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Author:  KRISTOSone [ Tue Aug 12, 2014 9:29 am ]
Post subject:  girl says she feels guilty? need help!
yo guys first post here just looking for some help..any would be much appreciated:) ... heres the (long) story:
so me and my neighbors girlfriend started talking on facebook, we ended up getting lunch not long after that, a few days later, after talking on facebook for i duno a day or 2 we decided to watch a movie at her house wile her bf was at work.. his sister and mum kept coming home wile me and her were watching the movie wich made things more funny. when everyone left and it was just us 2 and the movie was over we started to wrestle eachother and play fight, then she started sucking and licking my neck and biting my ear.. had to go after that cause she had to pick up her bf from work..after the first day we got lunch we continued to talk on facebook basically all day everyday.. fast foward the weekend to monday we did basiscally the same thing at her house except no interuptions and no movie just wrestling and mucking around... then today (tuesday) she came over to my house in the morning only wearing my hoodie and a g-string, we layed in bed wrestled and hooked up, kissed necks and all that, but had to stop when her bfs sister said she was about 10 mins away.. later that day she says she dosnt know if we should stop or not because she feels guilty... i told her the decision is up to her and hope that we can keep what we have going, then she said she will have to think about it and havent heard from her in almost an hour... basically what i want to know is if i should message her asking for what she thinks or wait for her to message me?
again any help is much appreciated :)
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Aug 12, 2014 1:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl says she feels guilty? need help!
Don't message her.

Just stop yourself from doing it. Trust me.

You'll look stronger.

Your position, and the way you need to act here is like you couldn't give a fuck what happens.

It's good that you told her you hoped it would continue, but now you have to let her decide - sending a message after an hour will only make you look weak and a bit needy.

Just sit back and wait for her to contact you.

Also, I hope your neighbor isn't a large man... If he finds out you're going to get the shit beaten out of you.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Aug 12, 2014 1:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl says she feels guilty? need help!
Quote:
then she said she will have to think about it and havent heard from her in almost an hour... basically what i want to know is if i should message her asking for what she thinks or wait for her to message me?
again any help is much appreciated :)
A whole hour?

Just chill, let her get hold of you, and then don't get all serious about it, keep it sexual and flirty.
Author:  Chief [ Tue Aug 12, 2014 1:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl says she feels guilty? need help!
Next time you decide to hook up with a girl who has a boyfriend, YOU need to take the initiative.

The girl from your situation feels guilty because SHE took the initiative by sucking and licking your neck first.

She wouldn't have felt as guilty (or wouldn't have felt guilty at all) if you took complete responsibility for what happened, and you can only claim full responsibility if you were the one pushing the seduction forward the entire way.

Don't make girls feel bad.

Take the lead ALWAYS.
Author:  KRISTOSone [ Tue Aug 12, 2014 11:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl says she feels guilty? need help!
Quote:
Don't message her.

Just stop yourself from doing it. Trust me.

You'll look stronger.

Your position, and the way you need to act here is like you couldn't give a fuck what happens.

It's good that you told her you hoped it would continue, but now you have to let her decide - sending a message after an hour will only make you look weak and a bit needy.

Just sit back and wait for her to contact you.

Also, I hope your neighbor isn't a large man... If he finds out you're going to get the shit beaten out of you.
nope not trying to up myself but im the bigger guy in the situation.. thanks for the advice bro :) even if it does stop, do you reckon it will start again later on?
Quote:
Next time you decide to hook up with a girl who has a boyfriend, YOU need to take the initiative.

The girl from your situation feels guilty because SHE took the initiative by sucking and licking your neck first.

She wouldn't have felt as guilty (or wouldn't have felt guilty at all) if you took complete responsibility for what happened, and you can only claim full responsibility if you were the one pushing the seduction forward the entire way.

Don't make girls feel bad.

Take the lead ALWAYS.
i know what your saying bro cheers for the advice
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then she said she will have to think about it and havent heard from her in almost an hour... basically what i want to know is if i should message her asking for what she thinks or wait for her to message me?
again any help is much appreciated :)
A whole hour?

Just chill, let her get hold of you, and then don't get all serious about it, keep it sexual and flirty.
yep a whole 60 minutes ;)
haha cheers man:)
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