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Author:  DalTXColtsFan [ Mon Sep 01, 2014 12:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Could I have done any better?

I'm a total newb outsider who hasn't even done the newbie mission and isn't actually serious about pickup, so if you only want to help people who are serious, feel free to skip this thread. If you just want to participate in a meaningless yet potentially entertaining conversation, read on!

I'm at a shorefront city park near downtown Toronto. Coming down the boardwalk with 2 of her friends is this 6'3" blueeyed blonde with smooth, tanned thighs from the ground to the sky - if her cutoffs were any shorter they'd have been a denim thong! I'm 6'4" so I have a thing for tall girls and this was one was off the charts.

I step in front of her while she's still a few steps away and say (looking her in the eyes with a smile on my face but not like a huge beaming smile), "Hello there!"

She looks at me a little startled and says, "Hi!"

While I'm in the process of saying, "It's not every day I meet a young lady I see eye to eye with!" she reaches me and stops in front of me (I was in her line of motion).

She says, "Me neither!"

I say, "You don't meet many ladies you see eye to eye with either?"

She says (not appearing particularly amused but not appearing to be backing off either), "You got it!"

While I'm in the process of saying, "In Texas, when we see a tall girl we almost always ask, 'Basketball or volleyballl?' but in Canada I guess we need to add Hockey to the conversation!" she and her friends are kind of looking at each other, and right about when I got to 'conversation' she started actually walking around me to walk away, and said, "I guess so!" as she was walking away.

Without moving or even turning my shoulders (just my head - I looked like an owl!) I said, "hey, before you go at least tell me which one it is!" and she just yelled back, "Okay!"

and that was it.

Just curious - what would a more experienced PUA have done in the same situation?

Author:  Dragula [ Mon Sep 01, 2014 11:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Could I have done any better?

She just wasn't interested bro. I just don't enough time in the day to make a thread for every girl that rejects me ;)

If she was interested, she was with her friends as she walked by so you didn't engage the group, win over her friends and they usually leave you both to it if she can tell she is attracted to you. having wings and not being solo would help with her friends too...

Takes a little more 'game' that what you just did, you just thought the mutual height would seal the deal for you, but here comes a point where you should attract her, as in get to know her or even escalate physically/non verbally.

Author:  hugge [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 1:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Could I have done any better?

With a topic like that, you most likely didn't give her a serious impression. As I would put it, you were a clown, just making jokes. It simply doesn't work. I have tried and failed, and I have seen others try and fail as well. Being self amused is important in pickup, but even more important is to build rapport and connect. But no one ever talks about that. Not in any free videos anyway.

Building rapport is quite a big topic. It's all from just having the "same energy" as the girl to mirroring every little thing she does. A quick way to build rapport with a girl like that would be to read her body language, facial expression, and the situation in general. If she looks busy, stressed, or whatever, the first thing you should do is to confirm that feeling, "excuse me, I can see that you are in a hurry, and here I come interrupting you". The girl in your story probably didn't look like she was in the mood for jokes either. She probably looked quite serious. In that case, you should have been just as serious yourself. Meet her at her level. Meet her in the same state of mind. You can read about these things by searching for "pacing and leading" on the Internet.

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