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| Author: | bartm [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 6:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | does this count as being a "nice guy"? |
yesterday I went to an event where there was free pizza. I took a couple of slices with me but when I was going home, I didnt feel hungry any more and I didnt know what to do with the pizza. so I was just walking and I noticed this hottie by the bus stop. I went up to her and said "I got this pizza for free but dont want it, do you want it?" she said no. Then I said "ok, maybe I will leave it on the bench here and a homeless guy will pick it up?" she said "I think that's a good idea." then I stood there and caused some awkward silence. then she said "how did you get free pizza?" I said "I went to this event where they had...." then she cut me off "they had food?" Then she said something discouraging. she said "I think that's very nice you are doing this" Does that mean I was now a "nice guy"? I was about to say something sexual like "you have nice lips" but I thought there is no point since I am now a "nice guy" in her eyes. how do girls view someone who does charity and helps out? |
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| Author: | Cdharders [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 7:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: does this count as being a "nice guy"? |
Girls love guys who do charity. I have raised 2 guide dogs for the blind and they always melt when I show the picture of the little girl that own of the dogs I raised is helping. You didn't do charity work there though. You offered a hot girl leftovers (that's the perception). It's just weird. Offering the food to a homeless guy would be great but you couldn't tell her about t. She would Just have to see it happen. In fact, any charity work you do has to be brought up subtly or she'll know your angle... |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sat Aug 09, 2014 12:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: does this count as being a "nice guy"? |
When a girl says you're 'nice' I agree that can be discouraging. This was a weird situation but in another circumstance you could say something like "yeah maybe a little out of character but that's ok, where you headed?" and then continue the chit chat, exchange info about eachother, if there is chemistry take her # or segue for an instant date or whatever. The girl doesn't mind if you're NICE; most importantly is that you're a confident individual who knows what he wants, knows how to lead situations etc. |
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| Author: | sugarwallz616 [ Sat Aug 09, 2014 4:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: does this count as being a "nice guy"? |
Being nice is a good thing, it shouldn't be something you should be ashamed of People should be nice... or maybe the right word to use in this instance is "kind"; you want to be kind to people. Women wouldn't want a decent conversation with you unless you were somewhat of a gentleman or cordial with them in the first place. The only kind of "nice" you should look out for is the one that women describe you as when they A. are trying to find a way to avoid you or guide you in a direction away from they B. Are making it clear that they have no interest in you. In short, don't be a nice guy but be a kind person. |
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| Author: | NaughtyNapoleon [ Sat Aug 09, 2014 9:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: does this count as being a "nice guy"? |
This mean she have good feeling for you. That's it. It doesn't really matter being a nice guy or a bad boy, END RESULT is what matter! Don't get yourself distracted. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Sat Aug 09, 2014 2:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: does this count as being a "nice guy"? |
I an extremely nice guy. And Im also a sexual guy. There is more than one role for you to place; and you can jump in and out of character when its necessary. Fact of the matter is; you ALWAYS try. Because thats the only way you learn. If you would of made the lip comment and she said something like " You want to kiss them? " - you would of LEARNED that you can be NICE and still get laid. I'm an NICE guy man. Now I don't ever let anyone take advantage of me. But I'm NICE to everyone. I'm also flirty and sexual. |
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| Author: | ElijahGuru [ Sun Aug 10, 2014 2:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: does this count as being a "nice guy"? |
I don't necessarily believe that it's her saying that "you're nice" that makes you a nice guy, it all depends on whether your actions can be classified as approval seeking behavior...I mean, if you're constantly trying to please people people might say "oh, you're a nice guy" or have an opinion of you as being a nice guy. SPAM free food to a pretty girl is outside of the norm as anyone who gives out anything for free is often perceived as either being nice, or wanting something in return. It becomes easy for her to classify you as a nice guy if you commit an action such as SPAM free food. Hope this makes sense... -Elijah |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sun Aug 10, 2014 4:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: does this count as being a "nice guy"? |
Quote: I an extremely nice guy. And Im also a sexual guy. There is more than one role for you to place; and you can jump in and out of character when its necessary. Fact of the matter is; you ALWAYS try. Because thats the only way you learn. If you would of made the lip comment and she said something like " You want to kiss them? " - you would of LEARNED that you can be NICE and still get laid.
What he said.
I'm an NICE guy man. Now I don't ever let anyone take advantage of me. But I'm NICE to everyone. I'm also flirty and sexual. |
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