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Author:  blackout02 [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 4:03 pm ]
Post subject:  I can't kiss her....

So I've been seeing this HB8 recently, its been about 6-7 or so dates. Little less than a month. So still early. But I'm having a hard time figuring this one out.


-She replies to all my texts.
-She has never flaked on me.
-She snapchats and instragams us, holding hands, hugging, etc. to all her friends.
-She's told her mom about me.
-I've met all her friends.
-We cuddle, hold hands, all that nonsense.
-She talks about us in a "couple" form.
-She's said she's confused about me and doesn't know how she feels about me yet.
-She's has trouble trusting guys and has only had one BF her whole life.


Now where I'm lost, or how to go about this. I can't kiss her! But everything else has been good. I've only k-closed her twice technically and both time it was awkward. First K-close we were tipsy so not counting that. She wears braces and says she's self conscious about them, but I don't know if I buy into that.
I obviously like her or I wouldn't be here.

I don't know what to do! Could she be really that self conscious about her mouth? Or does it sound like an excuse?

Like last night I went to kiss her goodnight, she refused. Said "I fell asleep and my mouth feels disgusting".

I know I've been flirting with the Friendzone a couple of time with her a while ago so that could be it. I've been seeing her a lot, maybe I need to give her the gift of missing me and see what happens.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 4:42 pm ]
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You have to lead and be confident.

Don't pussy-foot around the kiss. It's just a kiss.

If you've been out with her 7 times and only had 2 awkward kisses, you need to shit or get off the pot, dude... Just count to 3 and do it.

Author:  blackout02 [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 4:44 pm ]
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It's not like I don't try. I do! I tried last night but she gave me that braces excuse.. :/

Author:  TheFury [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 4:50 pm ]
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How old are you? If you aren't really young, just move on, this girl is clearly wack.

Author:  blackout02 [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 4:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't kiss her....

I know right. Im 28 and she's 25.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 5:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't kiss her....

Wow. Seriously if you hadn't have said your age I'd have said 15-16...

You gotta move on if she's not gonna kiss you.

Fuck that.

7 dates and a couple uncomfortable pecks on the lips means you're gonna get laid around 2018.

Author:  GamesSN [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 5:16 pm ]
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Before you move on just be upfront with her. "Look, we're spending all this time together, holding hands and shit. What's the deal?" What have you got to lose?

Author:  blackout02 [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 5:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I can't kiss her....

I guess I don't have anything to lose. Might as well ask her and be upfront. Should I just her that or do it in person?

Author:  deftones [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 5:50 pm ]
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Quote:
I guess I don't have anything to lose. Might as well ask her and be upfront. Should I just her that or do it in person?
This kind of convo is best in person.

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