hey so first time posting but here it goes someone told me to repost this here... me and this girl have been best friends for a while and we had a thing but i didnt want to go out with her then and now i really fell for her hard. We hooked up before (not sex) and i told her i liked her and she said she didnt feel the same and well we continued our friends with benefits one day i asked her why she didnt like me and she said "idk i just dont see u that way" (friend zone). so i had a plan i am going on vacation for 3.5 weeks i just wont talk to her during that time and ill come back a changed person and that should work (since we are best friends i thought she would miss me and then not take me for granted and then maybe like me also). well it may have worked if this guy didnt come in and screw things up. they met lik 2 or 3 weeks ago and they r head over heels for each other. which got me mad because i have tried so many things for the past year to get her and nothing has worked. so i assumed she wants something new. but idk what to do?? any advice??? im really stuck here
