so basically i was known as a smooth guy, always had clever lines, jokes for every occasion, perfect advice, and charming compliments....i still think the same but i always have a pause somewhere in a conversation or even every sentence to think of what i want to say.....it's hard for me to say what im trying to say, and im often stuck with a lack of words.....my English is horrible (probably from hanging around guys who are from the hood lol) and i want to get better at it, how would i become a better, smoother speaker again?...it use to come natural but now.....