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The whole "freeze out" thing only works with women who have made some type of emotional investment in you. The same way as if you invested in a company and then the company suddenly disappeared. You go nuts wondering where your money went (was it a scam? Did they go out of business etc. etc.). So if you're intent is to just disappear; i'm not sure what you mean.

Is she someone that texts you consistently? Or even texts you at all. If yes, then suddenly ignoring her text will have some affect, but if this is someone who isn't at all currently invested in you, its not going to happen.

You have to develop you're ability to attract a woman initially, so you don't find yourself playing these childish games just to get their attention. How about working on prevention instead of how to treat the problem.

So now let me ask.. What reason have you given this girl NOT to go out with you? What have you done (or not done)? Where did you not get this right? Because surely she doesn't turn down everyone. What is it about you that she felt the need to turn down? And then we'll work on what can be done about that.

Author:	RamboBlack [ Mon Nov 17, 2014 1:37 am ]
Post subject:	Absence To Build Interest
I'm utilizing absence to build interest and I'm trying to decide whether I should go away for 1 or 5 days?

Author:	JackZero [ Mon Nov 17, 2014 1:41 am ]
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Depends...how long have you known her? What is your history with her?

Author:	RamboBlack [ Mon Nov 17, 2014 4:48 pm ]
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Quote: Depends...how long have you known her? What is your history with her? I've known her for like 7 weeks secretary at work; I've been in her bedroom she gave me the number threw shit test at me. I'm trying to advoid friendzone and take her out. Asked her out 3 times she turned me down playfully. I'm going to just remain absent and if that doesn't work move on.

Author:	RamboBlack [ Mon Nov 17, 2014 4:48 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Absence To Build Interest
Quote: Depends...how long have you known her? What is your history with her? I've known her for like 7 weeks secretary at work; I've been in her bedroom she gave me the number threw shit test at me. I'm trying to advoid friendzone and take her out. Asked her out 3 times she turned me down playfully. I'm going to just remain absent and if that doesn't work move on.

Author:	JackZero [ Mon Nov 17, 2014 4:58 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Absence To Build Interest
Unless I've missed something, you're not describing a woman who is interested in you. So going away isn't going to do anything for you relative to your situation.

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Author:	Eddie Fews [ Mon Nov 17, 2014 7:27 pm ]
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The whole "freeze out" thing only works with women who have made some type of emotional investment in you. The same way as if you invested in a company and then the company suddenly disappeared. You go nuts wondering where your money went (was it a scam? Did they go out of business etc. etc.). So if you're intent is to just disappear; i'm not sure what you mean. Is she someone that texts you consistently? Or even texts you at all. If yes, then suddenly ignoring her text will have some affect, but if this is someone who isn't at all currently invested in you, its not going to happen. You have to develop you're ability to attract a woman initially, so you don't find yourself playing these childish games just to get their attention. How about working on prevention instead of how to treat the problem. So now let me ask.. What reason have you given this girl NOT to go out with you? What have you done (or not done)? Where did you not get this right? Because surely she doesn't turn down everyone. What is it about you that she felt the need to turn down? And then we'll work on what can be done about that.

Author:	RamboBlack [ Tue Nov 18, 2014 5:06 am ]
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Quote: The whole "freeze out" thing only works with women who have made some type of emotional investment in you. The same way as if you invested in a company and then the company suddenly disappeared. You go nuts wondering where your money went (was it a scam? Did they go out of business etc. etc.). So if you're intent is to just disappear; i'm not sure what you mean. Is she someone that texts you consistently? Or even texts you at all. If yes, then suddenly ignoring her text will have some affect, but if this is someone who isn't at all currently invested in you, its not going to happen. You have to develop you're ability to attract a woman initially, so you don't find yourself playing these childish games just to get their attention. How about working on prevention instead of how to treat the problem. So now let me ask.. What reason have you given this girl NOT to go out with you? What have you done (or not done)? Where did you not get this right? Because surely she doesn't turn down everyone. What is it about you that she felt the need to turn down? And then we'll work on what can be done about that. Well Eddie I'm living out a hotel with my coworkers and we all use the same SUV. So when I asked her out she probably didn't think I could take her out OR she just doesn't want to date anyone in the office. I honestly think the reason that I haven't been able to escalate is my value level compared to hers. This shit is weird because I ignored the hell out of her today and she spoke to me first asking about my weekend and saying bye to me when I left for work.

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