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Author:  Moose185 [ Wed Nov 26, 2014 1:44 am ]
Post subject:  Just been on a great first date! What now?
Met a girl for a first date tonight, had a really good time. We ended up talking for 3 and a half hours. There was a bit of flirting but no touching I was a bit scared about blowing it plus I was really nervous. When we left I hugged her and she said I'll keep in touch. We both have each other's numbers already. I've not text her tonight as she would have been asleep anyway. I plan on sending her a text tomorrow saying I had a really nice time ect. When should I ask her for another date? What is my game plan since I didn't kiss her.? She is really nice and don't want to go off me like it has happened with other girls.

Thanks for reading.
Author:  geeklovelife.com [ Wed Nov 26, 2014 1:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just been on a great first date! What now?
Wait a day or two then send her some attractive text message. Don't relay too much on texting, you need to use texting for getting her on another date.

Just mention some of your internal joke (so she remembers some of your mutual nice and funny moments) and you can maybe propose going to some kind of concert or movie night.

Don't play too much games in this phase, just be direct! Little bit of flirxting (flirting via text) is good, but leave the main part for movies or some other situation.
Author:  Moose185 [ Wed Nov 26, 2014 1:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just been on a great first date! What now?
What should be my second date? Cinema?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Nov 26, 2014 1:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just been on a great first date! What now?
Quote:
What should be my second date? Cinema?
No, your sofa... With a movie.

Escalation is simple at home...
Author:  Moose185 [ Fri Nov 28, 2014 3:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just been on a great first date! What now?
I agree escalation is a lot easier on the sofa, only problem is I live with my parents not sure if she really wants to see my parents on the second date lol.
Author:  Chief [ Fri Nov 28, 2014 4:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just been on a great first date! What now?
In my free date guide, First Date Blueprint, I talk about the importance of creating what pickup artists call a "time distortion" by going to multiple different places instead of just one place for your date. So, regarding your question of whether you should go to the cinema or somewhere else, you should try to carve out a big block of time in order to go to at least 2 or 3 places minimum. The more the better.

By the way, the stuff I teach in First Date Blueprint can very easily apply to second dates as well!
Author:  Danny55 [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 1:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just been on a great first date! What now?
To suggest a movie at his place for a 2nd date will scare her off. I know he lives with his parents but for crying out loud, no wonder you assholes struggle to get or even keep a girl. Your fucking dick is your brain and how many fucking times do I have to tell you ... girls can see right through your desperate fucking shit. Y'all sound like dogs in heat. It just scares them off. Why be like every fucking guy who asks her out? You need to build kino. Girls aren't as fucking obsessed with sex like we are. Push it too much and you'll push her away dumbasses.
Author:  AegonTC [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 5:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just been on a great first date! What now?
Try to think about the attraction built. Don't be afraid to lose her because most probably, you will. Talk to her in way that implies you like her, make her qualify to yourself subtly (I'm guessing you're not such an outgoing guy?) by figuring out which personality traits you like, since you obviously are physically attracted to her.

Do it slow if you want, but always escalate. Be sure to kiss her next time you meet and keep the updates mate.
Author:  Dwele [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just been on a great first date! What now?
@Danny55 you couldn't have said it better! @Moose185 Man just take it easy get into the groove with your interaction with her. Start to enjoy interacting with her and think about what would be cool to experience with her. She has to have a cute smile right? Take her somewhere and make her laugh have a good time with her. Somewhere you can extend the connection you have already built with her. I like to go to places that we would have a unique experience like somewhere she probably hasn't gone to with another guy. In my hometown we have this place called All Fired Up. It's a place where you can paint your own ceramics. Girls love it! I have taken two of them so far and when we leave the girls even keep our work of art ceramic that we painted together. It'll remind them later of the fun time you guys had.This would be my first go to spot. You would need like maybe three spots lined up to take her. Throughout the whole night you need to make sure your game is TIGHT! Next depending on the mood I would take her somewhere else cool like a museum or some type of attraction that you could not be the real center of attention but you could be occupied in different ways than just conversation. At this spot I would start to really build on the attraction. Now I would get closer and kino my ass off be discrete though. You living with your parents kind of sucks. Who does she live with? If she lives alone go to her place but have it set up where you can go in with her. Maybe you could do your thing there, or park your car at her place and use a routine to kiss her. Oh yeah on the way to her place or where ever you go try to hold her hand while you are driving. Reach for her hand and if you don't get rejection then you in there! If she doesn't live by her self you could get freaky in the car. I've gotten freaky with a chick in front of my mothers house at like 2am in the morning with the music softly playing and foggy windows before.
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