PUA Forum :: Qualifying

I was chatting it up with a girl I approached today and had to say this was by far one of the best approaches I have done since I started this 5 months ago. Everything was perfect; physical touch, playful, good body language, I ran qualifiers on her and every single one stuck. The entire interaction essentially turned into her chasing me. By the end of our chat I got her number and she made me call her there on the spot and leave a message on her phone so she could have my number. After I left she ended up texting me 20 minutes later. First time ever a girl contacted me first.

Anyway, as mentioned one of my best approaches. My question is with each qualifier I gave her she asked the same question in return, hence qualifying me. How do I respond to this? Just simply answer? Is she qualifying me back and is it ok to respond to the same screening questions I asked her?

Author:	chrisangel [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 2:36 am ]
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I was chatting it up with a girl I approached today and had to say this was by far one of the best approaches I have done since I started this 5 months ago. Everything was perfect; physical touch, playful, good body language, I ran qualifiers on her and every single one stuck. The entire interaction essentially turned into her chasing me. By the end of our chat I got her number and she made me call her there on the spot and leave a message on her phone so she could have my number. After I left she ended up texting me 20 minutes later. First time ever a girl contacted me first. Anyway, as mentioned one of my best approaches. My question is with each qualifier I gave her she asked the same question in return, hence qualifying me. How do I respond to this? Just simply answer? Is she qualifying me back and is it ok to respond to the same screening questions I asked her?

Author:	Mastermind9000 [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 4:43 am ]
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Quote: I was chatting it up with a girl I approached today and had to say this was by far one of the best approaches I have done since I started this 5 months ago. Everything was perfect; physical touch, playful, good body language, I ran qualifiers on her and every single one stuck. The entire interaction essentially turned into her chasing me. By the end of our chat I got her number and she made me call her there on the spot and leave a message on her phone so she could have my number. After I left she ended up texting me 20 minutes later. First time ever a girl contacted me first. Anyway, as mentioned one of my best approaches. My question is with each qualifier I gave her she asked the same question in return, hence qualifying me. How do I respond to this? Just simply answer? Is she qualifying me back and is it ok to respond to the same screening questions I asked her? Any examples? As a rule, I would think that rewarding her curiosity with an honest answer, but some may disagree.

Author:	chrisangel [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 10:52 pm ]
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Some qualifiers I threw at her were; Do you smoke? Do you cook? Do you drink? What is your education level? And what she does for a living? Essentially all these came right back and I answered them honestly just not sure if I came across as seeking rapport, validation or being needy.

Author:	Mastermind9000 [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 2:17 am ]
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Quote: Some qualifiers I threw at her were; Do you smoke? Do you cook? Do you drink? What is your education level? And what she does for a living? Essentially all these came right back and I answered them honestly just not sure if I came across as seeking rapport, validation or being needy. Frankly, that just sounds like regular chit chat to me.

Author:	BrandonMarshall [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 2:25 pm ]
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Well you have 2 options... you can answer back directly and there's nothing wrong with that... OR You could mess with her and joke with her a little bit. for example she asks Do you smoke? I only smoke socially... about 2 packs every hour. (of course you make it so absurd it's obvious you're fucking with her)

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Author:	neo87 [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 3:08 pm ]
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You shouldn't just be asking random questions. If u ask do you smoke, why are you asking? When you ask a question it's good so talk about your views on it or why you asked.

Author:	chrisangel [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 3:35 am ]
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I think the joking way of answering sounds like a good idea, with eventually giving a direct answer. I usually don't ask questions out of the blue. I believe I set up that "smoking" question by talking about being fit an healthy so the question just naturally came up. Thanks everyone for the input. Got another question. What's your view on a girl giving you her email or facebook because she isn't comfortable giving her number. Do you take it and work something with it? Or is it pretty much number or nothing?

Author:	Mastermind9000 [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 3:51 am ]
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New topic new thread.

Author:	n2thevoid [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 4:06 am ]
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hahah betas amuse me.

Author:	Malcolm Thomas [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 5:34 am ]
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I would simply answer the same question that I posed to her as well. She is probably only doing that because she is really interested in getting to know you as a person and she probably really likes you.

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