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Author:  Sparks2014 [ Mon Sep 01, 2014 12:23 am ]
Post subject:  Lost Interest In The Game
Im not really sure where to begin here,

ive been a PUA for maybe 4-5 years and had a whole heap of fun sarging etc with mixed results i used to be very very focused on going out having a laugh and pulling women, but lately i just dont seem to find fun in it, most of my friends want to go to clubs all the time, and while thats fine, and i can game (i actually have more success casue i genuinely am not interested in meeting the types of women in clubs) and they tend to come introduce themselves

my friends like it but i just find clubs boring its fun being out with friends but club game i find can be rather dull and my day game isnt really all that great so i kind of got bored with going out to sarge is this normal or a slump, or do i need to change my game type

when i do meet women its rare that i find them actually interesting, have i just become shallow or what

i do still want to get better at being a PUA so it isnt as if i am not trying to improve when i go out, perhaps its just my style of gaming is changing? wondering if anyone else has had or is having this problem?

re reading this as i type it it sounds pretty stupid as i read it back but dont really know how else to explain lol
Author:  Dragula [ Mon Sep 01, 2014 11:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lost Interest In The Game
Find the fire inside of you again, sounds like you're just disguising procrastination and label it as 'being bored'

Isn't meeting sexy girls and the fact that you're going to die one day not give you enough motivation????
Author:  Versalis [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 1:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Lost Interest In The Game
Most guys don't find the vast majority of club chicks to be interesting. Some of them can be fun, but interesting? Rarely.
Author:  Cool Hand Luke [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 2:39 am ]
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Yes, your game is changing and you are changing for the better. I too was in the game for years and went through exactly the same thing. And like you I was very perplexed by it. I was a big clubber and went out all the time. Then one day I hit a period where, I didn't want to go out any more. It happened to be after I broke up with someone. I wanted to hang with my guy friends, not game and watch hockey. I had never been like that in my life!

Then one day the desire to go out gradualy came back. And my game shot through the roof!@ Went to a level didn't know existed.
Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 5:37 am ]
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When you get better, wiser and smarter, you will intuitively start looking for higher quality on girls. That'y shwy you find those girls aren't interesting.

I had go through same stuffs before and I stop going to club and start approach at day time on Professional girls as these girls are mostly ambititious and driven in general, smarter and are more interesting to talk to..

Look for higher caliber girls and you will get back your passion.


See you on the top,
Naughty Napoleon
Author:  n2thevoid [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 6:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Lost Interest In The Game
Quote:
When you get better, wiser and smarter, you will intuitively start looking for higher quality on girls. That'y shwy you find those girls aren't interesting.

I had go through same stuffs before and I stop going to club and start approach at day time on Professional girls as these girls are mostly ambititious and driven in general, smarter and are more interesting to talk to..

Look for higher caliber girls and you will get back your passion.


See you on the top,
Naughty Napoleon
So true. It's all about demographics.
Author:  Xoved [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 4:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lost Interest In The Game
The thing here is you're starting to find yourself. You're growing up and your mind is maturing towards a different category of girls. When you were young, you used to literally love grinding on those chicks in the club with barely any clothes on. However, you're leaning into a different category now. Find out what you're doing for fun these days and sit in places where you can meet girls who love the same things you do. For example: you might love reading, so going to a cafe to read and meeting another woman who also likes to read would be the perfect thing for you.

Just follow your passions and you'll find the right women for you.
Author:  hugge [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 1:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lost Interest In The Game
Clubs are boring when you know how the game works. It's just like any hobby. As long as you learn new things, it is interesting, fun and stimulating. But once you have mastered it, it becomes boring. And that's when it's time to move on.

Besides, why is game always based on clubbing? Clubs are the worst place ever to meet women!
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 3:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lost Interest In The Game
Quote:
Clubs areBesides, why is game always based on clubbing? Clubs are the worst place ever to meet women!
Speak for yourself mate ;)

I get bored of positive reactions only on day game , I much prefer to fuck sexy DTF girls, usually found in clubs :)

I really think there is no such thing as mastery in game. Even the really good guys know they can learn much more and always room for improvement...

How can fucking copious amounts of sexy girls on the same nigheet them get boring?? Ha, well I'm speaking for myself here too... ;)
Author:  Sparks2014 [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 5:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lost Interest In The Game
that makes a lot of sense guys thanks i suppose its time to change maybe thats what it is and perhaps it is procrastinating not sure but the comments give me food for thought, maybe i need to read back up on some daygame

im curious you all pretty much say you went through the same thing and it gradually came back how? were you just out and about and gradually got back into the swing of it or did you push yourself to do so, i generally have no problem approaching but idk i guess i havent found anything to kinda kickstart that drive again

i miss being exited about meeting new people and the fun in being a PUA where can i start to find that kickstart if you know what i mean

or did it just naturally progress for the rest of you? at least i know its a pretty normal change thats encouraging! :)
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 5:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lost Interest In The Game
Think of it like this:

You are going to die one day.
Author:  Pikeman85 [ Thu Sep 04, 2014 9:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Lost Interest In The Game
I'd say it goes in spurts. Getting good at club game is definitely a fun experience at first - getting that level of validation and, "holy shit, this stuff works!" really changes your perspective.

But clubbing can ultimately get boring, tiresome, and hurt you professionally (if you do it too often).

I've found it best to have multiple different ways of getting girls to be the most effective way - then you don't get tired of any of them.

Starbucks game is fantastic. One of the first places I started gaming, and I still really enjoy it.
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