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Author:  lewism129 [ Wed Sep 10, 2014 2:00 am ]
Post subject:  Responding to (apparently) valid excuses for not going out

So theres this HB. i text her back and forth a bit to set up the first date. she genuinely seems interested, witty banter, a little bit sexual. all good. then i ask her out. she says she's in another city. specifically she says "i agree to the date but not this weekend because i'm in sydney"
I want to proceed as though she's telling the truth. i dont see any reason why she would lie with that excuse.
So assuming she is down in principle but the time i suggested was wrong how do i proceed? it seems a bit needy to ask when she gets back so i can work my schedule around her. Ignore her for a few more days? suggest another time?change subject completely? Suggestions? Thanks

Author:  Mastermind9000 [ Wed Sep 10, 2014 3:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Responding to (apparently) valid excuses for not going o

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So theres this HB. i text her back and forth a bit to set up the first date. she genuinely seems interested, witty banter, a little bit sexual. all good. then i ask her out. she says she's in another city. specifically she says "i agree to the date but not this weekend because i'm in sydney"
I want to proceed as though she's telling the truth. i dont see any reason why she would lie with that excuse.
So assuming she is down in principle but the time i suggested was wrong how do i proceed? it seems a bit needy to ask when she gets back so i can work my schedule around her. Ignore her for a few more days? suggest another time?change subject completely? Suggestions? Thanks
Ask her how long she is there for.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Sep 10, 2014 2:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Responding to (apparently) valid excuses for not going o

"I agree to the date"

She's down, dude.

Wait it out. Propose another date...

"Great - what about next weekend, then?" is fine... or say "When are you back? Would love to hear about your trip".

Author:  breedlove465 [ Wed Sep 10, 2014 3:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Responding to (apparently) valid excuses for not going o

You're over thinking it.

A simple "very nice, have a good time, hmu when you get back in town"

As long as you don't make it seem like you'll be sitting by your phone until she returns you're good.

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