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Author:  Tändelei [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 4:52 pm ]
Post subject:  That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

Did you do something wrong if when going for the number with "Hey, I liked this so far, I want to exchange numbers" she says "That's so sweet of you but there already is someone" and her female friend next to her smiles.

Did you do something wrong when you touch her more intimately and she says "no, don't touch me there, I am a woman, you don't touch women there". I touched her there(her stomach and hip) again but I was wondering if that only occurs if I did something wrong before.

Author:  Pikeman85 [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 5:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

Just put your phone in her and hands and be like, "give your number" or "I'll get in contact with you later".

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 5:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

Uh, if she says 'don't touch me there' - it'd be a very good idea not to touch her there.

Author:  Tändelei [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 6:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

Don't everybody speak up at once!

Author:  breedlove465 [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 6:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

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Did you do something wrong if when going for the number with "Hey, I liked this so far, I want to exchange numbers" she says "That's so sweet of you but there already is someone" and her female friend next to her smiles.

Did you do something wrong when you touch her more intimately and she says "no, don't touch me there, I am a woman, you don't touch women there". I touched her there(her stomach and hip) again but I was wondering if that only occurs if I did something wrong before.
Not all girls are going to be interested at all times. Accept it.

When she says "there is someone else" thats her way of saying no thanks.

No it doesn't mean you did anything wrong. Some times when you touch a girl you get a good response sometimes a bad response. When you get a bad response you back off and callibrate, flirt some more and try again later.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Aug 27, 2014 9:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

she aint interested

Author:  Tändelei [ Thu Aug 28, 2014 9:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

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When she says "there is someone else" thats her way of saying no thanks.
The thing that bugs me is the "That's so sweet". It sounds like she does not take me seriously as a lover.

Author:  TheBlackMagician [ Thu Aug 28, 2014 10:02 am ]
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I read your situation and honestly I wasn't going to comment since there were already comments, BUT...I will.

I'm not going to sugarcoat it, because she acts like you're some little kid..."you don't touch women there" like she has to inform you or she's teaching you. Is she much older than you? And her friend smiling sounds like some weirdo...is her friend the other someone? Is this chick lesbian?

They sound like complete bitches. I'm just going to come out and say it. She sounds like she's some tease and the good girl and she would be someone who would talk behind your back to her little friend. Cut your losses and move on. Waste of your time. They do indeed sound like they don't take you serious, they probably take most men as jokes from the sounds of it. But in the end they are ones who appear childish from what you have told us especially with that fucking smile.

Good luck to you man. You dodged a bullet when she denied your request for her number.

Author:  Tändelei [ Thu Aug 28, 2014 10:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

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I read your situation and honestly I wasn't going to comment since there were already comments, BUT...I will.

I'm not going to sugarcoat it, because she acts like you're some little kid..."you don't touch women there" like she has to inform you or she's teaching you. Is she much older than you? And her friend smiling sounds like some weirdo...is her friend the other someone? Is this chick lesbian?

They sound like complete bitches. I'm just going to come out and say it. She sounds like she's some tease and the good girl and she would be someone who would talk behind your back to her little friend. Cut your losses and move on. Waste of your time. They do indeed sound like they don't take you serious, they probably take most men as jokes from the sounds of it. But in the end they are ones who appear childish from what you have told us especially with that fucking smile.

Good luck to you man. You dodged a bullet when she denied your request for her number.
Thanks for your perspective, you could be right.

Author:  BITmixit [ Thu Aug 28, 2014 1:27 pm ]
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Touching a girls stomach area is always a no go. Even the girlfriend gets pissed off when I pat her on the stomach. My aim is to annoy her tho as it's hilarious.

For picking up...yeh just don't go for the stomach area. The face/hair is ripe for touching tho.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Aug 28, 2014 1:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

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I read your situation and honestly I wasn't going to comment since there were already comments, BUT...I will.

I'm not going to sugarcoat it, because she acts like you're some little kid..."you don't touch women there" like she has to inform you or she's teaching you. Is she much older than you? And her friend smiling sounds like some weirdo...is her friend the other someone? Is this chick lesbian?

They sound like complete bitches. I'm just going to come out and say it. She sounds like she's some tease and the good girl and she would be someone who would talk behind your back to her little friend. Cut your losses and move on. Waste of your time. They do indeed sound like they don't take you serious, they probably take most men as jokes from the sounds of it. But in the end they are ones who appear childish from what you have told us especially with that fucking smile.

Good luck to you man. You dodged a bullet when she denied your request for her number.
Thanks for your perspective, you could be right.
Haha - finally found a comment you liked... so you'll take that advice.

Author:  Tändelei [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 7:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

I noticed that there's a difference in phrasing, the dialogue went like this:

We are sitting on a bench, she has her cell phone on her legs.

Regarding the touching
She touched me unintentionally, I repeated how she reacted beforehand and she said
"That's something different, listen, I am a woman"

Regarding the end
Me: "I have to go"
She: "Alright"
Me: "Let's meet again, now that you've been presenting your mobile phone so proudly for 5 minutes"
She: "Um..well...that doesn't work unfortunately"
Me: "why?"
She: "Cause there is someone"
Her friend laughs
Me: "I see, as always"
She: "Yeah"
Me: "It's always like this, isn't it?"
She: "But thank you anyways"
Me: "For what?"
She: "That you asked me, you said that you liked me, that's a compliment"
Me: "Actually I wanted to meet the two of you"
She: "And then?"
Me relaxed with a smile: "Let's see"
She: "Well I don't know, I can't, sorry, I really can't"
Me: "You are boring"
She: "No, I am focused"
Me: "Focused? On unimportant things?"
She: "On important things"
Me: "I really have to go. See you, bye"
She: "Yeah, bye" + smile

Author:  Jason. [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 8:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

the other day i had someone tell me "I have someone, but im not saying no, lets go out next week" so yeah. you got brushed off mate

Author:  Tändelei [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 10:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

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the other day i had someone tell me "I have someone, but im not saying no, lets go out next week" so yeah. you got brushed off mate
No, she(or he) didn't.

Author:  Jason. [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 11:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: That's so sweet of you but there already is someone

yes she did.

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