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| Author: | Tyler13 [ Mon Jul 14, 2014 9:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Facebook situation |
I don't know if there is any meaning in this but just help me decipher what this girl is thinking. Situation So I was dating this girl around Christmas time last year. We went out one night, drank a little, she told me she was a virgin, I took her virginity. We fuck a few times, turns out she didn't like being video taped(I made a few amateur videos), although I did it with her consent she later changed her mind about it. I had no problem deleting these videos except the way she reacted was a bit excessive. She ruined several of my friendships and the friendships of others not involving me directly. She trusted me enough to tell me about her past, her childhood, and even her mental health issues.(she used to be obsessive, paranoid and maybe delusional) The interesting tidbit She blocked me off of facebook directly after this incident. I didn't check till a few weeks ago and I noticed she unblocked me. It's been 7 months since What gives? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Mon Jul 14, 2014 10:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
She is kind of over it I guess. perhaps bait her by posting some relevant crap that she would like, then send her a "hey, how are you doing?" message when she 'likes' your shit... |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 12:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
If you're blocked man, it's over. A block is a digital 'fuck off, I'm not interested'... just accept it. Trying to overcome it just makes you look desperate. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 1:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
Quote: If you're blocked man, it's over.
A block is a digital 'fuck off, I'm not interested'... just accept it. Trying to overcome it just makes you look desperate. The op's statement was that she unblocked him though?  I do agree it's probably a lost cause, but there must be a reason she unblocked him, even if it is a small ioi |
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| Author: | Hint [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 1:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
Quote: Quote: If you're blocked man, it's over.
A block is a digital 'fuck off, I'm not interested'... just accept it. Trying to overcome it just makes you look desperate. The op's statement was that she unblocked him though? I do agree it's probably a lost cause, but there must be a reason she unblocked him, even if it is a small ioi |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 1:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
I need more coffee this morning. Whoops. |
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| Author: | Hint [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 2:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
Quote: I need more coffee this morning.
haha meto, meto..
Whoops. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 2:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
I don't think the videos were the issue. She must have felt like you were mostly just interested in her for sex, and she probably wanted a relationship. The videos may have been the medium she used to decide that you and she were not interested in the same outcome, but ultimately the videos were not the problem. However she "ruined" your other relationships, I would take that as a good sign to stay the fuck away from this girl. I'm one of the last people here to say to next somebody. However, girls that seek out revenge and driving social wedges are insanely dangerous. They're also the kind of girl that makes up reasons to bring in police, and picks up dudes in a bar to white knight for her by sending them after you. That's not even a third of them, but it's a disturbingly high portion and just not worth. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 3:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
Agreed. Probably also the type of girl that would do pregnancy scare tactics |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 4:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
Don't go backwards bro. All the guys above are correct, but I would completely advise you against going backwards. Its very rare that anything is ever there. Just keep on plowing forward with your life I would say. As I was telling my boy today " There's so many women.. If half of the women on earth disappeared, there would still be too many women. ". Thats just the way I see it. Theres too many women and too few men who have access to them. If she reaches out to you or something like that cool. But I would advise you to push on through life like none of this ever happens. You'll be rewarded with an energy for having this attitude that is so attractive, you'll be twice as effective with women. Sometimes a loss today is a win tomorrow. Peace & Love |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Tue Jul 15, 2014 5:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
Elaborating on the above, what does messaging somebody who's already rejected you do to your sense of self? If you had a strong self to begin with you would pay no mind to the girl, but wanting to engage with somebody who's shown obvious sign of a lack of disinterest, there's nothing to be gained. You'll message her and likely not get a response and feel dumb as a result. Focus your energies elsewhere, and on other chicks. |
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| Author: | Tyler13 [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 6:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
Wow I forgot I even had made this post. Firstly, Everyone is spot on. 1. You guys are right, she did threaten to bring the police(she had bruises from the few times we had sex, I like giving it rough) in if I didn't comply with erasing the videos(fuck, I should have backed them up) 2. So she actually tried to get the brother of a girl I was dating then to beat me up by telling him that I was video taping his sister while we have sex. Who does that? wtf. I would not be surprised if she tried getting some white knight from the bar to kick my ass. Seems possible in her realm 3. The only reason I made this post was to see what that means. Not gonna lie, She was hot and she was a good fuck. It was cute to see her play with my penis(first penis she's seen) and her sounds were good, fuck I'm horny. I'm not planning on messaging her tho 4. I have been focusing on myself and I have been moving forward( have a new fuck buddy). She was a very good fuck tho, fuck! |
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| Author: | falboe [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 7:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Facebook situation |
They're the kind of girl that makes up reasons to bring in police, and picks up dudes in a bar to white knight for her by sending them after you. |
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