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| Author: | 123abc [ Wed Mar 05, 2008 10:41 pm ] |
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so i met this girl this past saturday at traffic school.... we have been texting and myspace chatting monday/ tuesday, the text/comment are always flirty , but i am the one that keeps on having to initiate the text messages, i dont mind but i dont want to come across as desperate or stalker status... and we have plans to hang on thurs (tomoorrow) night... should i call jus call her or wait to see if she hits me up???? |
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| Author: | Medic [ Wed Mar 05, 2008 10:44 pm ] |
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I say hold out, let her invest some time and effort. |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Wed Mar 05, 2008 10:48 pm ] |
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If you've ALREADY got plans set, don't be clingy or needy and "ask her if she's still good with the plans". Either she's good or she's gonna flake. You contacting her again will increase the chances of her flaking because you won't come across as confident. Just chill. |
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| Author: | 123abc [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 4:09 am ] |
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the plans werent a actual planned event, it was more we are gonna hang on thurs. does that make a difference on the way i should approach this... or should i ignore her completely if she doesnt hit me up at all even tomorrow? |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 7:37 am ] |
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Ok, details are what I need. If there is a time and place set, it's done. If not, it depends. What exactly has been set? |
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| Author: | 123abc [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:01 am ] |
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no time or place... we were gonna hang on saturday night, but she had to go "study", but she made a point to say that she wasnt blowing me off and wanted to hang later in the week, so than somehow when we were talking on the phone sat night, she told me she was free thursday to hang out, and i told her that was fine |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:05 am ] |
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Quote: no time or place... we were gonna hang on saturday night, but she had to go "study", but she made a point to say that she wasnt blowing me off and wanted to hang later in the week, so than somehow when we were talking on the phone sat night, she told me she was free thursday to hang out, and i told her that was fine
Oooookkkk, ic. Alright, text her tomorrow with a short, to the point text telling her when and where. If she doesn't respond, assume it's done. If she flakes, move on. If she does respond, calibrate according to what she says. FYI, for future reference, you already gave her control with "I told her that was fine". But for now, handle it this way. |
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| Author: | 123abc [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:08 am ] |
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alright thanks a bunch man, i jus discovered all this PUA stuff today haha oh and should i pick her up or meet her.... or is this more of a calibration thing |
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| Author: | Tatty [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 3:30 pm ] |
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i would say meet her, just say when and where (like a coffee place) with out asking if that would suit her. make it so ur basicaly "im doing this tomorrow so im going to let you tag along" |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 3:32 pm ] |
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Quote: alright thanks a bunch man, i jus discovered all this PUA stuff today haha
Tell her to meet you at the destination.oh and should i pick her up or meet her.... or is this more of a calibration thing Personally, I don't go to a girl right off the bat. What I have to offer to a girl is worth her coming to me. Since you're just starting with PUA, you need to find a copy of the Venusian Arts Handbook and read it. Also, pick up a copy of Rules Of The Game and read that. Those two books will answer a LOT of your questions. |
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| Author: | 123abc [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:15 pm ] |
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aight thanks again, i am already 80 pages in the venusian arts handbook and ill look for the other one l8r |
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| Author: | L.A. Tripp [ Thu Mar 06, 2008 8:20 pm ] |
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Quote: aight thanks again, i am already 80 pages in the venusian arts handbook and ill look for the other one l8r
Excellent.
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