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| Author: | itisme [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 5:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Everything lost... break up? |
Hi, so I've been dating this girl and she's not really showing too much interest lately... She's gone on a long vacation with her family without telling me, and now that she's finally back, we arranged to meet today... when I texted her today, I didn't get a reply, so I called her a couple of hours later, she didn't pick up, but texted me that she was feeling sick. I texted her that I would visit her if she'd like that to which she didn't respond again... and now I am kinda stumped. I don't know why she's treating me like shit, but I have the feeling that this is over. So... just breaking off contact is kinda frustrating since I somehow wanna come clean... How would you go about that? Apparently, since she refuses to meet up, I'll have to text her that I don't see a sense in pursuing this "relationship" any longer... Would it be ok to do something like that? If yes, what exactly should I write her? Any other options to come clean that I didn't think of? Or is there even a way to save this? Cheers, me. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 5:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
"Hey, it clearly isn't working out anymore. Wish you the best of luck in life." Viola! |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 5:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
Accept it's over. Fade out. Don't know why you'd want/need closure. Seems like she's given it to you to me. |
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| Author: | itisme [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 6:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
Thanks for your thoughts, appreciate them! Yeah, I got the feeling that it might not be the best idea to follow up on this... Still, anyone who thinks that it actually IS a good idea to do so? Any other suggestions? |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 6:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
www.understandingrelationships.com. Read the material on that website it will tell you all you need to know on how to handle this situation. |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 6:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
This girl can't even be bothered to answer her damn phone for her supposed boyfriend? FFS stop all contact and go hit on other girls. She is being extremely disrespectful. Would you expect her to be all polite if you did this shit to her? Think about it. Don't even dump her. Just start hitting on other girls. If she ever texts you or calls you, you answer, say that your busy, tell her you'll call her back and then don't do it. If she continues contacting you after that about meeting up tell her that you're busy but she can come over Saturday cause you're meeting with a girl Friday. And when she comes over, fuck her and then dump her. For crying out loud. I know this is being dramatic but you need to change your mindset. You are wondering about how you can tip toe back to a girl that has been a bitch to you. She doesn't want a beta weak bf. The only thing that would get her back is for you to go out and get some social skills and other women. You need to understand that you aren't some loser and that you're time and effort isn't worthless like she is treating it. If you wouldn't do this bullshit to your gf then you shouldn't let her get away with it. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 8:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
You became a nice guy. Now she is treating you like dog shit because you allow it. Stand up for yourself be a man. Look at it like this she did you a favor, better now than ten years down the road. |
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| Author: | judasjones [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 11:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
i'd go for the freeze tactic. if it doesnt works, then i'd do what GamesSN said. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 12:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
Just do what I said straight away. You get closure and if she's just fucking about and is into you she'll come running back. If it's truly over then she won't argue or reply. Win/win outcome plus you save a lot of face man. Zero point in freezing her out. |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 2:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
I get the idea from this and your other thread, you're smothering. Just don't text her anything and move on. I disagree with gamesn here as I think another msg is gonna look needier. Either way, if she comes back or doesn't, MOVE ON. |
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| Author: | Malcolm Thomas [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 5:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
If I were in your shoes I would simply forget about her until she tried making contact with me again FIRST. You mentioned that you have texted her and never gotten back a response. Well, I would begin to game other women and will until she tried getting back in touch with me again first. |
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| Author: | Rebooting [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 9:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
Was this even a REAL relationship? Like, how long have you known her for? How long have you been dating for? Either way, she doesn't seem to see it as such, to the point of not even wanting to formally break up with you. If it is you overblowing the scope of that relationship, then hey, just accept it and maybe shoot her a text telling her you are tired of this and moving on. If not... Same path of action, but at least you have the peace of mind of knowing she is a grade A weak minded bitch for trying to fade out with no formal explanation. Anyway, not like it changes anything, it is over. |
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| Author: | Lulushu [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 3:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
Quote: Was this even a REAL relationship? Like, how long have you known her for? How long have you been dating for?
To be honest I wouldn't even text her again. I agree with GSN here, just do stuff that will make her intrigued(if she still has interest in you, if not it's a win/win for you). She got annoyed because you bothered her with the texts(to be honest, calling in sick is something I see as either a flake or a rain check, in both cases I don't bother calling or texting back anything more than a "k, get well soon" because if she is into me she will call/text me first, if she's not I'll get the hint and start gaming other girls, so no problem).
Either way, she doesn't seem to see it as such, to the point of not even wanting to formally break up with you. If it is you overblowing the scope of that relationship, then hey, just accept it and maybe shoot her a text telling her you are tired of this and moving on. If not... Same path of action, but at least you have the peace of mind of knowing she is a grade A weak minded bitch for trying to fade out with no formal explanation. Anyway, not like it changes anything, it is over. |
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| Author: | DrewDating [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 8:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Everything lost... break up? |
maybe she really is sick ? let it go |
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