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Author:  Mikkyo [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 3:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Done first date, Second date..shagged but what now??
I have managed to get my mojo back!! Thank jesus! Praise the lord!!!

Done first date, Second date..shagged but what now?? Well, I think the drink had something to do with the luck :-) We were out till 5am then got back and slept through till midday.

I am in a situation which I need some advice on.... on the way back to hers she said "I dont want to lead you up the wrong path...." - i was thinking she meant "no sex".. "I was like yeah thats cool!" Lets just chill..the thing is, she told me that she is sort of seeing a guy which is coming back from Thailand today (sunday) and meeting up with him.

I like her, not sure about the long term thing.. but she is good looking and banging body. She asked me to txt her when i got back. "hey, i am back and going to chill out, thanks for a great night. are you ok?" She sent back a msg along the lines of thanks for a "good" (i picked up on the word good)... and feeling a lil crappy.

Now what...... do I just accept she is not into this as much as I am or sent flowers monday tomorrow to her office???

Gods of PUA... please guide me!
Author:  paladien [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 4:24 pm ]
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:D i like you man
hahah great job shagging on 2nd date :P

its important to not put any pressure on her, and lead her towards your goals to whatever that is.. sex for example :)
try some bf destroyers, though i dont use them that much cuz it might seem to her that your intimidated by this guy.
thats all the advice i can give, i think youve done a great job already :p
oh a friend of mine was in the same kind of situation, he did it very simple she was like .. i dont know if we should do this again
and he was like; well :p im sure you'll think differently after we're done
hahah :D it worked like fireworks, they've been screwing the whole night :D
it was on vacation though

goodluck!

stekemrt
Author:  Mikkyo [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 4:45 pm ]
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so no flowers... what the feck do I do? Just chill and let it go...
Author:  mOlis_pir3s [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 5:54 pm ]
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO dont send her flowers!!! thats will make it seem (well it probably is) that you're trying too hard..you got to freeze her out for abit, seem like a busy guy, thats shes not your priority..let her do her thing..

where did you meet up? will you 'bump' into eachother again or do you HAVE to set something up to see her again?

she even told you i dont want to lead you in the wrong direction which meant that she only wanted sex..she was horny..its natural.. so you got to stay cool for this one bc it seems to me like you're bordering the line of becoming clingy if we dont stop you here.. :) if you want more sex you have to freeze her out for abit dude. maybe text her in a couple of days with a text that someone else here will come up with (i just woke up a while ago :oops: )

i'll come back to this topic later on with some more stuff if you need anything

sorry for the long post, hope it helped
Author:  Whoopie [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:10 pm ]
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Yeah send no flowers. You should watch Alfie...thats a pretty good movie. You should see what happens when he decided to send flowers. lol
Author:  nuked [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:17 pm ]
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Flowers? Lol that is so beyond AFC its not funny. What you need to decide internally is whether or not you really want her. Because, no offense if you can get her in 2 days then she's replaceable. I would say fuck it, however if you genuinly like her then freeze her out. However, keep in mind that if she talks to you when you are freezing her out to not come off as an asshole just a busy person. If this doesn't work, she really just wanted you to fuck her, and in that case go find 5 more women :)
Author:  The Doctor [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:35 pm ]
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Why are we freezing out here?

Freezing out is intended as a form of punishment... what are we punishing her for? He should punish her for sleeping with him? Because thats the link she's going to subconciously and probably even conciously make.

I agree flowers is a bad plan... but punishing her by totally ignoring the girl is equally silly.

And I say don't worry about sleeping with her on Day 2 making her low value... I honestly can't remember the last time it took me longer then 2 days to close a girl... good girl or bad girl, it doesn't much matter after awhile and 2 days is plenty of time.
Author:  nuked [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 9:47 pm ]
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Wow, my bad. Doc I'm glad you posted that. I've been answering questions for awhile now and some of the situations are molding together in my head.

Different approach, continue to talk to her. You need to find out her situation with the guy she is seeing. If they are in a serious long term relationship, just be friends with her. If its temporary, you can either try boy-friend destoryer, or just hang out with her. Let her realize you are more fun and cooler, go about it the natural way.
Author:  Mikkyo [ Mon Mar 10, 2008 9:08 am ]
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Is two dates bad then??? I mean in her defense, we were legless..??

Ok so I am going to freeze her out, no flowers... I didnt know that was AFC. Sooo much to learn!!!

How long should I wait and what should I do???
Author:  Mikkyo [ Mon Mar 10, 2008 10:23 am ]
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Forget above.... got an email... morning how are you? bla bla.

Whats the plan?
Author:  nuked [ Mon Mar 10, 2008 5:08 pm ]
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Well, if you are looking for a relationship. Talk to her and find out what she wants. Because, there's no sense freezing her out....if she's seeing someone else, she's just going to think your an ass and stop talking to you.

Talk to her, find out what she wants. Then post again, and we go from there :)
Author:  Mikkyo [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 2:38 pm ]
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Well, its Wednesday, no reply. I replied so it would of gone through on Tuesday first thing. What do I do???? I am worried she thinks I just wanted to shag her... advice please
Author:  Whoopie [ Wed Mar 12, 2008 5:41 pm ]
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If she wrote you asking you how your doing. Respond, Its like a asshole move not to respond. Tell her how you been so busy and tired that you been meaning to get back in touch with her. Then ask her what she is doing for the weekend. Thats if you want to hang out and get laided again of course. Plus ask her if she is feeling better!
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