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Author:  Straightforward [ Mon Oct 06, 2014 7:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Women and their phones
I met this girl and set a date. When I came to the meeting point she was on her phone and didn't mind to end the conversation. Not even a "you know, he is here, I call you back, okay". I pointed on her phone for her to end the call and she didn't care. So I pointed at the direction I wanted to go and she followed still on the phone. After some time that repeated and she looked at her phone while walking. I asked her who it was and she said, it was her family and they text everyday. So she texts her family who text her every day and she cannot tell them that she won't be available for 2h?

I ask: "Can you stop calling and texting for 2 hours?". She basically tried to argue.

I stopped her and said: "Listen, either you stop looking at and using your phone while I am with you or you spend your time on your own". She said nobody was allowed to tell her what to do and "we don't know each other and already have an argument". I told her to go fuck herself and left. I was lucky because she wasn't good looking and it was a good way to get out of this. I know some fags on this board will now cry "lame" but whatever.

What would you do if the woman you are with (and that you actually do find attractive, so not the case described) texts and even calls in your presence when she said beforehand that she wanted to get to know you. Perceive it as disrespectful and leave? See it as a sign that the holy queen is bored and work harder to entertain her?
Author:  Mastermind9000 [ Mon Oct 06, 2014 8:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
Be careful. Many girls use their phones as goto when they are nervous. Calling her out on it, or being rude about it would only put pressure on her and make her feel defensive. Perhaps playing curious about what she's looking at? Cold read her as a "phone junky" and making it a joking matter. If she honestly looks bored and on her phone as something to do, then the fault isn't hers either.

You can also give her a "joking" heads up that if she's going to be talking to people on the phone, you are going to find a real person to talk to. "Haha" will be the response. Then when she grabs her phone, you, without a word, get up and approach the hottest girl in the place. Chit chat, tell this new girl why you came over. You aren't hitting on her, but flattering her by choosing her to make a point with, and she can even be with her boyfriend or something because you aren't picking her up. You are just making the point that if your date's attention wavers, so will yours, but yours will do it better. Return, and continue like nothing happened.
Author:  breedlove465 [ Mon Oct 06, 2014 9:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
If she was just nervous I think you'd be able to pick up on that, and she wouldn't have argued when called out. If she was really nervous it's more likely she would have said "sorry" or something like that.

I don't mind what you did. It's disrespectful. You definitely could have instead started approaching other girls, and that might have snapped her out of it. But at least you didn't do the beta thing and put up with that shit.

I've never had this problem with a girl I just met but I didn't have a gf that was like this. One time I just grabbed her phone, put it in my jacket pocket, and told her she gets it back in an hour if she keeps me entertained. It helped that night, and we shagged like animals, but it was a constant problem. We didn't last too long anyways though.
Author:  Straightforward [ Mon Oct 06, 2014 9:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
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If she honestly looks bored and on her phone as something to do, then the fault isn't hers either.
You need to elaborate that.
Author:  neo87 [ Mon Oct 06, 2014 9:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
When in doubt escalate. Don't blow out yourself. It's the old blow me or blow me out thing. Once had a girl who did this on a date. I just grabbed her kissed her and took her back to mine for sex. Turns out she was on her phone to pass time while drinking to have sex.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon Oct 06, 2014 10:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
You're either boring her or she's nervous...

or she's like so many other people out there who are glued to their cell phones... Facebook... Twitter... Whatever.

You could say something to her like... "Are you bored?" or "Are you nervous?" and actually ask her but honestly... My guess is she's just like most other girls who can't put her fucking phone down.

So what do you do?

Put your foot down.

Don't tolerate it.

Don't try and CHANGE the girl but just let her know how it is... "Look, I'm not gonna waste my time hanging out with you. I've got other shit to do aside from sitting here watching you text."

And don't necessarily just walk away after that.... But be ready to.
Author:  Mr_International [ Tue Oct 07, 2014 8:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
Screw that. I wouldn't have gone anywhere and made it obvious that she's being rude by just standing there. If she doesn't get the hint, leave.
Author:  Straightforward [ Tue Oct 07, 2014 11:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
Wow, that faggot TheMajikalMethod is still out there.

User has been warned for this post
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Oct 07, 2014 2:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
For future reference,

Don't give women ultimatums. If you're going to leave, just leave. Don't try and muscle them into doing what you want. She obviously had no respect for you one way or another - and for your own improvement you may want to ask yourself why that was the case.

But on a lighter note; I've found that women only do the things they feel they can get away with. They're intuitive and they usually feel out a guys vibe when they meet them so they know how to test him. For example if she caught the vibe from you that you would LEAVE without saying ONE WORD if she stayed on her phone for 1 minute after you met her; she would of hung up. Because she got the vibe that you would stay and fight with her like her younger sister or one of her friends she treated you like that.

Practice walking away from beautiful women without a word; and the women that come into your life in the future will catch the vibe and behave themselves. I'm telling you from experience.

Peace & Love
Author:  dorkley [ Tue Oct 07, 2014 5:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
But what if youve known her for awhile, and you hang out and she doesnt text constantly around you, just once in awhile and you call her out every time. You literally press her phones off button and say get off that in my presence :lol:. She changed her behavior of staying on the phone texting, and only does once every 3 hours or so if you are with her. You text but not as often as her. Is it ok to say, for instance, let your girl text in front of you for a few seconds while your driving or not paying attention to her? Does she see this as being weak if you had called her out on it before, but now she doesnt do it as often and you are with her all day that day, so a few seconds is nothing.
Author:  DurandalBlue [ Wed Oct 08, 2014 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
Somebody gives you advice then you call them a faggot lol
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Oct 08, 2014 8:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Women and their phones
Quote:
I met this girl and set a date. When I came to the meeting point she was on her phone and didn't mind to end the conversation. Not even a "you know, he is here, I call you back, okay". I pointed on her phone for her to end the call and she didn't care. So I pointed at the direction I wanted to go and she followed still on the phone. After some time that repeated and she looked at her phone while walking. I asked her who it was and she said, it was her family and they text everyday. So she texts her family who text her every day and she cannot tell them that she won't be available for 2h?

I ask: "Can you stop calling and texting for 2 hours?". She basically tried to argue.

I stopped her and said: "Listen, either you stop looking at and using your phone while I am with you or you spend your time on your own". She said nobody was allowed to tell her what to do and "we don't know each other and already have an argument". I told her to go fuck herself and left. I was lucky because she wasn't good looking and it was a good way to get out of this. I know some fags on this board will now cry "lame" but whatever.

What would you do if the woman you are with (and that you actually do find attractive, so not the case described) texts and even calls in your presence when she said beforehand that she wanted to get to know you. Perceive it as disrespectful and leave? See it as a sign that the holy queen is bored and work harder to entertain her?
You sound like a loose canon.
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