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Author:  Straightforward [ Wed Aug 06, 2014 6:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
Me: Let's meet at <x>.
She: Sorry, you are just too old for me. I don't see anything good to turn out of this.
Author:  Ardour [ Wed Aug 06, 2014 7:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
What is the age difference? Apply the standard creepiness rule (half age plus 7)

Or lots of DHV.

It is a tough one though.
Author:  TheFury [ Wed Aug 06, 2014 7:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
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Me: Let's meet at <x>.
She: Sorry, you are just too old for me. I don't see anything good to turn out of this.
Move on.
Author:  Straightforward [ Wed Aug 06, 2014 8:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
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Apply the standard creepiness rule (half age plus 7)
Pathetic advice. There is one limit and that is the legal age of consent.
Author:  neo87 [ Wed Aug 06, 2014 8:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
Lol I love how your name is straightforward yet we have no details and you still haven't said the age difference.
Author:  Straightforward [ Wed Aug 06, 2014 8:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
neo87: I love how your name is neo yet you have no details.
Author:  masterm1ne [ Wed Aug 06, 2014 8:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
This seems to fall into the category of shit test.

I'd push it further, and basically ignore what she said. Try to arrange a meet. Then if she doesn't meet you or stops responding blow it off...
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Aug 06, 2014 9:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
She isn't responding to your text; she is responding to the way she feels about you. Your age has nothing to do with it; she is just searching for something to pin the discomfort she feels for you on.

If you were an amazing charming guy that new how to make her feel like a woman it wouldn't matter what your age was.

She's being polite, instead of just ignoring you. I think you may want to write out what your interaction was with this girl/ how did you meet her/ how many dates/ and where things went wrong. So we can get to the root of why she is even rejecting you in the first place.
Author:  neo87 [ Wed Aug 06, 2014 9:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
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neo87: I love how your name is neo yet you have no details.
Huh?

Anyway, you have given no details to get a good answer. Where did you meet the girl, how did you meet her, was she interested, what has happened so far. Especially the age difference. Two different things if you're 25 and number closed a 14 yr old or you're 25 and number closed an 18 yr old. Omitting this once could be a mistake.... but 3 times, you're hiding it. Since I can only assume she is underage, let her go.
Author:  Ardour [ Thu Aug 07, 2014 1:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
It's not pathetic advice. It's a factual social trend, proven by tons of data analysis and research done by online dating websites. You are multiple times more likely to succeed when sticking to this convention due to the genera views of society.

Of course it's not a exacting limiting factor. There will always be outliers on the bell curve. One of the girls I work with is 21 and is dating a 52 year old. He's not rich or anything special, he just makes her happy and she is very mature for her age.

You still haven't mentioned how old you and this chica are.

Forum rule #3 anyone?
Author:  brandnew2 [ Thu Aug 07, 2014 1:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
Eddie nailed it. An age gap is nothing but an out for a woman. If you were her age she would use a more tried and true excuse like "I'm just so busy lately!"

Most women seek validation and self worth through the man they're seeing. Being older than them is a good thing, as long as your game is strong and you DHV.
Author:  Straightforward [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 8:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
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If you were an amazing charming guy that new how to make her feel like a woman it wouldn't matter what your age was.
You don't know that.
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She's being polite, instead of just ignoring you.
You don't know that either.
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So we can get to the root of why she is even rejecting you in the first place.
She is rejecting me because she is very religious. Over the course of texts even her brother(!) went in via text, asking, how old I was. Yes, for her it was about age because she is afraid of being judged by her family and community and she has to play the good girl.
Author:  J.Daniels [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 8:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
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If you were an amazing charming guy that new how to make her feel like a woman it wouldn't matter what your age was.
You don't know that.
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She's being polite, instead of just ignoring you.
You don't know that either.
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So we can get to the root of why she is even rejecting you in the first place.
She is rejecting me because she is very religious. Over the course of texts even her brother(!) went in via text, asking, how old I was. Yes, for her it was about age because she is afraid of being judged by her family and community and she has to play the good girl.

You're asking for advice, but you're shutting down any that you get. The fact of the matter is, Eddie is right; if you made her feel right, age wouldn't matter. When a woman is truly in love, I mean head over heels, she'll go against everything she believes in. Women leave their families for a fling because they fall in love. You think a little age gap will matter? Although, judging by the way you won't tell us the gap, you're ashamed of it. Maybe thats why shes rejecting, because you're insecure and under-confident? I'm sorry but you need to take the advice on board and realise that it is more than likely the truth.
Author:  Ardour [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 9:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
Emotionally, I have to agree, age is irrelevant.
Socially, larger age gaps are frowned upon.

He's not helped himself by still refusing to explain anything about the situation but he has a point.

The advice were giving is onay vague because we have NO information
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I don't see anything good can come of this
It's obviously a social issue. She's interested but not invested enough to take the heat from her family and friends. If you see this going serious then you need to work your text game and REALLY impress her. Otherwise it's not worth the effort.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 9:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts - Sorry, you are just too old for me
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...REALLY impress her.
Bad advice.

@OP: We can't help you if you're not providing enough information. Eddie is most likely right on the dot. I'm currently dating an 18 year old and a 20 year old (new girls). I'm 45.

You'll be missing a lot of field tested advice if you don't provide enough details.
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