:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Actually Scared, She's becoming obbsesive
What the fuck dude?

Why are you letting her do that?

I'd say " What are you doing? Get the fuck out.. "

I just got pissed reading that shit to be honest..

If she's becoming obsessive its because you aren't properly communicating and/or you're using her completely.

Tell her to stop dude, and if she doesn't drop her. No second chances.
Author:  oceanx [ Mon Jan 26, 2015 5:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Actually Scared, She's becoming obbsesive
Manage expectations and set boundaries up front with the next girls.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Mon Jan 26, 2015 7:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Actually Scared, She's becoming obbsesive
You aren't setting boundaries. Friend or partner, if somebody is coming to your home unanounced and you'er permitting it to happen, that falls on you.

If you don't set boundaries with people they'll 'set' them for you by simply walking all over you. Here's your chance to learn how to set proper boundaries and KEEP them.
Author:  hugge [ Tue Jan 27, 2015 6:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I'm Actually Scared, She's becoming obbsesive
Most girls (I think, at least many) will go for a closed relationship. You need to realize that they want that, and trying to force them to accept otherwise is to use them. That's not very nice. It's good to know what you want, but be enough of a gentleman and put an end to it. You will only hurt her feelings. Look for girls with the same attitude towards relationships as you, girls who want the same thing.
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