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| Author: | get_it_in [ Wed Oct 08, 2014 4:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | How Do I Manage My Prospects? |
Hey guys…I’d appreciate some help in taking my prospects to the next level. Basically my issue is building comfort with my prospects…part of it is that I am having trouble finding the time to manage them all and part of it is that, in person, I’m not doing a good job of building attraction. I’m pretty solid with online game (not so good with club/bar game, but not entirely without past success). I’m leaning on online game to get my prospects. I have no trouble getting numbers…in a month I racked up 50. The problem is…going from there. By itself, a number isn’t much. But when I am juggling having that many women, sometimes I am left clueless as to what to do. I rely on texting since a lot of people do not talk on the phone, but with some women that actually isn’t the way to go. But when I’m texting so many different women, I cannot have a uniquely-tailored approach for all of them…so its mass texts, often pre-written exchanges at that, etc. I need to figure out how I can, working with that many women, build comfort, get them out in person and go from there. Timing is also an issue…what’s too fast? What’s too slow? I’ve been out with 8 different women over the past month…not bad. But sometimes I feel like things aren’t moving along fast enough. Sometimes I get complaints that I am being negligent. Also, building kino. There’s on HB8, a German woman who I took out a few times. Well. I’ll have her rolling on the floor laughing the entire time…which is great. But she seems resistant to get onto the topic of sex. I’m working a little kino, but its so minimal and weak that I figure maybe its hurting if anything. I want a little advice on Kino, because it’s the kind of thing that can create awkwardness or a creep-vibe if it isn’t done right and sometimes it feels more natural to me, and other times it just feels like…its not invited. Thanks! |
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| Author: | DurandalBlue [ Wed Oct 08, 2014 7:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How Do I Manage My Prospects? |
Your problem is you are trying to get 50 girls to like you... Instead of chasing after all 50 of them... Start filtering them out. Screen aggressively. Only go after the girls who actually like you instead of trying to make all 50 of them like you. Manage your time better dude. It's that simple. |
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