I met this cute girl at this dance a few weeks ago and she was interesting and she asked me to facebook her at the end of the dance which I took as an IOI so I facebooked her and left messages. She then showed little interest so I took her as one of my failures and left it at that. Recently last week I left a message as a last ditch attempt to get any response be it positive or negative before I removed her from my friends list. Here's our history of convo on facebook.
Me :: I usually forget names but I actually remembered yours, I don't know why I guess Hover was easy to remember. Anyway It was nice meeting you. You danced pretty well but you weren't the best I danced with tonight but you were good enough to remember. Next time I'll teach you some moves
Anyway, I have something cool to show you sometime if you are interested but it's a one time offer since I have a lot of work this week. Let me knowCharlie
(the next day)
Her::yeha i have a lot of work this week too .. four test! eeck!
(2 days later)
Me::good luck on your tests, I hope you test negative, but if you don't, don't beat yourself up, they give pills for most things. good luck, and don't share so much next time, i don't know you nearly well enough for those details yet
she never responded after that so I left it at that until now.
(4 weeks later/ 5 days ago)
Me::I never bothered to ask.... until now...why, did you ask me to facebook you if you never intended to be a friend and at least make convo? LOL..why should i keep you?
- Chaz
(just now)
Her::i had asked you to friend me because at the time you seemed very nice.. but the past two messages you made fun of my dancing and then made me feel guilt fr asking to be your friend.. that ot the most inviting conversation starter
(Just now/my response)
Me::
First, my dancing sucks too ( I was just kidding with you, I wasn't being serious, it wasn't my intention to insult you.), Second I'm sorry I appear mean I'm really not, I guess my sense of humor can appear mean and thats my fault. Third I didn't want to be "another number" on your friends list I've had some girls say "oh facebook me!" in the past and that was the last I heard from them. so I was kinda mean about that because I thought thats what this was about, i'm sorry. If you want to delete me thats fine. But I honestly didn't mean to insult you i was just teasing. To be honest I thought you were really nice at the dance too or else I wouldn't have facebooked you.
- Chaz
I guess negging doesn't work for some girls or maybe I over negged. What do you guys think? Any help would be great. I already moved on and took her as a lost case so Im not too worried.
