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Author:  J.Daniels [ Sun Aug 03, 2014 6:49 pm ]
Post subject:  How can I turn her off!?

Basically getting close to a girl that I met on Tinder (to help me get over my ex) and shes clingy. I don't want a relationship out of her, just female company to help shift my oneitis.

I've let her suck my dick twice and fucked her in the ass - my bad, don't judge me - I've been straight with her about not wanting a relationship, but shes treating it like we're exclusive.

EVERYONE is acting like we're in a relationship. Even her parents (who know nothing about me and have never met me) hate me, for the simple fact that I'm out of a job (well, I do agency work which is usually 10 hours or less a week, due to a recent drop in available work)

How can I stop her wanting me? Don't suggest something like "just be really needy" because shes madly in love, that'd just make her love me twice as bad... until 6 months time when it'd start to put her off lol.

I like having her around, not just for the sexual side of things though.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Aug 03, 2014 6:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I turn her off!?

Why not just be alone and grieve through the process like a healthy person would? Don't want to put the work in?

You're enjoying this, feel a sense of euphoria and are looking for validation from other guys about your 'conquest' and feeble attempt at overcoming your last relationship. Seriously this all looks very lame, and now you're asking how to put a lid on something that's gotten out of control (which you let it)? Come on now. Give your head a shake.

You were 'man' enough to share how you fucked her in the ass to a bunch of anonymous ppl on a PUA bored, and how she's all over you like a cheap suite (feels good, huh!)...you won't even tell her what the relationship is to you (at least you'd be honest about things) and are now supposedly bothered about her wanting something more than you're willing to give.

Desperate people attract other desperate people. You need your validation/ego stroke, and she's a clinger. If you ask me (and you didn't, which I personally don't give a f*cK) you two are perfect for each other.

Author:  J.Daniels [ Sun Aug 03, 2014 7:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I turn her off!?

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Why not just be alone and grieve through the process like a healthy person would? Don't want to put the work in?
Because every bit of advice I could find, was to bang other girls. It isn't my fault she fell in love, so don't act like it is.

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You're enjoying this, feel a sense of euphoria and are looking for validation from other guys about your 'conquest' and feeble attempt at overcoming your last relationship. Seriously this all looks very lame, and now you're asking how to put a lid on something that's gotten out of control (which you let it)? Come on now. Give your head a shake.
First line is pathetic and incorrect, rest isn't even worth entertaining.
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You were 'man' enough to share how you fucked her in the ass to a bunch of anonymous ppl on a PUA bored, and how she's all over you like a cheap suite (feels good, huh!)...
I was "man" enough to tell you that stuff, because I wanted to make sure you understood how far it had gone, and how I'd done more than I should have, you fool.
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you won't even tell her what the relationship is to you (at least you'd be honest about things)
Did you not see where I said I've been straight with her? Do you know what that means? Is English not your first language? I've told her countless times, and she doesn't listen.
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Desperate people attract other desperate people. You need your validation/ego stroke, and she's a clinger. If you ask me (and you didn't, which I personally don't give a f*cK) you two are perfect for each other.
One of the most ridiculous assumptions I've ever seen. I liked a lot of your other posts, but you're way off. I asked for advice, not random (and incorrect) insults.

Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Aug 03, 2014 7:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How can I turn her off!?

End the relationship. Find a new FWB who is less clingy.

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