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Author:  MeH4wk [ Mon Sep 08, 2014 3:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Need some help
Hey guys. I really need some help.

I like one girl who studies in the same university as me and sometimes like 2 or 3 times we have the same lectures. So a few days ago I came to her on the break and we talked for maybe 5 minutes. And I had to leave because the lecture started. On the other day I added her in social network, but I didnt write anything.

And I have no idea what to do next. Should i text her or wait for another lecture and talk there with her? And I don't know what I should tell her.

Oh, by the way I am pretty sure she's into me and waiting for me to make a first step but what is it exactly?

So help, please.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Sep 08, 2014 5:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some help
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Oh, by the way I am pretty sure she's into me and waiting for me to make a first step but what is it exactly?
^ So - I'm sorry, what's the problem then?

Talk to her. Ask her about school or the course work... It doesn't even matter what you say. You're going to need to actually shoot the shit with her for a few mins before you ask her out though. Just pre-prepare some topics so you don't get nervous - then go for it.

There's no silver bullet here. You still have to get her number. You still have to build attraction and you still have to actually ask her out.

Otherwise, no sex for you.
Author:  MeH4wk [ Tue Sep 09, 2014 3:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some help
It does make sense. I'm gonna try it.

Thanks for your advice.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Sep 09, 2014 1:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some help
Hey MeH4wk,

You are already behaving like you think she is going to say no. You're adding her on networks, starring at her (probably), and going on internet forums looking for advice on a girl you've never made a move with. What part of that doesn't say "creepy"? A creepy guy is a guy that fears rejection, so he stares, and tries his best to avoid getting a "no" as if he couldn't handle it.

You have to cut it out man. Stop trying to get with her through the backdoor, stop trying to find ways to sneak in. Just bust right through the front door with guns blazing. She'll respect you even if she rejects you.

What you're doing now isn't setting yourself up for success. You're making it tougher and tougher in your mind with every action that isn't a forward one.
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Tue Sep 09, 2014 1:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some help
Quote:
Hey guys. I really need some help.

I like one girl who studies in the same university as me and sometimes like 2 or 3 times we have the same lectures. So a few days ago I came to her on the break and we talked for maybe 5 minutes. And I had to leave because the lecture started. On the other day I added her in social network, but I didnt write anything.

And I have no idea what to do next. Should i text her or wait for another lecture and talk there with her? And I don't know what I should tell her.

Oh, by the way I am pretty sure she's into me and waiting for me to make a first step but what is it exactly?

So help, please.

Ask her out... duh ;-) face your fears and just do it! don't complicate it.
Author:  MeH4wk [ Wed Sep 10, 2014 9:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need some help
Hey Eddie,

Thanks man. You opened my eyes. You described my situation precisely. I dont even know how I didnt notice it myself. It just makes so perfect sense to me now. And I WILL bust right through the front door.

Thanks to everyone.
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