PUA Forum :: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with her

Ok, let me ask you two questions:
1) what is game for you?
2) how much do you practice game?

Now think about it carefully and keep reading only after you answered honestly to these questions. You don't have to tell me the answers, they are your business.

Done?

Good. These are my answers:
Answer number 1: it's a way of improving myself and my social life including the QUANTITY and the QUALITY of the women I'm surrounded of.
You clearly don't have either quantity or high quality women near you. Therefore you feel that if you don't stay with your ugly gf you'll end up alone for a long, loooong time. This is only true if you don't do anything for improving yourself, but the fact you are asking this question here means that you wanna change something in your life (BRAVO!). Now, how do you improve yourself on this field? By breaking up with your ugly gf and going out there and practicing game.
I'll tell you something more: the more you surround yourself with beautiful women, the more you'll get attractive from their point of view (check out the videos of Adam Lyons, he says the same thing). So, what do you have to do? go out there and open the girls you find attractive! You don't even need to close them, just add them to your social circle! They unconsciously will help you closing other beautiful women!
(tell me if you don't understand something)

Answer number 2: just to give you an idea, I go out sarging every friday and/or saturday night and if i see a hot chick on the streets you can be sure that I'll open her. With this activity I have decent results (I'm usually able to close HB 8, 9 or even 10s).
So now think again about the answer you gave before and compare your effort with mine. If you effort is more than mine I'd recommend you to go to someone that is an expert in seduction. If your effort is lower than mine, you need to rise it in order to have better results.

Hope all this that will be useful to you. Good luck!

Author:	SF__Giants88 [ Fri Aug 29, 2014 6:36 pm ]
Post subject:	I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with her
If you guys were me would you rather be alone or be with a girl that you truly are not attracted to? We have been dating for a month now. We do everything a bf & gf would do (holding hands, kissing, sex, etc.) and i'm supposed to be happy about this but i'm not at all because I swear I think she's butt ugly.... The only reason I chose her as my gf is because I have nowhere else to go. Every girl I genuinely wanted to be with turned me down so I was stuck with her as my only option to have a girlfriend since she's the only one willing to take me. I'm scared to leave her because if I do I have no girls to fall back on and i'm gonna be alone again and it may take a long time to find a replacement for her. At the same time I think she's absolutely gross and I wanna throw up everytime she kisses me because of how ugly she is.... I tried to pretend she's a girl i'm truly attracted to when kissing her or having sex with her but it never worked out because I can never see past that ugly face.... What would you guys do if you were me? I'm in a tough situation here... I really wish a girl i'm truly attracted to would give me a chance....

Author:	CESARE [ Fri Aug 29, 2014 7:48 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
Ok, let me ask you two questions: 1) what is game for you? 2) how much do you practice game? Now think about it carefully and keep reading only after you answered honestly to these questions. You don't have to tell me the answers, they are your business. Done? Good. These are my answers: Answer number 1: it's a way of improving myself and my social life including the QUANTITY and the QUALITY of the women I'm surrounded of. You clearly don't have either quantity or high quality women near you. Therefore you feel that if you don't stay with your ugly gf you'll end up alone for a long, loooong time. This is only true if you don't do anything for improving yourself, but the fact you are asking this question here means that you wanna change something in your life (BRAVO!). Now, how do you improve yourself on this field? By breaking up with your ugly gf and going out there and practicing game. I'll tell you something more: the more you surround yourself with beautiful women, the more you'll get attractive from their point of view (check out the videos of Adam Lyons, he says the same thing). So, what do you have to do? go out there and open the girls you find attractive! You don't even need to close them, just add them to your social circle! They unconsciously will help you closing other beautiful women! (tell me if you don't understand something) Answer number 2: just to give you an idea, I go out sarging every friday and/or saturday night and if i see a hot chick on the streets you can be sure that I'll open her. With this activity I have decent results (I'm usually able to close HB 8, 9 or even 10s). So now think again about the answer you gave before and compare your effort with mine. If you effort is more than mine I'd recommend you to go to someone that is an expert in seduction. If your effort is lower than mine, you need to rise it in order to have better results. Hope all this that will be useful to you. Good luck!

Author:	Pikeman85 [ Fri Aug 29, 2014 9:05 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
If you're not happy with her, drop her. You can do better. EDIT: It may take you a while. I had a girlfriend like that years ago. I eventually broke up with her, and despite her trying to get back together with me, I said I'd never be in an unhappy relationship again. I never have been. It took me many years to get good with dating (I didn't really get good until I discovered PUA). You have nothing to lose - who cares if you are alone? You will die alone, get used to it, and don't let the idea of being alone contribute to your weakness. You're a man, act like it.

