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Author:  oxyclean321 [ Sun Nov 23, 2014 6:21 pm ]
Post subject:  When the girl opens first on Tinder

if chick opens on tinder saying "hey" should i let her lead the conversation or take over?

letting her lead would require her to invest more however shows im not a leader?

Input is appreciated

Author:  Rebooting [ Sun Nov 23, 2014 7:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the girl opens first on Tinder

Dude just respond already and start leading. Don't worry, if she wants anything, she will follow.

I mean, yes, you could leave everything to chance and hope she leads you on, but what's the point? Even if you got laid it's a bit beta/due to luck.

Author:  oxyclean321 [ Sun Nov 23, 2014 7:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the girl opens first on Tinder

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Dude just respond already and start leading. Don't worry, if she wants anything, she will follow.

I mean, yes, you could leave everything to chance and hope she leads you on, but what's the point? Even if you got laid it's a bit beta/due to luck.

nono ofc ima respond lol, i just want to know if i should take the lead in the convo IE ask questions, ask for her number...ect or should i just follow her grove as she has sent the first message.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 2:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the girl opens first on Tinder

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if chick opens on tinder saying "hey" should i let her lead the conversation or take over?

letting her lead would require her to invest more however shows im not a leader?

Input is appreciated



Well 'hey' isn't exactly a banner opening... but it's something.

She likely sent it to all her matches, cause guys won't always make the first move on the 7 if they've matched with 20 8s...

Chat her up - say 'hey' back - and see if she's interesting. If she is, keep going and lead... if not, drop her.

The fact she opened you isn't really a big deal. I mean, you're both there to meet people...

Author:  Playboi_ [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 3:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the girl opens first on Tinder

I do not have the strongest Tinder game as it is hard to exude a natural charm through a screen but you need to keep her upbeat and interested. Make her speak about things that her 2000 other matches will not.

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 11:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the girl opens first on Tinder

I usually let them lead for a lil bit but they usually have no idea what they are doing so I naturally take over so things can move forward. Try both options man, its just tinder and theres lots of girls. See what works for you.

Author:  Dragula [ Mon Nov 24, 2014 11:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the girl opens first on Tinder

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I do not have the strongest Tinder game as it is hard to exude a natural charm through a screen but you need to keep her upbeat and interested. Make her speak about things that her 2000 other matches will not.
my charm is much better hidden behind my keyboard!

Author:  Playboi_ [ Tue Nov 25, 2014 9:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When the girl opens first on Tinder

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I do not have the strongest Tinder game as it is hard to exude a natural charm through a screen but you need to keep her upbeat and interested. Make her speak about things that her 2000 other matches will not.
my charm is much better hidden behind my keyboard!
Really? I am quite the opposite. I'll make a girl fall hard without saying much to her at all in person. The keyboard gets boring.

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