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| Author: | Dymond [ Fri Sep 05, 2014 4:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Second date with sorority girl, she "has too much going on"? |
I did texting flirting for a month while she was out of the country, she comes back and I see her at a party and we make out drunk. I take her on a real date a few days later, and it goes well. She plays a little hard to get, but after 0 non-physical moves, I push her against the elevator all and make out with her, it was ballsy and she loved it. We hang out last night, and I gave her about an hour to open up to me. Were outside on campus and she tells me all about her family and her life and just vents to me for an hour, i think it really built rapport. I had a rough week and wasnt totally in "state". I walk her back to her room and her roommate is there. She also makes it obvious she doesnt like to be touched unless she's in a relationship, (like doesnt like holding hands, me putting my arm around her) Shes a total nerd at heart but can put of a bitch front of a sorority girl. Problem is, negs hit her heart because she's really just a softy. I went to the elevator, then like a total beta was like "well am I gonna see you again? she flirts, "maybe" then i say, "am i gonna see you again" and she goes "we'll see". She vented to me the whole night, she texts me "I have so much going on with the sorority and school, I dont have time to be romantically involved, you really did nothing wrong."" I tend to read people well, i give it 51% honest, 49% bullshit. I called her out saying it was BS, she said "pick up im calling you" Bottom line, she just joined a sorrority and wants to feel free to go make out with fratty douches. Shes a 8 in a group of 10s and doesnt get hit on. Oh, and the first night she was a wreck for not getting into her favorite sorority, and basically she cried on my shoulder the whole night. Where do i go from here? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Sep 05, 2014 4:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Second date with sorority girl, she "has too much going |
Quote: I walk her back to her room and her roommate is there. She also makes it obvious she doesnt like to be touched unless she's in a relationship, (like doesnt like holding hands, me putting my arm around her) She's not looking for a proposal here my friend. It is by now pretty well understood that traditional dating in college is as outdated as your flip-phone. She is busy, so she just wants to fuck, without the emotional entanglement of a relationship. |
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| Author: | Mr_International [ Sat Sep 06, 2014 5:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Second date with sorority girl, she "has too much going |
Smh @ neg. You are already on a date with her, why the freak would you neg her?? Also, when she vented, did you vent your rough week as well? |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sat Sep 06, 2014 6:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Second date with sorority girl, she "has too much going |
Bullshit she doesn't get hit on, but tell yourself that if it makes you feel better... She's setting the boundary of a platonic relationship, that's clearly not what you want so say bye (nicely) - that is your best chance as the attraction is probably at its highest now. |
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| Author: | Dymond [ Sun Sep 07, 2014 5:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Second date with sorority girl, she "has too much going |
She said she doesnt get hit on... ok so I need so be way more mysterious and just go for fucking? I tend to be energetic, and channel a sort of RSD Julien. How do I balance charisma with "cool" ? I have terrible inner game, but I did the three seconds until you approach rule all week on campus, and now i number close without thinking about it. Where to? |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Sep 08, 2014 1:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Second date with sorority girl, she "has too much going |
Quote: She vented to me the whole night, she texts me "I have so much going on with the sorority and school, I dont have time to be romantically involved, you really did nothing wrong."
This is a bit of a weird one... It could either be that she's serious --- OR:I sort of think this is possibly a shit test from her -- and I don't throw that word around lightly... everyone thinks everything is a shit test on this forum when most stuff actually isn't. She was obviously throwing out some major IOIs and was into you. If you were acting cool and half disinterested when you two parted ways, she could have been testing to see if you were serious about her... Shooting you that text and then calling to see how you'd react to her going cold after being so hot. Girls are fucked up that way. I wouldn't chase her, personally... I think she probably is interested... But she's looking for a reaction from you. |
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| Author: | Pikeman85 [ Mon Sep 08, 2014 5:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Second date with sorority girl, she "has too much going |
My read is that she was attracted, and he acted like a "gentleman" and needy which got her drier than the Sahara. You asking repeatedly if you'll see her again is weak - she probably thinks you'll go super puppy dog on her, and she just wants to be fucked. My guess is that she's lying about only wanting to be touched in a relationship. |
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