Author:	SF__Giants88 [ Fri Aug 29, 2014 10:52 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
Quote: Ok, let me ask you two questions: 1) what is game for you? 2) how much do you practice game? Now think about it carefully and keep reading only after you answered honestly to these questions. You don't have to tell me the answers, they are your business. Done? Good. These are my answers: Answer number 1: it's a way of improving myself and my social life including the QUANTITY and the QUALITY of the women I'm surrounded of. You clearly don't have either quantity or high quality women near you. Therefore you feel that if you don't stay with your ugly gf you'll end up alone for a long, loooong time. This is only true if you don't do anything for improving yourself, but the fact you are asking this question here means that you wanna change something in your life (BRAVO!). Now, how do you improve yourself on this field? By breaking up with your ugly gf and going out there and practicing game. I'll tell you something more: the more you surround yourself with beautiful women, the more you'll get attractive from their point of view (check out the videos of Adam Lyons, he says the same thing). So, what do you have to do? go out there and open the girls you find attractive! You don't even need to close them, just add them to your social circle! They unconsciously will help you closing other beautiful women! (tell me if you don't understand something) Answer number 2: just to give you an idea, I go out sarging every friday and/or saturday night and if i see a hot chick on the streets you can be sure that I'll open her. With this activity I have decent results (I'm usually able to close HB 8, 9 or even 10s). So now think again about the answer you gave before and compare your effort with mine. If you effort is more than mine I'd recommend you to go to someone that is an expert in seduction. If your effort is lower than mine, you need to rise it in order to have better results. Hope all this that will be useful to you. Good luck! I'm just curious where are usually your favorite places to go sarging?

Author:	Clocks [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 1:28 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
What the hell, why would you go out with a girl you find 'disgusting' ???

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Author:	Xoved [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 2:14 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
If you're not happy or attracted, break up with her and get yourself a better girl you're attracted to. It's not the girls won't give you a chance, it's you not giving a chance to yourself. Anyone can improve and become handsome. Anyone can get the girl he wants. You just have to work hard for it. Watch videos about picking up girls, that'll help you more than books.

Author:	Playboi_ [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 2:43 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
hahah stop being a pussy. You need it put bluntly. YOU ARE DATING A GIRL YOU DO NOT LIKE! Your self-esteem is shit and your women will ALWAYS be shit until you change it. Staying in that relationship is one way to GUARANTEE you NEVER change that. Drop her now, move on, better yourself.

Author:	SF__Giants88 [ Mon Sep 01, 2014 4:10 am ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
Quote: What the hell, why would you go out with a girl you find 'disgusting' ??? For now it's because I have no choice at all and I don't really have any other options when it comes to potential girls I can be dating since the girls I actually want are either taken or aren't interested in dating me....

Author:	Playboi_ [ Mon Sep 01, 2014 3:59 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
Quote: Quote: What the hell, why would you go out with a girl you find 'disgusting' ??? For now it's because I have no choice at all and I don't really have any other options when it comes to potential girls I can be dating since the girls I actually want are either taken or aren't interested in dating me.... Then be by yourself and better your life dude. Why do you HAVE to be dating?

Author:	CESARE [ Mon Sep 01, 2014 4:21 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
Quote: I'm just curious where are usually your favorite places to go sarging? Simple: everywhere. During the day it can be in the streets, supermarkets, shops, bars, mcdonalds. During the night i usually drink something with friends in a bar and then go to a club, but if i see a HB10 walking down the street I'll approach her. Quote: For now it's because I have no choice at all and I don't really have any other options when it comes to potential girls I can be dating since the girls I actually want are either taken or aren't interested in dating me.... "I have no other options"... I used to say the same before entering into game. Dude, listen to us: drop your ugly girlfriend and go expand your social circle. This means: go out there and meet new people! You won't loose anything! Think carefully about it: what do you have to loose?

Author:	NaughtyNapoleon [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 5:33 am ]
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Author:	SF__Giants88 [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 6:41 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
Quote: Quote: Quote: What the hell, why would you go out with a girl you find 'disgusting' ??? For now it's because I have no choice at all and I don't really have any other options when it comes to potential girls I can be dating since the girls I actually want are either taken or aren't interested in dating me.... Then be by yourself and better your life dude. Why do you HAVE to be dating? I guess I just feel pressured to have a gf because all my friends have a gf already and i'll be the only one who is single if I leave her and it may be years till I find anothet gf again... Ideally I want a new gf by the end of this year but since there's only 4 months left I'm not sure if that's happening....

Author:	neo87 [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 7:01 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
Dude... You're still with this depressing stuff? How often do you approach? Have you met any pickup guys in your city?

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 7:09 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
**Shaking my damn head....

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Author:	SF__Giants88 [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 9:07 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I've been dating this girl and i'm not happy at all with
Quote: Dude... You're still with this depressing stuff? How often do you approach? Have you met any pickup guys in your city? If you're talking about the last girl I asked you guys about this ones a different girl but.... she isnt any better looking and this time she officially became my gf.... FML How often do I approach you ask? Well I stopped going clubbing and bar hopping because it just wasn't working out at all so I usually approach whenever I see the opportunity to do so which sadly isn't as often as i'd like it to be. If I had a good opportunity at a better looking gf i'm gonna bail on my current one ASAP! As for pickup guys in my city well.... I only met one through meetup.com and he was pretty useless because all he did was take me to the club and leave me on my own from there....