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Author:  nickfan14 [ Sat Jan 03, 2015 1:40 am ]
Post subject:  Awkward?
Ok here is my story. I am involve in student government at my university. Presently this girl and I are the only two members of a particular committee. We meet to discuss business every two weeks. And I had an interest in her from first sight. When she found out I was a musician she said I can't wait to hear you. I capitalized by taking my guitar to the next meeting and playing some songs. After the meeting asked if she wanted to to have a meeting. Her response: "I have another meeting but maybe we could do lunch next week." The message it sent to me: "she understands I intend it as a date and she is interested." So after a while of having conflicting schedules, she invites me to the pancake break at the university and said we would have some coffee time together. We did. We talked about so much. I gave her some chocolates as a Christmas present and parted with a hug. Over the break we texted and emailed each other holiday wishes and a birthday wish, as my birthday is December 23. I told some people that I was seeing someone. The new year ended with me thinking I was beginning the new year in a relationship to some extent. I just emailed her and she replied back concerning our next committee meeting and the message included "remember we are just friends or you'd make me feel awkward." If there are any typos in that quote they are hers. So I am not necessarily asking advice on what to do but what do you think she is thinking?
Author:  Rebooting [ Sat Jan 03, 2015 9:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Awkward?
Ok here is my story. I am involve in student government at my university. Presently this girl and I are the only two members of a particular committee. We meet to discuss business every two weeks.--> A bit unpractical from my POV, because you don't shit where you eat. But OK.

And I had an interest in her from first sight. When she found out I was a musician she said I can't wait to hear you. I capitalized by taking my guitar to the next meeting and playing some songs. --> Sounds as if you were a bit too eager to jump through her hoops. Couldn't you have made her come to a venue where you play or something?

After the meeting asked if she wanted to to have a meeting. Her response: "I have another meeting but maybe we could do lunch next week." --> MEETINGCEPTION! Stop trying to creep your way into her life. If you are interested in her, make it clear that this is a DATE or at least make sure it's framed as one. Despite what you are saying, I somehow have the feeling there wasn't enough attraction to begin with and that she only agreed because of your common life and all. But alright, a date is better than no date, so let's move on.

The message it sent to me: "she understands I intend it as a date and she is interested." So after a while of having conflicting schedules, she invites me to the pancake break at the university and said we would have some coffee time together. We did. We talked about so much. I gave her some chocolates as a Christmas present and parted with a hug. --> This probably is the point at which the deal was saved or broken. Did you escalate at all during the date? Kino? Talking about rather dauting subjects? Please tell me you didn't just sit there for hors on end talking about banal shit.

Over the break we texted and emailed each other holiday wishes and a birthday wish, as my birthday is December 23. I told some people that I was seeing someone. The new year ended with me thinking I was beginning the new year in a relationship to some extent. --> Even if the date had been a stellar one, which is not the feeling I am getting here, this assumption is just... No.

I just emailed her and she replied back concerning our next committee meeting and the message included "remember we are just friends or you'd make me feel awkward." If there are any typos in that quote they are hers. So I am not necessarily asking advice on what to do but what do you think she is thinking? --> I think she has no (romantic) interested at all. You got shot down hard, bro. Better accept it and move on, or you will only keep digging your own hole here.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jan 07, 2015 1:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Awkward?
I'm thinking you're trying to live in a Disney Movie and you're forgetting about the fact that she is a human being and has sexual feelings and you aren't fulfilling her sexual needs AT ALL.

Knock off the "sweetheart" shit. She's not your girlfriend. Quit treating her like that. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 2 years. Fucking her for almost 4. I've never played songs for her on guitar (I play guitar. But I play for me. Not her.) and I've never bought her chocolates. She sucks my cock atleast once a day.

You want to keep living in this Alladin remake you've got going on... keep doing what you're doing. Otherwise, show the girl you're gonna fuck her brains out. Trying to "buy" a girls love is manipulative and that actually makes you more of an asshole than just doing what you want.
Author:  Greggomatik [ Wed Jan 07, 2015 4:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Awkward?
Majikal...chill.

Ppl come here for advice and help. Obviously this guy isn't very experienced so let's help him in a constructive fashion. He doesn't need to be bullied and verbally berated. I've noticed this in a couple posts of yours, not cool bro.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jan 07, 2015 5:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Awkward?
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Majikal...chill.

Ppl come here for advice and help. Obviously this guy isn't very experienced so let's help him in a constructive fashion. He doesn't need to be bullied and verbally berated. I've noticed this in a couple posts of yours, not cool bro.
It's tough love dude ;)
Author:  Greggomatik [ Wed Jan 07, 2015 5:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Awkward?
No bro, Bounce's post was tough love. You were just being a dick.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jan 07, 2015 5:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Awkward?
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No bro, Bounce's post was tough love. You were just being a dick.
I'm actually a pretty nice person. I've had a personal role in alot of guys flipping their lives around. I'm a dick when I need to be. This is one of those cases... where I can read someones sob story and give them a bro to bro, virtual slap in the face when they need it. Most guys don't have friends that will do that for them. I don't even like doing it sometimes...

But it works.

And that's what people come on here for right? Do you want to hear what's gonna help you or hear what's gonna make you feel good. I'd rather give someone hope than hype. I'm not Tony Robbins. I'll tell you that you're a big fat gaping pussy and to man the fuck up if that's what you need to hear. I've literally dick slapped guys I've coached, picked them up and threw them at the wall. I will beat the fuck out of someone (physically or emotionally) if that's what they need... It sounds really mean and cruel... But dude... THAT IS WHAT SOME GUYS NEED THESE DAYS!! Mommy can't coddle him forever. There are a bunch of pussies with dicks between their legs walking around right now and something has to change. It's much beyond getting some pussy.

I do tell it like I see it and I'm really not afraid if I offend someone. I get told "Fuck off!" alot... but then 6 months later I get a personal message titled "Thank You" from that exact same dude. Life is not nice. And letting some dude on the internet offend you is not a good place to be...

So call me or label me what you want... But I know what I'm doing. ;)
Author:  Rebooting [ Wed Jan 07, 2015 9:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Awkward?
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I've literally dick slapped guys I've coached
http://SPAM.com/comics/literally

This and the tough love thing just made me a bit afraid of this thread :D
Author:  neo87 [ Wed Jan 07, 2015 9:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Awkward?
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I've literally dick slapped guys I've coached
http://SPAM.com/comics/literally

This and the tough love thing just made me a bit afraid of this thread :D
Wait what? Maybe I'm thinking dick slap too literally
Author:  Greggomatik [ Wed Jan 14, 2015 8:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Awkward?
Yeah man, I get ya. I'm not a big fan of undue negativity esp with people that don't know better. Granted I'm not a fan of using kid gloves either.

But hey, everyone has their own approach and personality so keep it moving right.
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