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Author:  Johndigwood120 [ Sat Aug 02, 2014 3:31 pm ]
Post subject:  On vacation with a girl i like
Hey guys, going to make this as simple as possible

-I have a GF
- SPAM im on vacation with 3 friends, 2 girls and 1 guy
- Mid-Vacation i started to like girl A
- Been friends with her for about a year, met eachother when we both had a gf and bf so we kinda instantly got in the friendzone with eacohther
- She knows im going to break up with my GF after vacation (unrelates to her)
- She told me in the past she thinks im a "8.6" (rating), that im her type and that she COULD fall for me
- This vacation we've been really close, (thats why instarted to like her) one day we got drunk and sat on the beach holding hands etc. Nothing more than that happened untill now

- Yesterday it was really bad weather with lightning and he knows im scared for lightning so she told me to get in her bed with her (she sleeps with the other girl thats with us )
- Spent the night in their bed and she was reallt sweet to me, carassing my head and stuff, i did the same to hee too and we were lyong really close to ecother,
- Wake up the day after and heard from the other guy thats with us that she said something along the lines of "when the lightning stopped it would have been better of he just went to his own bed ".
- Confronted her and said she could have jist told me that instead of talking about it when i was away, she said it wasnt that extreme as the other giy told me, really confusing situation
- 4 days left till we go home


Now im not sure what to do here, any advice guys? Should injust "game" her like a normal girl eventho weve known eachoter for a year? Just straight up tell her or what? Im really lost here..

Thanks in advance
Author:  Versalis [ Sat Aug 02, 2014 4:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: On vacation with a girl i like
Lol. Look, she had to say she didn't really want you in bed with her. Saying anything else makes it seem like she's into you. And also possibly had sex with you. Yet you have a GF. Girls are very, very concerned about saving face.

She's into you, and up for fucking. Let your actions do the talking for her. Hold her, kiss her, take her back to your room. Just make sure you're at least a little discrete about it. You're with mutual friends and most girls want to test the waters with you, away from an audience.
Author:  Johndigwood120 [ Sun Aug 03, 2014 8:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: On vacation with a girl i like
Alright, thanks, yesterday we were laying in bed (the other 2 were also sitting in the bed) and we were holding hands, she wasn't drunk ill add to that. I was a bit tipsy tho and it seemed like she was way more "into me" when i have alcohol in me, maybe she's scare i will reject her when in sober? Anyway ill try to make a move when the right moment presents itself
Author:  Johndigwood120 [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 12:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: On vacation with a girl i like
UPDATE

So i fucked up hard lol, i got a bit too drunk one night and went for a walk with her, told her that this vacation i really started to notice that she's my type and the kind of girl that fits with me.. (Didn't told her i like her, i just told her she's my kind of girl). Then she said that she really liked my honesty (lol) but didn't feel the same about me


Now we are home again and i really like her, it sucks but whatever, i already deleted her from instagram and stuff, should i just freeze her out and get over her ASAP? Going to break up with my GF tomorrow too and just be single

Also, could someone explain to me why, if she doesn't feel the same about me, she would hold my hand when we are lying in bed under the blanket and caress my leg etc. ? Just curious


Thanks in advance guys

PS: Fuck alcohol
Author:  Versalis [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 4:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: On vacation with a girl i like
I said she wanted to fuck you. You then proceeded to have "I want you to be my girlfriend" talk. That's a whole other thing.
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Let your actions do the talking for her.
I said that for a reason. You do not have conversations like that with friends. I never do that when I start sleeping with friends(unless *she* initiates the conversation).

Even if you want her to be your girlfriend, wait until you've slept together(several times, over at least a week long period) before you suggest it.

What to do now? Just ignore it. Deleting her off of social media is a just a butt-hurt move, unless you just can't bear the idea of seeing her on your friends list or something. Since you have mutual friends with this girl, she's going to tell some of them about this. The cooler you play this, the better.
Author:  Johndigwood120 [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 5:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: On vacation with a girl i like
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Let your actions do the talking for her.
I said that for a reason. You do not have conversations like that with friends. I never do that when I start sleeping with friends(unless *she* initiates the conversation).
That was my plan until i got drunk and thought to myself "fuck it lets just say this"

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What to do now? Just ignore it. Deleting her off of social media is a just a butt-hurt move, unless you just can't bear the idea of seeing her on your friends list or something. Since you have mutual friends with this girl, she's going to tell some of them about this. The cooler you play this, the better.
Alright, thanks. Ill just act like its not a big deal to me and continue to game other girls when im single. By the way, do you have any tips on how to act around her? As u said, we have a lot of mutual friends so im going to be seeing her eventually.. Also, do you think that i ruined it all with this girl or that, if i play it correctly, there will be another opportunity in the future to have sex/date/have fun/whatever with this girl?
Author:  Versalis [ Fri Aug 08, 2014 8:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: On vacation with a girl i like
Girls are fickle. Nothing is certain or even all that consistent. However, if she was attracted to you once, she probably will be again. I would act like I always do around her.
Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Sat Aug 09, 2014 9:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: On vacation with a girl i like
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Alright, thanks. Ill just act like its not a big deal to me and continue to game other girls when im single. By the way, do you have any tips on how to act around her? As u said, we have a lot of mutual friends so im going to be seeing her eventually.. Also, do you think that i ruined it all with this girl or that, if i play it correctly, there will be another opportunity in the future to have sex/date/have fun/whatever with this girl?
Ya, move on dude. It's a mistake there to be honest. But not big deal, everybody make mistakes, the important thing is what you learnt from that mistake? Might be not drinking so much ?

And Never make the same mistakes again.

Life's short for making same mistakes over and over again.

Cheer and carpe diam ;)
Author:  Ardour [ Sun Aug 10, 2014 11:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: On vacation with a girl i like
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That was my plan until i got drunk and thought to myself "fuck it lets just say this"
the death of us all.
Author:  Cdharders [ Mon Aug 11, 2014 1:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: On vacation with a girl i like
Versalis is giving great insight. Never have that talk. Actions speak louder than words. Freezing her out is immature. She didn't do anything to deserve that. It's really reactive.
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