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Author:  poorfool [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 1:01 am ]
Post subject:  need advice on this situation
Hi everyone, new member who just started trying to learn the whole pua thing.

Anyway been seeing this girl, everything was going good, then i messed it up because i was too needy, and did a lot of amature mistakes.

So as hard as it was i just cut her out for 2 weeks. Then about 3 days ago i sent her a text asking how work was going (amature mistake i know). No reply. Then yesterday i randomly sent her this pic of a beer with a coster on it and said do "do u like my beer hat" about 4 hours past and she responds yes, then start shooting off these text about whats she doing since she's at work. I dont reply to any of her text, then she responds "and work is going okay, blah blah" so i know she got my other text but didnt respond to them.

Then close to the end of her shift she text "where are you drinking at" i stilll dont respond. Then she tries to call but i dont answer. Her last text is "i dont recognize that place"

Fastfowrd to today, she texts me "bueno diaz" i dont reply now in the past hour she text me "who is this, i dont have a name to the #"

Sounds like she's trying to get me to respond to her, obviously she has my number saved, unless she accident ly texted me that, but i doubt it was on accident.

My question, what now fellas, do i respond back, wait it out if so for how long and what do i text her?

Much appreciation in advance for your replys
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 2:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: need advice on this situation
The psychology of this game is making you shoot yourself in the foot, man.

She's replying to you and actively trying to get you to reply back, and you're trying to figure out how to play that?

Reply to her. Call her... You could have had her out for a beer already - she practically asked if you wanted to have one when she asked if you were still out.
Author:  poorfool [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 3:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: need advice on this situation
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The psychology of this game is making you shoot yourself in the foot, man.

She's replying to you and actively trying to get you to reply back, and you're trying to figure out how to play that?

Reply to her. Call her... You could have had her out for a beer already - she practically asked if you wanted to have one when she asked if you were still out.
thing is i don't want to come off as too willing now, we went through this 2 month long period where i would text her everyday, about 50 times a day, and she would text me back about 50 times, also since she lived 5 minutes from my work i would see her about 4 times a week on my lunch, then i quit my job but still text-ed her like crazy and gradually a disproportionate amount of text started coming from her. during this time i was always asking, do you work today? what time are you working? do you want to go out? etc... like i said I've made a ton of amateur mistakes, and these are probably the small little ones. during this time we would go out like twice a week in the beginning, then at the end it was like every 2 weeks

that's just a little background on the situation and now i don't want to appear to be needy. after all aren't woman attracted to what they cant have?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Dec 23, 2014 3:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: need advice on this situation
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Quote:
The psychology of this game is making you shoot yourself in the foot, man.

She's replying to you and actively trying to get you to reply back, and you're trying to figure out how to play that?

Reply to her. Call her... You could have had her out for a beer already - she practically asked if you wanted to have one when she asked if you were still out.
thing is i don't want to come off as too willing now, we went through this 2 month long period where i would text her everyday, about 50 times a day, and she would text me back about 50 times, also since she lived 5 minutes from my work i would see her about 4 times a week on my lunch, then i quit my job but still text-ed her like crazy and gradually a disproportionate amount of text started coming from her. during this time i was always asking, do you work today? what time are you working? do you want to go out? etc... like i said I've made a ton of amateur mistakes, and these are probably the small little ones. during this time we would go out like twice a week in the beginning, then at the end it was like every 2 weeks

that's just a little background on the situation and now i don't want to appear to be needy. after all aren't woman attracted to what they cant have?


That would have been good detail to put in your first post ;)

If you don't want to fall back into the text buddy role, get her out with you and stop texting. Don't send 50 a day, send 2... And ask her to get a beer with you.

If she declines repeatedly, move on.
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