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| Author: | rishi_rishi [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 5:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | unable to get the HB involved with me for long |
hi all, this is turning to be a very complex case now. -this new target is really gettin me hectic schedule figurin out new techniques....and i desparately need some cool suggestions to pick her up. -observations till now have made it clear tht she is talkative. but m unable to go her cube(she's in my office) every timefor tht, so except hi - hello most of the time we chat thru IM. tht too aint much.... -the first time(1-2 times infact) we talked, really had a good time. but i guess she's got the idea tht m flirtin tht's y she try n ignore me sometimes -but this ignorance is not str8 as she atleast responds in a manner or so... ......hv tried :- few openers, number game, jokes, asked interests (she talked a bit abt music but talkin abt movies she was monotonous(though movies is her interest)), tried anchoring(online) but not very good results.... ***for next step need all ur advice... ***URGENT |
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| Author: | rishi_rishi [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 5:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | contd... |
i think this one will also require your analysis. " me: which was the last movie you watched. she: XYZ and tht too 1 n half yr back coz dont get much time of work me: y u r busy in work or wat she: yes, also dont find frd available to go with me me: heyyyyy, once m back from ABC will definitely make a solid movie plan for you. all you have to do is to take some time out for it. she: ok,lets c " ......did i blew it off..... ......if yes, then how to reconcile..... please ack.. |
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| Author: | nuked [ Sun Mar 09, 2008 10:52 pm ] |
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Ok man, I want to help you. But please for future reference be a little more conscious of your content in your post. The post is hard to follow for poor spelling and grammer. It doesn't have to be perfect but a little more effort would be nice. Alight, on to your issue. I think you are doing fine as of the present if she wants to go to a movie with you. However, I don't believe your first date should be a movie. Ask her to join you for coffee on a Sunday or something. First dates should be casual. A movie is cool, but you pay no attention to each other unless its the physical kind. Hang out with her, get to know her better. |
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| Author: | rishi_rishi [ Mon Mar 10, 2008 5:15 pm ] |
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thank u very much nuke.... m srry for all grammar mistakes and obstruce explanation of my case... u c got a habbit of chattin and dont follow grammar so strictly..... newazz thks again hey all........ need more inputs !!! |
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| Author: | leftytheking [ Mon Mar 10, 2008 9:24 pm ] |
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Basically, take her to somewhere low-energy like Nuked said. Then, get to know her and show her the postive things about you. Don't put a lot of pressure on her, but make her feel good as well as LAUGH. Laughter always helps. As Style says, Rapport= Trust + Comfort. |
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